2006-12-12 04:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by BABYGIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have only been married for a few mths and he doesn't like to work! so i have 2 full time jobs and with my SPARE time he excepts me to cook and clean for him. He rarley tells me thank you or even i love you and WE DO HAVE LOTS OF SEX SO THAT ONE DOESNT WORK
2006-12-12 05:03:05 · update #1
and we have a 20 mth old son
2006-12-12 05:05:43 · update #2
i have a full time babysitter and he will not talk to me just like about how he is going to go and see his friends in the am and thats about all we ever talk about!
2006-12-12 05:22:21 · update #3
My husband and I, when we go to bed at night, lay there and just talk. Really talk. Talk about how your day was, ***** about what was bad, laugh about what was funny.
Never go to sleep at night with unresolved issues.
Always try to talk about them.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 05:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, can I assume then that your husband is the "stay at home dad" meaning he is full time caring for your little son?
If so, I'd say give him credit for that - that's a lot of work!
Might I suggest starting with some sort of daily talk time, maybe make it a habbit to take a walk around the block after dinner or something. It really can help.
2006-12-12 13:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to understand that a marriage is a partnership in creating a loving environment that stretches into everything you do and encounter. You do not have a partnership. You have a leach on your gift for giving love. You also have a block in loving yourself. You have probably known way before marriage what type of person you were joining yourself to and you had some idea what you thought things would be like if you added marriage. But if a person is not able to love themselves enough to improve their lives, they will not love you enough to improve your life and they will not love your marriage enough to improve it and for sure will not love their children enough to teach them how to be a quality person. You have to first accept that it is not your marriage that needs improvement but You and the person you married. If you are willing to improve loving yourself, by giving yourself more time to enjoy your life and not take on the responsibilities of the whole journey then your life will take a turn for the better. You may not be able to save the marriage, but accept that the marriage was not created just because you went before a judge or preacher and were pronounced married. It is a joining of self love to self love to create marriage and if that wasn't there to begin with the marriage only exists on paper.
2006-12-12 13:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't do it alone, he has to be involved. can't be just you doing all the giving, and doing all the work. time to leave this man unless u want to still be in the same situation 10 years from now. he feels entitled to all the benefits without putting anything in it. what a jerk.as i see it you are doing nothing wrong, but u are pulling all the weight. need to confront him , set some boundaries, and if he won't go for it, get rid of him, as all men aren't like this, what u have is actually an immature boy.
2006-12-12 13:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is to open a bank account in just your name and cancel all credit cards that are in both your names. Pay your bills from that account and whatever money is left is yours and only yours. If your husband wants something then tell him to get a job because you aren't paying for it. Stop having sex with him also.
Your husband is using you for sex and money. You really should just dump the jerk and move on to better things.
2006-12-12 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication! Don't expect your husband to read your mind or know what you want him to do! TELL HIM he loves you and will do it!
I love my wife and would do anything for her and anything she asks me to do I DO!
BUT if she doesn't ask I am just as clueless as any man, we can't read minds.
And then to state the obvious have sex often!
2006-12-12 12:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you married a child. Tell him to grow up and get a job or get out. He sounds lazy.
2006-12-12 13:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are visual and love thier wife to be sexy, so try being sexy all under
go to secretsinlace.com and check out the leg salon and other parts of the site
2006-12-12 13:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give some more details! What is wrong with your marriage?
2006-12-12 12:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex and more sex,,,,, be open mined when it comes to sex and be willing to try new things and have fun!!!!
2006-12-12 12:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋