Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

a father that does't call to see his children, if he does call it is only on a holiday... do you or do you not let him see them?

2006-12-12 04:58:46 · 20 answers · asked by countrygirl_in 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, here's the deal. 4 years ago, my husband (then boyfriend) cheated on me. I only found out a few months ago. Our entire relationship has been plagued by him lying about things. Its to the point where even when he lies about small things, it makes me sad because I just know he's not honest. I can't get over what he did. I am so sad and angry and bitter all the time. He says he won't cheat again, and that he's sorry, and that he's 100% committed to me and the kids, but he just doesn't ACT like it. You know what I mean... I just don't feel like he means it. I don't trust him. He's telling me I'm beating a dead horse whenever I bring it up. He acts like we should just get to a happy ending without dealing with the messy facts in the middle. Then he says if I won't believe him, he shouldn't even bother trying... which only makes me believe even more that he's just going to cheat again. What would you do?

2006-12-12 04:58:45 · 19 answers · asked by Sara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 5'9 195 lbs, size 12, I got the d cups, so am I fat? Or what? i once won a costume contest where I dressed as Jennifer Tilly in Chucky.... aparently I look like her.
So am I fat or not... This pisses me off.

2006-12-12 04:58:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Dr, Jim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at work
in a relationship
with men

2006-12-12 04:56:53 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i moved in too fast into another relationship thinking she (new gf) is the right one. Now, i realised that I still long for my old relationship and i am determined to fight for that feeling that i have even though my old gf is already seeing a new one. Now myproblem is how an i going to break the news to my new gf that i am still in love with my ex? she is a bit sensitive and i dont want to hurt her feelings...

2006-12-12 04:56:28 · 24 answers · asked by brian 2 in Singles & Dating

he said if and when he and his girlfriend break up. he's gonna be at me

2006-12-12 04:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by negress07 2 in Singles & Dating

my fiance is like my best friend and he is over seas and when we call and talk all he says is that he misses me and that he loves me... as slow as i am i dont know if he really does or if he is over exaggerating or not.... i tell him alot that i miss him adn i dont want people to answer thinking i am retarded but he lives in another country and it is really hrad on me we have been together for 1 year adn 4 months and we stuck it out through thick adn thin and we are getting married in 2009 or 2010. We are talking about marriage and children and he really wants to be with me for the rest of his life. Someone please tell me whats going through his mind, is he serious about marriage or is he just wanting to be with me nomatter it takes and say anything to me to be with me quicker???!? I want to be with him forever so please give me some advice on what i should do?? should i be wit him or not?? DO YOU THINK HE REALLY LOVES ME??? HELP ME PLEEEEEEEEASE!!! THIS IS MY LIFE HERE!!! (SIGH)

2006-12-12 04:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by saved 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for a long while now I wanna give something special I know he has done the same already for me.

2006-12-12 04:55:16 · 7 answers · asked by bluemami06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by rejix 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 5 years and it has not been a bowl of cherries let me tell you. My husband is a drunk and he when he is under the influance he tends to call me names and be verbaly abusive. I love my husband with all of my heart we have two wonderful children together and I truly love him we have been thorugh so much. I cant live without him.. But in the past couple of months i have not want to have sex with him at all i hate it when he touches me in that way it literally makes me sick to my stomach. So here is the question...This man approched me and started to talk to me and i see him around occasonaley. And i find myself really attracted to him. I get butterflies in my gut when hes around, and i know that hes interested in me because he has told me that he wants me and i started to think that i want him back. He is my friends boyfriend and me. my husband, and him, and my friend all hang out. this is the situation and i dont know what to do.

2006-12-12 04:54:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:54:39 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cought my boyfriend talking to this girl that likes him, and he was flirting! he cought me crying in the hall of school, i told him to go away, i feel so bad that he would do that to me! is that wrong? or am i just stupid?

2006-12-12 04:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by *SexiiBeast* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i scratch it?

2006-12-12 04:52:45 · 16 answers · asked by JACK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies - would you want to be on "Flavor of Love"? If so, WHY? Would you really want to "win" a date with Flavor Flav? Where do you think they find those women on that show? How do they get them to want to touch Flavor Flav (do they have to sedate them or something)?

And, if you were on the show, and you "won" - would you want to be Flavor Flav's girlfriend? Or would you run away?

2006-12-12 04:51:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love guys and they love me. I have been toldby multiple guy friends its the bubbling personality, gorgeous looks, wild about life attitude and the way I'm easy to talk to that makes any guy feel comfortable around me. I'm 16, a junior in high school and the first guy to ask me out was to the Homecoming Dance this year and after he didn't get the hook-up he wanted, he went back to his ex and we're just friends. It's not that I don't try to get the guys I like to like me back, it's just innocent flirting always turns into a friendship and in a couple weeks HE's asking me for advice with the girl he likes. How can I keep the good image, but get a BOYFRIEND out of it for once instead of just a friend who happens to be a BOY?

2006-12-12 04:51:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by BANKIE 1 in Family

My spouse decided to move to Cali. without consulting with me. I believe he found himself someone at the time he was sent out there to work previously. Now he wants my son and I to get up and move over there. I refuse to move. I want a divorce but, he doesn't. We see each other once 7-8 months. What should i do?

2006-12-12 04:50:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:49:28 · 25 answers · asked by trina 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 04:49:17 · 24 answers · asked by BokBok 2 in Singles & Dating

I have met a guy earlier this year & we ended hooking up about a two to three months ago. It was love at first sight. The only thing is that we of two different reliegions which non of us mind. We quite open to each others religions & believes & it have never been an issue between us or brought a fight between us at all. We talked about having kids in the future & even discussed the song we going to dance to at our wedding. The only thing that is working on my mind is my parents. I know that they prob wont accept it. I do not want to disrespect my parents in anyway & I do not want to break his heart & get all emotional too. Because we get along extremly well & everything. Just aint know what to do. Im caught inbetween my parents & the guy i love

2006-12-12 04:48:56 · 4 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

blowing you off on your b-day? We've been married for only 3 months and he was a complete jerk to me on my birthday this passed Sunday. The passed two birthdays were a blast (he proposed on my birthday last year).
He worked in the morning, came home around 3:30 and then fell asleep on the couch. He asked me what I wanted to have for dinner but my answer of "Chinese. From anywhere is fine." was just not acceptable. So he got me nothing. I told him that he'd completely ruined my birthday and still he thinks that somehow he's in the right. I spent the whole rest of my birthday sobbing in my room because he'd hurt me so badly. He came in at one point (around 8:30 or so) and said he was going to McDonald's and did I want anything. Yeah, that's a great birthday dinner! Then we got into a shouting match Monday morning too. He said that it's not his fault that my birthday sucked. Yeah, it just happened on its own.
I'm tempted to call his mother and tell her what a jerk he's been.

2006-12-12 04:48:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You hear of lots of $ being made from this sort of thing.

2006-12-12 04:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 04:48:01 · 19 answers · asked by rejix 2 in Singles & Dating

Thing is I'm married,should I go,or is it just a christmas drink?

2006-12-12 04:47:50 · 10 answers · asked by Ken J 4 in Singles & Dating

or ask naughty questions on here. Would your significant other be pissed about what you say on here or that you are flirting? Just curious because I know some of you are married and in serious relationships.

2006-12-12 04:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by hot like me 3 in Singles & Dating

Rather than putting down the Bon Bons and hitting the gym? Ladies ,the guys are'nt buying it . Thin and fit is way more attractive than this (Oh! I'm a real woman crap)

2006-12-12 04:46:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago b/c his ex was starting a bunch of stuff with their kids(telling him that he had a new family and stuff). They've been seperated for over 3 years and are in the middle of divorce so she was making he and I an issue in the divorce papers. He says he still wants to be with me, doesn't want ot see anyone else, and doesn't want me to. He seems to think that once the divorce is final things will be different but I figure she'll still be crazy afterwards and start trouble. Then what? Should i wait around or just move on?

2006-12-12 04:46:27 · 11 answers · asked by veronica 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my girfriend for about 4 years and she can't tell her parents because they would disown her. This is the stupidest crap I've ever heard and it's all because of their culture, which is racist in my opinion. (my race and her's are purposlely with held I don't want any bias or partiality just the truth.)

2006-12-12 04:45:33 · 3 answers · asked by Myself 4 in Singles & Dating