Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

Where can I find some good presentas for my boyfriend? I have no idea what to get him. Can you paste me some good gift links, I also have my sis and his dad to buy for. I want random not rude presents.

2006-12-12 04:03:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-12 04:02:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going, cheers people enjoy the rest of your evening answering strange and wonderful questions. Goodnight and don't let the bedbugs bite.XX

2006-12-12 04:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by Duisend-poot 7 in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated on me last december with my best and only friend-she was the only one i knew in the area we moved to. before he cheated, he wasn't very sexual with me. i would go to bed crying wondering what is wrong with me and why my husband didn't want me. he said he wasn't very sexual, and he said seeing me have our daughter turned him off. the whole situation confuses me b/c in our relationship he has been the one to gain weight, even though i've had two children i am still 125 pounds. i am not ugly either. my friend he cheated with was pretty, but fat. we aren't friends anymore! he always said she was gross. i'm trying to work things out with him. since i found out he cheated, he has been sexual and loving and apologetic, but i still find myself angry and depressed some days. he says that i have to get over it. what is yalls opinions?

2006-12-12 04:02:17 · 29 answers · asked by adi23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:02:10 · 4 answers · asked by Laura W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Am a guy who was in a beautiful relationship with another guy, for about 3 years or so. While we loved each other beyond imagination, about 5 months ago he started to talk about our future together, which doesnt exist. He was also getting friendly with another girl and recently she proposed to him without knowing he was in a live-in relationship with me. He asked me whether he should go ahead, since he was interested in the girl too. I told him to go ahead if he found happiness in a future with her...and last month, he dumped me for her...in a very very bitter way - for all that i loved, cared and sacrificed for him. Now, all I want is a little of his love, to be able to spend sometime with me but told me rudely that I am pushing him in a corner to come back. He was friendly with me last couple of weeks and says he will always love me, but needs a future with this girl so cant love me. Is it too much to ask for a little of his love, since I feel so lonely and depressed without him?

2006-12-12 04:02:10 · 2 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-12 04:01:59 · 30 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Singles & Dating

I just cant leave him,hes a really good person but i think our age difference (13 years) has gotten in the way.I wanna go out and he doesnt like too,even though he will go out just to please me,but i dont think its fair for him.And now i see him as my friend.And Im doing worse by talking to a young guy whos so funny and likes to go out and likes to do almost everything i do.My husband already found about about him and just forgave me and just wants us to work it out.But i cant i think about the other person so much.But I know that if I leave my husband i will lose my family and his family and just everything.So my question is is it worth losing everything over the person you love.I need opions of people that have had a similiar situation.I can say that now i have it all materialistic,house sports car,money here and there,i dont work,and since i got maried so young I have never been independent,i have never payed bills or pumped gas or any thing like that,so is it worht ;losing it all?

2006-12-12 04:01:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend Tom share the same birthday on 14th May, I'll be 25 and he will be 22. We want a joint birthday party with an original theme that lad's and ladette's can dress up for! Any fancy dress idea's? I thought of 'vicars and tarts' or 'pimps and ho's' but wanted something a bit more funny and original? Please help, as I said the best answer not only gets 10 points, your also invited!!!

2006-12-12 04:01:46 · 19 answers · asked by Totty D 3 in Singles & Dating

I really liked him but he hasn't called me yet, should i be worried? should i call him?

2006-12-12 04:01:08 · 28 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I don't wanna marry her... she's ugly and stupid. I am nasty to her and make fun of her, but she still loves me. All girls love me, though, so it's nothing new? Anyway... what do I do to get her to stop wanting to marry me?

2006-12-12 04:01:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:00:50 · 8 answers · asked by shivani a 1 in Singles & Dating

I was separated 13 months ago and have been divorced for 6 months. Even though my marriage was short and my ex treated me like less than a person, I've found it very hard to get past this pain. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me?

2006-12-12 04:00:09 · 7 answers · asked by f119pw100turbofan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

some really awful things to me. Saying I was a bad mother, bad friend, bad student. They said I was a liar and a manipulator. That I bring absolutely nothing to my relationships. This coming from a man who is a felon with a heroin addiction!! My biggest problem is that it is hard to distance myself from them because we have a lot of close, mutual friends. I get left out of a lot of things now. And our mutual friends have done nothing really to defend me. How can I deal with this? I hate that my friends would not tell them where to go after all the things they said. I hate that someone I was such good friends with could allow her husband to just ream me out. I just do not know what to do? Should I distance myself from everybody? Should I keep my mouth shut and wait for it to end? What? Please help.

2006-12-12 03:59:19 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

my parents are really doing me head in and so is my sister im 14 years old and it feels like i hate them my mum calls me all the time my sister cals me nd annoys me is this common when going threw puberty will it change when im older. i wanna get on with my mum n dad n sis bt its sooo hard and they annoy me soo much please help w/b a.s.a.p

2006-12-12 03:59:07 · 6 answers · asked by Beautiful-But-deadly 1 in Family

I have 5 sons-21, 20, 18(twins) & 10. Last Jan. my then 19 yr. old sent went to "boot camp" for the Army National Guard. He came back for good in June. Thankfully, he hasn't been deployed yet. He had weekend training sessions for about 2 months before he went. Now, one of my 18 yr.old (identical) twin sons is leaving for Marine boot camp-he'll be gone for 13 weeks & comes home for 10 days & then I don't know when I'll see home again. Now, I'm a hard-knocks kind of girl. I don't usually get emotional unless someone's on their death bed, but inside, I'm really starting to fall apart. Does he REALLY know what he's in for? Where will he go after the 13 weeks? He has no early training like my other son, can he take it? Will he be hurt & I won't know it? Will he come home completely changed ? Or worse yet, not at all? I'm so afraid of not seeing him, of losing him. How do I stay cheerful for my other kids (including 4-step,2 adult-2young ones) & family when all I want is to cry & be alone?

2006-12-12 03:58:50 · 9 answers · asked by Sandra 5 in Family

Has anyone lived on the Yokota, Japan base? Do the homes or apartments already have furniture or do we need to bring our own? whats it like? what impotant things should we know?

2006-12-12 03:57:37 · 3 answers · asked by corrick_1 6 in Weddings

how wil i get 1?

2006-12-12 03:57:26 · 41 answers · asked by meagan m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this man for 5 years and we have a daughter who will be 2 in February. We own a home together as well. I was checking our phone bill the other day and noticed that he was talking to his ex-girlfriend. I confronted him about it and he said that nothing was going on. He said that he was just telling her that he was doing really good now. He says that he has not seen her. I do believe him on that account he does not have time to see anyone else with work and home. I am still hurt and do not want him talking to his ex (we have had issues with her in the past). He says he will not do it anymore if it hurts me. What should I do? Should I trust him to talk with her if he says that he is just being friends or should I tell him not to talk to her. Or should I just break it off completely. Thank you for your advice

2006-12-12 03:57:25 · 19 answers · asked by angelahawthorne@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

how many hours a day do you spend cleaning your house? im trying to get my house together and i feel like im going in circles with no result. i have 2 boys and my house is so un orginized between the 4 of us in our house we have too much stuff, and its all over the place. im trying to get a routine going , but its difficult . i also just had a death in my family, so ive got alot on my mind . does anybody have any suggestions? oh by the way i have 4 bedrooms, 3 bathrooms, livingroom ,familyroom to clean.my husband works really hard evoryday so i take care of the house. he helps me alot on the weekends .the kids are in school and when they get home theyve got tons of homework so they spend most of the evning doing homework they clean their own rooms but not perfectly.just looking for suggestions or a plan to help me get on track.

2006-12-12 03:56:59 · 5 answers · asked by L.A. WOMAN 2 in Family

now im finding it hard to love back because i still feel a strong emotion towards my ex-girlfriend. My new GF doesnt know yet, but i want to tell her now how i really feel because i dont want to be unfair to her. but i am confused because my ex-girlfriend is already with a new guy. I feel so confused now because she is all that I want, my-exgirlfriend. i dont know what to do because i cant definitely lie to myself anymore. I am in pain now because i went to her place a couple of days ago to try to win her back, i know it was pathetic but it is what my heart is telling me. Everyday she is all im thinking about. i am having a hard time loving and moving on because of her. What should i do?

2006-12-12 03:56:54 · 5 answers · asked by brian 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that I like and he likes me He sends me messages every days saying that he loves me. And I really like him too but the thing is he lives in india and I live in California and we have never seen each other do you think I am wasting my time over him.

2006-12-12 03:56:24 · 17 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Singles & Dating

I left my daughter's father almost 5 years ago B/C he had a drug problem and still does, and his family hates me..why? I told his mother I left him cause I didn't want to tell her that I found her son dead in a hotel from getting high on drugs..and they hate my gutss, they treat me as if I have the drug problem, dah its not me its him so why hate me? His mother picks up my daughter every now and then and she gives me an attitude when she drops her off why does that lady hate me so much? I was with her son 4 years and took care of him and I just couldnt do it anymore..it was to much and I know what I did by letting him go was the right thing so what is her problem? how can I deal with this?

2006-12-12 03:55:54 · 19 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And how old do you think is the right age to start dating?

2006-12-12 03:55:47 · 15 answers · asked by Molly P 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up 2 years ago. We went out for about a year and he broke up with me because we were in a stressful situation and I think his parents were involved. We haven't contacted each other since then. It took me a while to get over him, but I did. Sometimes I do think about him because I did love him. But do you think he thinks about me sometimes?

2006-12-12 03:54:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love enough to make him come back.?
my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf

2006-12-12 03:53:48 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't get close to many people and I really don't trust people even my friends (the few I have). My supposed best friend decided she was upset with me today because I said she was over reacting to her relatonship problems. (she should really break up with him). So, she wrote me a note bitching me out and thoughing my problems in my face. She is a bit of a drama queen but it pissed me off. She throws in my face my bad relationship with an older man and the fact I don't have a real boyfriend (the older man has a girlfriend). She knows this bothers me and I don't get how I feel about these men. She knows it gets to me because i know its not right. And she thinks I'm talking about her behind her back and I'm not she hasn't been talking to me uch in the past couple weeks because she has been focused on her other friend and her boyfriend. It's driving me crazy because apperently I cant trust her eigther and she's supposed to be my best friend. What do you think?

2006-12-12 03:53:40 · 3 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Friends

2006-12-12 03:53:13 · 5 answers · asked by Almaas Ahmed 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by Andrea D. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the point???

i really like this guy but we seem to have a "cat and mouse chase" thing going on. is he really interested or is it a game?
do some guys like to play this sort of game?

2006-12-12 03:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating