then why is he looking up casual encounters on craigslist in our area? looking for swinging couples and guys who wanna please a couple...Ive asked him, he says he loves me but he wants to do all of my fantasies with me, and i told him they are better left fantasies, now what?
2006-12-12 04:34:26 · 4 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then he should respect your decision not to fulfill them. But acting out your fantasies is very fun but it becomes a slippery slope that gets out of controll. My wife had fantasies and wanted to fulfill them and it became a normal thing happening alot. It was real fun and enjoyed it but it started happening too often.
2006-12-12 04:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man is sexually adventerous---u obviously are not
u will have to decide are u gonna do this with him or should he seek someone to replace u in an effort to fulfill his fantasy
2006-12-12 12:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey... whats wrong with swinging. :(
you know there is a difference between making love and just having sex with someone for the hell of it.
2006-12-12 12:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you opened that door sweetie. just tell him how serious you are about them being fantasies and only that.
2006-12-12 12:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋