I really liked him but he hasn't called me yet, should i be worried? should i call him?
2006-12-12 04:01:08 · 28 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you should call him because he could be thinking the same thing right now
2006-12-12 04:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hell no!! Let him stew for a while. If he said he'd call, that means he'll contact you in about a week. Guys are like that. They try to play hard to get, but woman are so much better at it then they are!! Just because you thought you guys conected, doesn't mean he does. Guys think totally different then woman do.
Guys are logical(usually), and woman are emotional. Therefore woman connect sooner then men. Unless you're madly in love with him, I wouldn't bother. Usually if a guy connects with a girl, he'll call her within 3 days. But if he hasnt' called by this weekend, I'd move onto someone better.
2006-12-12 12:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! When I was younger (I am 31 as of today) and went out with a girl and she gave me her number I often was afraid that she'd blow me off if I would call or maybe you just intimidated him a little bit.(I didn't mean that in a bad way. I meant that he probably thinks that he has no chance with you anyway and well once again is too afaid) So there is no problem in calling him.And btw: Most guys are happy as hell if they get called by the girl. SO: JUST CALL HIM. I am sure I will work out. (I wouldn't give out bad advice today, on my birthday!)
2006-12-12 12:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stephan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, he's just trying to be cool. He's thinking about you and wants to call you, but guys think they need to wait...Then they wait awhile and become afraid that they've waited too long...
So, call him and explain this to him...just in case he hasn't figured it out on his own. Then the two of you can laugh and then soon you'll both forget who called whom.
2006-12-12 12:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by drgolfmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definitely not, cuz if you guys really "connected" he probably would have at least called to say Hi or something by now. Maybe "he's" playing hard to get :) Coming from a male.
2006-12-12 12:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Salsa24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call him, do it without expectation. I'm sure you're curious if he had as much fun as you did and he must have given you the impression he had fun or else there'd be no question if you should call. But there is nothing wrong to call and say "Hi, how are you?"
2006-12-12 12:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that happens to me, I think i wouldnt call him.
because Id like to know if he feels the same too like you were said "connected" and if He's the one who will calls first He wouldnt think Im that easy.because I just wanted to find out if hes interested with me too.
2006-12-12 12:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by 3sh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but try and catch his answering machine. Say "call me, lets talk" and leave a number. That way he has to get motivated to call you and knows you want to here from him. If he don't call then forget him.
2006-12-12 12:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. NEVER call a guy who says he'll call you. Don't do it girl. If he wants you, he will call you. Otherwise....he is just not that into you.
You must resist every temptation to call him. Call your girlfriends, call your mama, or go for a jog. But do NOT call him because you will only be playing yourself.
2006-12-12 12:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, give him a call and see how he's doing. Chit chat for a while and find out if he would like to hang out with you again. If not, don't worry about it.
2006-12-12 12:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...but don't overdo it. If it's been a week, then go for it. One week doesn't sound desperate. Give him a call; if you leave a message, leave the ball in his court and wait another week before trying again. Patience is a virtue.
2006-12-12 12:02:38 · answer #11 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋