i cought my boyfriend talking to this girl that likes him, and he was flirting! he cought me crying in the hall of school, i told him to go away, i feel so bad that he would do that to me! is that wrong? or am i just stupid?
2006-12-12 04:54:34 · 23 answers · asked by *SexiiBeast* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen if he knew that she liked him and flirted right back thats een worse......but him flirting with soame other chick....thats not cool.. im in high school too so i no how that is. also u might wanna talk to him about it and if he gets all offenceve then break it off becaue u hae the right to cry.....no ur not stupid.....ur bf is.
2006-12-12 05:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rae [BRiiNG iiT BACK] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gracie it is wrong that your boyfriend is flirting with other girls. Your not stupid your young. This guy probably isn't going to be your last boyfriend. How is he treating you since he saw how hurt you are? How would he feel if you where flirting with other guys?Your in a tough age. If he's not concerned about your feelings then move on.
2006-12-12 05:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, feelings are NEVER wrong; they are what they are.
What I would suggest is that you don't get into any serious commitments until you are ready to think about marriage. I'm assuming, especially at your age, that getting your education and going on to make a career are your top priorities. Focus on that, trust me, they boys are going to only grow into men anyways...wait until they're men before you get into a commitment.
2006-12-12 04:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is totally wrong!
This to me means that he his VERY insecure and needs other female approval to validate himself.
I hate guys like that. No matter what you do, it will never be enough. Even if you were the worlds hottest female, he would still do this. Trust me, I've seen it.
Dude has issues. This has nothing to do with you.
2006-12-12 04:59:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on the question, the spelling, and your reaction, you must be very very young. Boys are just boys honey. It's not like any boy you date is going to be in a serious committed relationship with you. Neither of you even know the meaning of the words at such a young age.
Relax & enjoy your youth. Boys will come and go. It's no big deal and certainly not worth crying over.
2006-12-12 04:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmm, tough one.
he may be bored with you, i'm sorry to say that, but it might be true.
i've flat out abandoned girls i no longer found interesting, back in the days.
i wouldn't do it now as a 21 year old. seeing as i'm starting to have more responsibilities.
honestly, from a man's perspective, i think he's cheating on you.
also seeing as age could be a factor in all this,
how old are you, and how old is he?
2006-12-12 05:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by the one and only robertc1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a doormat girl.. Next time, when you see him flirting with other girls dun cry okay, start flirting with other guys.. Then he should get your message.. If he ask you to stop then you should ask him to do the same thing but if he still continues, it means that he is disrespecting you.. Plenty fish in the sea :-) Happy flirting :D
2006-12-12 05:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may have overreacted slightly, but thats normal. Flirting is harmless. So what if he knows this girl likes him, hes with you isnt he???? Its human nature to want to be wanted. He may just be fueling this girls interest by flirting, its harmless. He just likes the fact that she wants him and cant have him... its an ego boost, men THRIVE off of it... women do to. Dont believe me?? next time a guy starts flirting with you... flirt back. NOT AS REVENGE, but just to see how sexy it makes you feel and how HARMLESS it is.... just because he was flirting doesnt mean that he was interested. again... he is YOUR boyfriend, correct??? he wouldnt be with you if he didnt want to be.
2006-12-12 05:02:19 · answer #8 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stupid if you fall again for that guy or any other guy that does not intend to have a serious relationship.
2006-12-12 05:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by A Muslim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The flirting would get under my skin, but i wouldn't be mad about it. Who is he with afterall? It probably makes him feel good that someone besides you finds him attractive. I think it is harmless.
2006-12-12 04:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋