Family & Relationships - 12 December 2006

I'm 24, I've been in off and on relationships since college and Im tired of going out with my girlfriends and meeting guys at bars and clubs. Where can I meet a decent guy??

2006-12-12 03:52:41 · 8 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for 10 months he is nice but he is to easily distracted from what he needs to be doing. He has a two year old and doesn't want to get his fat *** up and look for a job. Plus he's so prideful he doesn't want to ask anyone for help but me and his brother. He trys to act like he is too good for food stamps or getting help to get his child Xmas gifts. A real father would do whatever it took to make sure their child was not hungry and happy. But at the same time I love his child very much and even more so after I found out I couldn't have kids because of a partial hysterectomy I had to undergo because of endocervical cancer. I am only 22. What would you do in my situation I care for him but not his work ethics or values, and I Love his child and I like helping his child but I can't bare all the burden on my shoulders

2006-12-12 03:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by Landra 5 in Singles & Dating

If you could go back and wish the best on someone or take something back--who would it be? Merry Christmas!

2006-12-12 03:51:35 · 6 answers · asked by smeezleme 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15 and pregnant and my boy friend doesn't know and im scared if i tell him hell brake up with me wht do i do

2006-12-12 03:50:41 · 38 answers · asked by badcrazygurl01 1 in Singles & Dating

fat people should be thrown into camps and forced to lose weight. They are offensive. It is visual abuse for a fat person to walk around in public. I was at king soopers today. They were selling corn which is rare this time of year. They were selling it for a $1.50 per 3 pieces so I was looking for the biggest pieces I could find. Now I was stationary while I was looking. This fat girl bumped into me and told me to watch were I was going. People gave me dirty stares rather than her because I didnt move out of the way of her royal fat ***. It's getting to the point were skinny people are the ones being stigmatized instead of the fat asses. I see a grim future for America.

2006-12-12 03:50:22 · 7 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-12 03:50:07 · 21 answers · asked by fire_red_fly38 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is no way he is getting one of them!

2006-12-12 03:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is turning 17 come the 27 of December, She don't live with her real parents. I'm 19 we are close enuf we have had sex. But she still lives with her step mom and her boyfriend. Her step moms boyfriend wants to move the family again to Florida. We live in North Carolina. What should we do? Should we ask her step mom for her to stay up here, and I become her gardian. Or should I transfer my College to Florida and ask to move with her family. We both believe we have found our perfect match and we felt confertable around each other since we met the first day. She is my dream girl in all ways. she also says that I'm what she's been looking for. What can I do, please remember that this isn't her real family.

2006-12-12 03:49:20 · 2 answers · asked by eclipsefreak 4 in Family

One week the guy i am seeing is great cant get enough of seeing me an being together the next he is acting wierd about the committment thing. I mean its not like we are getting married just dating. Whats the deal with this??

2006-12-12 03:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:48:59 · 20 answers · asked by shawnabug01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15,never had a boyfriend(im not ugly or anythin,and im really nice to every one)
i always make sure i aint coming across desperate,but i always try to be the best i can around boys.it always goes the wrong way,if i like him,he doesnt like me back,,or he has a girlfriend.it really hurts when your crush tells you he has a girlfriend when you are just about to tell him you fancy him.i couldnt be bothered anymore, is there anything that i can do? does this happen to others? thanks guys xx

2006-12-12 03:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Singles & Dating

why can't any one see the benefit of having tow or three wives, no more than three though, less time to clean the house,
less time to do any chore, more time for yourself, a friend in the house always, and I do not mean a bi- situation either,
I am talking about a straight girl and a straight girl, (unless the bi-situation comes up, then) but one guy, more than one girl,
works so good, one stays home and baby sits, while the other goes out on a date with the husband, and then they switch,
how many marriages can actually go out on dates with your husband? not many, this way you can,
and it is TWO to one when things NEED to be talked about and get something done, the guy is the ONE.
it is a much better life than every day people being unhappy, and then the guy cheats, and then everyone is alone, and UNHAPPY,
statistics show, in these types of arrangements, their is less than .01 percent of divorces and NO cheating at all, and the children are
so happy all the time, they always have a parent

2006-12-12 03:47:56 · 8 answers · asked by david s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont get It

2006-12-12 03:47:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmeen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

why can't any one see the benefit of having tow or three wives, no more than three though, less time to clean the house,
less time to do any chore, more time for yourself, a friend in the house always, and I do not mean a bi- situation either,
I am talking about a straight girl and a straight girl, (unless the bi-situation comes up, then) but one guy, more than one girl,
works so good, one stays home and baby sits, while the other goes out on a date with the husband, and then they switch,
how many marriages can actually go out on dates with your husband? not many, this way you can,
and it is TWO to one when things NEED to be talked about and get something done, the guy is the ONE.
it is a much better life than every day people being unhappy, and then the guy cheats, and then everyone is alone, and UNHAPPY,
statistics show, in these types of arrangements, their is less than .01 percent of divorces and NO cheating at all, and the children are
so happy all the time, they always have a parent

2006-12-12 03:46:56 · 20 answers · asked by david s 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys,

Can you be physically attracted to someone without being sexually attracted to them?

Meaning, for example, does it ever happen to where you think a woman is beautiful but you don't want to sleep with her?

2006-12-12 03:46:38 · 26 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:46:07 · 4 answers · asked by loreen s 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend is comn gou to visit me in janruary but i have to tell my bro hes like my dad hes very serious and scary he doesnt think my boyfriend is good enough for me and he thinks hes stupid. He doesnt evevn know weve been going out. he knows him from 2 yrs ago when we first went out. Well im really scared to tell him but i have too I think i should tell hijm like a week before...You think thats to late???

2006-12-12 03:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family

i want to write how much i like him amd how special he is to me what should i say?? any advice? what should i say in the note?

2006-12-12 03:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by britt- britt 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a single mother aged 30 with two children 6 & 7. She is a good mother but has little money and despairs of her situation.

After meeting a boy and 3 month relationship, out of the blue, the boy proposes marrige and she accepts, the marrige is Aug 2007.

The boy is 24 and in the army on a low wage, no experience of fatherhood or providing for a family. He is likly to be moved around quite a lot though they might get an Army house.

My question is have they got engaged too soon? Is this boy just too young & inexperienced? Are they both desperate and infatuated? Whats the likley outcome?

2006-12-12 03:45:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys chase you, then stop chasing you, then start chasing you again???

i could understand it if he was just after sex, but we have only kissed!!!

he chases me, we get together, then i dont hear from him for a while and then i chase him and then he chases me like nornal again!!!whats this about????

2006-12-12 03:44:43 · 8 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

OK..me and my first love have recently broke up..and i thought that we were finished, so i started talking to someone else. Now he wants to get back with me and I still like him of course, but i like the other person too. And right now im so confused i dont know what to do. Because i like them both almost the same but not really. I think my ex-boyfriend only wants me back because he knows i've found someone else. What should I say or do?

2006-12-12 03:44:32 · 12 answers · asked by lyssa a 1 in Singles & Dating

Our very dear friend Butch has died. I don't think there is a chance Miranda will see this but he said, "tell her I love her."
Thank you for being his friend his last few moments of life.
I have a question for all of you, why did he have to die?
He was a really nice man.

2006-12-12 03:44:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My teenage son works but the only money coming into the house paying bills is with me. I give my husband money for gas but for some strange reason; he needs more gas 2 or 3 days later. I am so (expletive word) tired of this. I say no but then he whines about not being able to take our son to work. I can't do it because I'm babysitting and I'll be darned if I want him to watch anybody. I'm thinking about changing things at my bank but how can I get him to be more responsible with his usuage of gas in his car because I can fill up my car and I can make it last weeks. We both have the same kind of cars only his is a year older and mine is a 4 door where his is a convertible?

2006-12-12 03:44:17 · 8 answers · asked by Merilee L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it's the right thing to do, but I'm having trouble ending an affair. I feel addicted. I get panicy when I think about leaving, but dreadful when I think about continuing this for years to come. How do I get over that inital hump? How do I accept loliness?

2006-12-12 03:43:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He been very ill and coming home from hospital today.

What do you buy a guy who still very ill and lucky to be alive for xmas?

2006-12-12 03:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the thing me an my ex haven been on the best terms in about a year because while i was pregnant with his child he cheated on me, but we worked tings out for a while until after the baby was born he cheated again with the same girl and got her pregnant, So i ended it with him for good this time and haven heard from him in iver three months. now all of a sudden he texting me an calling me telling me he misses me and still loves me but in a way i think he just telling me all this **** just to get back in my pants. He ia still with the other girl i hear the baby due any day now. I was with him six years. he never asks about our baby when he calls its always about us an trying get me to meet him somewhere. Im very confussed about all this. What should i do. I am 22 an its all so hard on me very stressfull!

2006-12-12 03:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Singles & Dating

this one girl. I met this girl on facebook. She has never seen me or known me before. I messed everything up in the conversation. I did not put my photo up on facebook when i talked to her. Although, it does say my first and last name on facebook. She doesn't want to talk to me in person because of what i said online. I want to know if she would know i am the guy online if i talk to her in person and only give my first name? This one girl said i was going to be a deceptive liar if i did that and shes right, but I can't seem to get over this girl problem and i have a crush on her. What should i do? This is how the conversation went online. I talked to her 2 times online.

1. I said i wanted to meet her

2. I told her she didn't know me

3. I said because you look attractive

4. I told her I fantasized about her holding me (that was a no no)

5. We got into a fight

6. I told her i hope you never find a man

Next time i talk to her online

7. I'm sorry

2006-12-12 03:42:23 · 4 answers · asked by chris d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-12 03:42:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Something that will help him with his future marriage,that's also humorous and entertaining.

2006-12-12 03:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce