Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

then why is he looking up casual encounters on craigslist in our area? looking for swinging couples and guys who wanna please a couple...Ive asked him, he says he loves me but he wants to do all of my fantasies with me, and i told him they are better left fantasies, now what?

2006-12-12 04:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by anna 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:34:23 · 4 answers · asked by cmarshalus 1 in Weddings

2006-12-12 04:34:07 · 26 answers · asked by loveable4lfe 2 in Weddings

I need help about my boyfriend. We have been together for nine months and things aren't going so good right now. Whenever we go out i always pay, cause he doesn't have a job. When ever he does get money he spends it on weed and cigarettes. Thats all he does all day. He says he cares about me and we have even talked about getting married. But it seems he only cares about his weed. I love him but i don't wanna leave cuz who else gonna love me. I'm just fat and ugly 17 year old girl. Please Help ME!!!!

2006-12-12 04:33:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am six teen years old have never had a girlfriend i have no freinds and i allways think its because the way i look is there any help for me tips or suggestioin or should i just die? why should i live where im not accepted in society?

2006-12-12 04:33:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i have a friedn and he has a girlfriend and he loves her derely but he told me that he wants to break up with her.. y?? bc 95 percent of his brain says he wants to marry her but that last five percent says... that he can get someone better looking... when i askd my boyfriend wat he thought about it.. he said no... it doesnt matter.. but now i wonder if hes thinking the same thing too...

2006-12-12 04:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by tanisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:32:40 · 10 answers · asked by VERONICA L 1 in Singles & Dating

My 2 yr bf has a child with another woman. she is married now and i think that everyone is happy with where they are. the problem that i am having is that i think that she is being very immature. she refuses to be anywhere i am. the child is in to sports. i attend the games of course and she refuses to even sit on the same side of the bleachers with me. i am not asking her to sit next to me.
i think what is really bothering me is that i was going to send her and her husband a christmas card. i think that it would be a nice gesture, but everyone that knows her thinks that it is a waste of a stamp and that they will not appreciate it
this hurts my feelings. it is not like i want to be friends with her, i just want to be civil. she asks the child personal questions about me. if she were not so sneaky i would not mind, but to act the way she does and then use her child to get information about me is wrong. if she wants to know something she should be a woman and ask me herself. right?

2006-12-12 04:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by mel2430 4 in Singles & Dating

are you jerry yan or you just one of his fan..i hate jerry yan b'coz he is very2 ugly..why many people like him...yaik!!

2006-12-12 04:31:55 · 1 answers · asked by Maddie 7 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take for a person to realize they made a mistake by moving in with someone too quickly? Does living together bring out the fact that you are incompatible faster than living separately? What if the relationship was on the rebound? Will living together highlight this fact?

2006-12-12 04:30:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my opinion...Cape Verdean, Dominican, and Brazilian....and your opinion??? And ladies, what about the men???

2006-12-12 04:30:34 · 16 answers · asked by j-chris 1 in Singles & Dating

if you saw my last question you will understand this i decided to make the move i have been realy scared of doing and im doing it tonight this is thanks to your answers do i need to do this if i want our relationship to go on i think im in love with this girl infact i know i am i aint told her this yet should i ? also what if it all goes pete tong what can i do

2006-12-12 04:30:29 · 14 answers · asked by Ricky S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He got engaged a few months ago and we're getting married in February. He bought me this beautiful diamond wedding band as my engagement ring, which we picked out together.
http://zales.imageg.net/graphics/product_images/pZALE1-2222458t400.jpg

So does he buy his own wedding ring?
Am i suppose to buy it for him?
Can give it to him as a christmas gift?
How expensive should it be?
I know he doesn't want diamonds, he wants a simple band, in a darker metal.

2006-12-12 04:30:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the web sites he goes to are- casual encounters, and all the ads pop up underneath, hes been on craigslist ...Im pretty upset i dont know what to think now...weve talked before, and he said it was out of curiosity, but he looked at a ton of themn yesterday...should I hold off the wedding, we have been together for 3 years. and very happy, he said he just wanted to make me happy by giving me some spice. we moved down here, far away from my freinds and i cant just call them up and say hay, i have this problem...so im asking you...what do you think?

2006-12-12 04:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by anna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:30:01 · 16 answers · asked by ineedadube 1 in Weddings

I have a b/f of many years well we go to a christmas party for his job at a hotel and yes their alot of drinking going on . well my b/f leaves me down stairs not say hes leaveing he gose to are room pass out well i find him and i go back down stairs cause hes passed out well why iam down thier this guy ask me to dances even know my b/f was sitting at the table with us before he passed out well i say yes i've not had fun in long time cause me and my b/f have kids so i dances with this guy and i found myself attracked to him the hole night and all i do is think about this other guy my relaship not so good with my b/f and i feel crazy cause i keep think about this other guy now but i cant stop and i am not sure what to do cause i do love my b/f but not like i use too.

2006-12-12 04:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by angeleyes12181@sbcglobal.net 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out for 6 months with her since summer, we broke up about 1 and a half week ago, she's 20 i'm 21, I was her longest relationship, she has trouble committing.. i treated her like princess... she said i was her first love, first partner, she gave me everything, but lately we argue more and more because she seems to put less effort into relationship. then finally argument came up and it was intense, i yelled, she swore.. she never want to work it out with me, she just wanted to let it go and acted like nothing happen.. I know she's still immature about relationship. but i love her very much. While she was still mad, she said that we're incompatible, never could be together again, now that she's now mad, i know she misses me but she doesn't say, and i also know she has trouble committing still.... i dunno if i can ever get her back , it's killing me, help me please :'( !!!/

2006-12-12 04:29:47 · 1 answers · asked by tele t 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a procrastinator, and get side tracked easy. I pick up, keep the dishes done, everyday. My house doesn't look messy, but I have a toddler so by the end of the day, I have toys all over, plus husband lays things around, and not much storage space here. I want to be more motivated and clean each room spottless everyday, what are some tips? How do you keep your house clean? And keep time for yourself?

2006-12-12 04:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

my boyfriend has been seperated from his wife since 1985 and he wants us to get married. but he isn't certain if he still legally needs to get divorced since it has been over 20 years. their child is in her 20's so there isn't any dependents and we don't even know what state she lives in. the last time he saw her (10 years ago) she ended up going to jail. i've heard that if you want a divoce and you can,t find the other person that you can put an ad in the paper from their last place of residence and if they don't answer it you don't need their signature. so if any of these questions can be answered we would be very grateful. thank you.

2006-12-12 04:29:22 · 22 answers · asked by a.c. at231 2 in Marriage & Divorce

HER NAME IS ASHLEY AND SHES CUTE SHE WENT 2 CENTRALL HIGH SCHOOL IN CENTRAL FALL R,I AND
LIVE IN PROVIDENCE R,I I M STILL LOOKING 4 HER . HER FATHER LIVE IN EAST PROVIDENCE R,I . SHE OLSO WENT 2 SCHOOL IN EAST PROVIDENCE R,I . I M NOT SURE I F SHE
IS STILL IN THIS STATE , BUT I M ASKING 4 HELP . HER AGE
COULD BE BETWEEN (18 , 23) PLEASE HELP ME THANKS U

2006-12-12 04:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by Carlos L 1 in Friends

2006-12-12 04:28:44 · 15 answers · asked by trina 2 in Singles & Dating

was with this girl for 3 years im 20 now we lived togather and everything. We had jelousy problems with each other. I started to take her for granted and not realize what i had. We been broken up 2 and half months now we have contact still and met up a few times she tells me that she cant deal with my jealousy and that if i ever want anything to happen again that i need to be her friend and show her that we can get along she says that she liked me before why not again. i miss her so much i dont know how to get her back what is the way to go. Should i just not talk to her and if she comes back she does or should i put effort into and take my chances what you think my chances are??

2006-12-12 04:28:18 · 21 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I am about 5'9 195 lbs, and I feel pretty good about myself, I was wondering what guys really prefer, lets not be nicey nicey....
I know alot of guys that like the cushion for the pushin, what do you guys prefer?

Anyone can answer... Just a question!

2006-12-12 04:27:16 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister has been seeing this guy who she says they both agreed to not be intimate with each other for at least a year. Well last night he called her and told her he couldn't wait that long and he thought it was best that he stopped coming over and talking as much to her on the phone. He also told her that it wouldn't be fair to her if he had relations with someone else while he was supposed to be waiting for her since he loved her.(They have only been talking for a couple of months.) Is he just playing a head game with my sister trying to get her to have sex with him or is he being respectful of her? By the way, he has spent the night with her on several occassions. I thought she had sex with him on the down-low, but she still insists that they haven't done anything. What's the real deal with him?

2006-12-12 04:27:10 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

how can i keep my relationship close with my sister without pissing my boyfriend off

2006-12-12 04:27:03 · 29 answers · asked by CHERISH 3 in Family

well first ive only been going out with her for a week and we never get any time alone shes always with her best friend shes never alone. i understand friendships important and im ok with her sein her freinds a lot but there as to be a limit. she says she loves me and i love her but i havnt even kissed her yet because i never get to even see her.please give me advice.

2006-12-12 04:26:53 · 9 answers · asked by cizza_rulez 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I've been mentoring a 12 year old girl since she was 4. Her older sister was a straight A student in 8th grade and is currently a high school drop out with a 16 month old baby. Her mom just moved again. She's currently staying with her (other) sister's friend so she doesn't have to change schools twice in less than a year. (she attends a K-6 elementary school). I've put it on the table, cleared it with the school district, and discussed with her mom that maybe she should stay with us during the week and attend the 6-8 middle school by our house so she only has to change schools once (not sure how long this arrangement with the sister's friend is going to last) my husband thinks we should wait until the end of the school year if we're going to take her, or wait for a real "Crisis." She's already a year behind in school (2 years in 2nd grade) and her best chance of graduating high school is in a different household. Thoughts? Oppinions? Suggestions?

2006-12-12 04:26:48 · 12 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

what the best love words to send to my man on e.mail to say how i feel and how badly i want to be with him

2006-12-12 04:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by darkangel 2 in Singles & Dating

I am only 18 years old and have been with my fiance for a year...he wants to get married but I haven't even gone to college yet. Should I take that big step and just do it or should I wait?

2006-12-12 04:26:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce