the web sites he goes to are- casual encounters, and all the ads pop up underneath, hes been on craigslist ...Im pretty upset i dont know what to think now...weve talked before, and he said it was out of curiosity, but he looked at a ton of themn yesterday...should I hold off the wedding, we have been together for 3 years. and very happy, he said he just wanted to make me happy by giving me some spice. we moved down here, far away from my freinds and i cant just call them up and say hay, i have this problem...so im asking you...what do you think?
2006-12-12 04:30:02 · 5 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he wants to spice things up then that is something that should involve the both of you.That can b very addictive as well.Look into his history you will find that button at the top of your page its an arrow that's green going in a circle.Or u can get it from the arrow pointing down beside the search box.Then speak to him about it and put on parental control on all adult content and make it that he has to come to u to get the code to get through.It can b or already is a problem that u might need counseling to get over it.You could always rent videos together to learn more and spice things up but this is a trust issue and needs to b dealt with before u marry him.Congratulations and good luck.
2006-12-12 04:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you've been with him for three years, and said it yourself that you two are very happy. You are going to put off marrying the man you are in love with over the stupid computer? Just tell him to stay off the websites that you are uncomfortable with. You are the only one who knows if he is trustworthy and a good and decent man. If you feel he is then, marry him.
2006-12-12 04:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first off listen to your gut . if it is telling you that something aint right here then you had better listen cause god did not give us intution for nothing . It was for telling us when something bad was going to happen . and this sounds fishy and i know where i am coming from . So think it over and if you are having doubts then dont marry untill you are sure could turn out badly .good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-12 06:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart I'm sorry for what you're going through!! My best advice is to run not walk to the nearest exit. He was telling you a load of you know what when he told you why he went to those sites. Please for your sake do not marry him.
2006-12-12 04:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun if ur having doubts about marrying him, then dont...because it might turn out to be the worse mistake of ur life
2006-12-12 04:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋