There is this guy that I like and he likes me He sends me messages every days saying that he loves me. And I really like him too but the thing is he lives in india and I live in California and we have never seen each other do you think I am wasting my time over him.
2006-12-12 03:56:24 · 17 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes!
2006-12-12 11:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by borednow333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have found someone with whom to converse with on-line but to say that he loves you is a bit of a stretch do you not agree. Like you said you haven't even met each other so both could be somebody completely different in person. The chances are that you are wasting your time if you are trying to create a relationship with this fella and you should probably just get out and met a guy that lives a lot closer to you and someone that you can actually spend time with.
2006-12-12 12:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes for no reason sometimes. But to realize it we need to meet and share our thoughts.
It's not only about travelling to India to see him. But, think if your love can be realized and converted to a married life? If it is possible and has a threshold confidence above 70% for each of you, then it's worth of meeting in person and marry.
I think you are an American and he is an Indian. Be sure of his qualifications and contacts and family values, culutural difference plays a major role.
Mostly asians are family type and males dominate females.
Just for your info. Not everyone. Also, Indian society is totally different from western.
Just take a chance to talk to him and get his idea of future.
Then talk to your friends and well wishers and deal with it.
Hope this helps.
Thanks
2006-12-12 12:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by muth g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister met her fiance online.. We're from Illinois and he lives in Tennessee. She moved there three years ago. My current boyfriend (going on 8 months) lives in Florida. We've made numerous trips to see each other and I plan on moving there for college at the end of the summer.
I think that if it's something that you really want, it can work. it just takes alot of patience and trust. Don't let anyone tell you that it won't work because you're so far away. You just have to believe in the relationship enough.
2006-12-12 12:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hiroko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, is there a way you guys could get together some day???
i'm in the same prediciment your in, my ex-girlfriend and i had to break up since i was moving away and we found a long distance relationship pointless but we still highly keep in touch like we did when we were together.
if theres ever a day when you can get together (which applies to us) you don't necessiarily need to be a couple but you can highly aknowlege your feelings twords each other and if something better comes around so be it. if nothing comes around and you still feel for each other that be happy together. so basically keep your options open but still see what your future together could be
2006-12-12 12:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by emo_killah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on how old you are you sound young but if not you are still probabley setting yourself up for failure. also realize the cultures are different women in india pay a dowry to their husbands. not saying this is you but also you might not be going to wrong for all you know he is rich and you will make out like a fat californian cow
2006-12-12 12:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so but at the same time you people should proceed in the matter.call for photos and other details if you think fine and fit then go ahead try to meet in order to take a final decision in the matter.
2006-12-12 12:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isnt love, its just a fling.
Love is something more powerful. It takes time to develop, and its feeling passionate for someone for who they are inside and out.
Its not worth the trouble, long distance that is.
2006-12-12 12:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by <-tom-> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you really love him, try to ask him to come over, or if you have the fund, go over and meet him.
You don't have to do anything but talk to him in person.
It really changes your mind. If you still think you are in love with him, come back, and than tell him that you want to continue the relationship and bring it to another stage or something...
You got to see him to deside.
2006-12-12 12:03:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have the funds to travel to India, you're pretty much wasting your time.
2006-12-12 11:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋