My 2 yr bf has a child with another woman. she is married now and i think that everyone is happy with where they are. the problem that i am having is that i think that she is being very immature. she refuses to be anywhere i am. the child is in to sports. i attend the games of course and she refuses to even sit on the same side of the bleachers with me. i am not asking her to sit next to me.
i think what is really bothering me is that i was going to send her and her husband a christmas card. i think that it would be a nice gesture, but everyone that knows her thinks that it is a waste of a stamp and that they will not appreciate it
this hurts my feelings. it is not like i want to be friends with her, i just want to be civil. she asks the child personal questions about me. if she were not so sneaky i would not mind, but to act the way she does and then use her child to get information about me is wrong. if she wants to know something she should be a woman and ask me herself. right?
2006-12-12 04:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by mel2430 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
very right w0w it must be really hard on you with her and the child involved i cant even imagine but about her shes obviously jealous of you thats for sure thats y she acts like a immature lil baby so often when ur around i know its frustrating but take it this way instead shes just hating on you considering that you are with her babys daddy and it upsets her. id take it as a compliment and laugh at her childish ways and the more u just brush it off and keep ur head up like it doesnt phase you the more it will eat at her it sounds like she does this for attention if you ask me dont give it to her just ignore her ur bf will just laugh at her PS. shes only making herself look like a childish fool in front of him and everyone else around lol good luck and just brush it off cuz she is not worth it REMEMBER her l0ss is ur gain hahaha =)
2006-12-12 04:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be gutsy and send the card with a note saying:
It's so wonderful that you two found each other to love. Since your marriage is so wonderful, my relationship with (insert his name), should be no problem for you. I'm sure the coming year will bring peace on earth and goodwill to men (and me).
Well, it is a bit sarcastic..... but makes a good point. Of course, you'd have to be prepared for any backlash.... and make sure your boyfriend knows you are sending it, 'cause it affects him too.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 12:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. She seems very immature. how old is she?
maybe she will grow up in a few years. You can hope so anyway. If not you are in for alot of childishness in your future.
good luck!
2006-12-12 12:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u if she has something she want to know she should ask u not use her child to get information
2006-12-12 12:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by drkchocolatedeluxe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is having Baby Momma Drama!!!
2006-12-12 12:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋