I have a b/f of many years well we go to a christmas party for his job at a hotel and yes their alot of drinking going on . well my b/f leaves me down stairs not say hes leaveing he gose to are room pass out well i find him and i go back down stairs cause hes passed out well why iam down thier this guy ask me to dances even know my b/f was sitting at the table with us before he passed out well i say yes i've not had fun in long time cause me and my b/f have kids so i dances with this guy and i found myself attracked to him the hole night and all i do is think about this other guy my relaship not so good with my b/f and i feel crazy cause i keep think about this other guy now but i cant stop and i am not sure what to do cause i do love my b/f but not like i use too.
2006-12-12 04:29:58 · 8 answers · asked by angeleyes12181@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably bc you don't enjoy being with him like you used to-you even admitted it. Also, you have a degree of guilt. Add in that he neglects your needs (attention, caring) and someone else fulfilled them temporarily. Stay with him but talk to him about it.
2006-12-12 04:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Trojan8408 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question? Not really sure what you're asking. You think about this guy because he is/was giving you the "emotional" attention your b/f used to give you. Your emotional needs are not being fulfilled by your b/f. You have several options; look for new and exciting ways to spice up your relationship with your b/f, if he can't or wont address your emotional needs have a "fling" with this guy or pursue something with him.
2006-12-12 12:41:21 · answer #2 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to communicate these ideas with your B/F sometimes in relationships things get kinda mundane or slow. you may want to tell this other guy to back off until you make a decision about which way you want to go because creepin around behind your mans back will just complicate things between you two....remember you have kids together so make sure you make the right choice for you.
2006-12-12 12:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by B-Man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the reason why men behave like JEALOUS BASTARDS sometimes...cause women fall in love to easily.
Well done honey, you ve just destroyed a relationship. U say that its not like it used to be? all relationship are like that! Forget the guy, and stop making excuses like "my relationship wasnt working".
2006-12-12 12:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your commitment to your current B/F you may just be in need of something "new". If you're not married, and your current B/F is not paying attention to you, then perhaps it's time to move on...and start that relationship with your new guy!
2006-12-12 12:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you have kids bar hopping stops.your b/f is a drunken bum.if kids are yours and They are under 17 you should not be dating.take care the kids, kick the bum out.if kids belong to the bum,call the social services and you keep out of it.
2006-12-12 12:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by binda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause your b/f isn't seeing to your needs i reckon?
2006-12-12 12:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the B/F!!! or come see me!! LOL!!
2006-12-12 12:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋