if you saw my last question you will understand this i decided to make the move i have been realy scared of doing and im doing it tonight this is thanks to your answers do i need to do this if i want our relationship to go on i think im in love with this girl infact i know i am i aint told her this yet should i ? also what if it all goes pete tong what can i do
2006-12-12 04:30:29 · 14 answers · asked by Ricky S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make sure you use protection,fill ya boots son!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 04:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The greatest way to tell someone you love them.Is to make love to them.Of course your nervous, we all were for the first time.Allthough sex is a vital part in any relationship by all means it should not be obligatory, by that I mean... to keep the relationship going.
Only you can answer the question of needing to do this.By all means if you have doubts wait until your ready.
But if you want to continue on and have sex with her.Tell her, I am really nervous and this is something that I am not taking lightly.I want to make love to you because I think Im in love with you.If she feels the same way.There will be no mistakes.Just make sure you take care of her needs before your own in the bedroom.And trsut me there will be no complaints
2006-12-12 06:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to have sex with someone to make the rleationship last. How many relationships do you know where sex is the only thing keeping them together? Not very many! So there's definitely more than sex to a relationship. But if you're gonna do it, then I think maybe you should tell her you love her. Sex is definitely a romantic time to hear those three words and if for some reason she's not feeling it, then at least you found out BEFORE you had sex. HAVE FUN!!
2006-12-12 04:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely it is not entirely up to you whether or not you go "all the way" this evening.
If she wants you, she will help you to make it ok.
Be honest. Don't pretend to be a super stud.
Let her know that you are worried.
She may feel the same.
Don't rush things.
Love sometimes takes time.
2006-12-12 04:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by mick w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if you don't want o then don't you don't have to do anything for anyone to keep the relationship going. If you are married and you just want to have some fun then sure but never. If you don't want to then you don't have to for some boy/girl.
2006-12-12 04:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by attitude_angie2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First experience for both of you?
She'll understand if it goes Pete.
She'll forgive.
Once you've passed the "first time" hurdle, you can both practice until you get it right - but like anything else, you have to keep on practising forever - tough life, huh?
Don't tell US that you love her, we don't really care - tell HER.
2006-12-12 04:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if she reads this you won't!!!! but just play it nice and smooth and dont make your intentions too obvious or she might feel presured to do something she isn't ready for also if you do get blown out dont have a sulk because she realy wont want to do anything if you do trust me. good luck
2006-12-12 06:16:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smooth Operator, you have hit the nail on the head.
2006-12-15 04:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too anxious. Use protection. Be concerned with pleasing her more than pleasing yourself. Trust me at your age it won't take you too long to be pleased. Have fun and enjoy.
2006-12-12 04:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow...it will be fine.She will probably be just as nervous as you.
Enjoy.....and tell her you love her!
2006-12-12 04:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋