okay i have a friedn and he has a girlfriend and he loves her derely but he told me that he wants to break up with her.. y?? bc 95 percent of his brain says he wants to marry her but that last five percent says... that he can get someone better looking... when i askd my boyfriend wat he thought about it.. he said no... it doesnt matter.. but now i wonder if hes thinking the same thing too...
2006-12-12 04:33:36 · 14 answers · asked by xswtxdrgnxgurlx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I work with all men...and 1 other woman in the oil industry. I have polled some of the guys and they say that looks do weigh in on the intial attraction. Remember this is coming from bunch of guys...............Looks are great if you want a one night stand but it takes some "alright" looks and a great personality to have a relationship. Dave said that people need to remember that roses have there thorns....they may be beautiful but they will screw you up!!!
2006-12-12 04:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by LaReyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks DO matter to men (as well as women). But men tend to be FAR more attracted by looks than women. Call us shallow, but that's how we're wired. However, with that said, if he's committed to marry someone (are they engaged?) there are no good reasons to keep "reviewing your options". Eventually, it HAS to get past simply looks and move into a deeper, more intimate relationship based on much more than looks.
2006-12-12 04:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems don t remember you need to nicely be the premier guy with the purely right clothing and autos and be the ugliest individual on the interior you are able to ought to nicely be a no longer so lovable guy and be beutiful interior and believe me it truly is what counts seems can continually be more desirable or replaced to rejoice your type and personality there are a kind of shops which will do it good get at the same time the educate beuty and the geek they provide the geeks a sparkling seem to replicate and educate the geeks how large they could be able to seem They coach the beuties to augment there brains human beings favor to in problem-free words get to attraction to close human beings you study so a lot extra that way Be your self
2016-11-25 22:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is very sad if he is prepared to give up on a long term relationship just because she isn't good looking enough. Beauty is only a very small part of a persons make up and to base a relationship on looks alone is very shallow and probably a recipe for disaster
2006-12-12 04:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by bodecia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even though most people will tell you looks don't matter they do .. everyone wants to be attracted to someone that they are with... but a lot of people get confused on which attraction you should go for when you want to be with someone it should not just be the way the person looks... yes everyone wants someone that looks good or someone that you want to be attracted to physically... but people should also go for someone you can be attracted to mentally as well because some of though most physically attracted people can be the most unattractive people in so many other ways . even though a lot of people say to me your pretty i never let it get to my head i want people to be attracted to me because I'm funny, and like sports, smart etc.not just because of my looks.. I had so many attractive guys approach me and my friends & family would say your just so picky but i have turned down mostly all of them because they had nothing else but the way they looked and a lot of them only wanted me because the way i looked physically
2006-12-12 04:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks DO matter, but that's the first filter, not the last one. If a man meets a woman, he immediately assesses whether she's attractive to him and then gets to know if the more important parts of her are also attractive. Your friend does NOT dearly love his girlfriend, or he's lying to himself.
2006-12-12 04:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by jchaddavis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are important to a relationship but it's not everything. If the person isn't physically attracted to his partner there will most likely be less physical intimacy down the road.
2006-12-12 04:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, men and boys are all VISUAL creatures. WE all want someone who is very thin and hot. No man want a fat and old chick next to us. Cupcakes, looks are everthing to the successful man, the poor man and unscessful man accepts flaws on a woman. Remember the Donal Trumps of the world, you do not see any fat and ugly woman around them????
2006-12-12 04:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person I guess. I am rather shallow that way. I can't see myself having a long-term relationship with someone even if I am emotionally attracted to them if I am not physically attracted to them.
2006-12-12 04:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Levi F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Also depends if the girl is unstandable ugly I guess you can say. Some guys couldn't care less though. But I wouldn't fully know...I'm not a guy.
2006-12-12 04:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by La Dee da 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋