Heres the thing me an my ex haven been on the best terms in about a year because while i was pregnant with his child he cheated on me, but we worked tings out for a while until after the baby was born he cheated again with the same girl and got her pregnant, So i ended it with him for good this time and haven heard from him in iver three months. now all of a sudden he texting me an calling me telling me he misses me and still loves me but in a way i think he just telling me all this **** just to get back in my pants. He ia still with the other girl i hear the baby due any day now. I was with him six years. he never asks about our baby when he calls its always about us an trying get me to meet him somewhere. Im very confussed about all this. What should i do. I am 22 an its all so hard on me very stressfull!
2006-12-12 03:42:45 · 10 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, its not worth doing. Its just a matter of time and effort before he hurts you again. He'll probably say or do anything to you to get back with you for whatever reason- NOT being because he loves you. Love has its mistakes- people DO cheat and still stay together, but this man cheated on you twice...AND got someone pregnant. It should be a big sign to turn your direction and walk right over that doosh and move on. Obviously you have the better head on your shoulders due to the fact there was no statement saying you cheated on him too. So get your confidence together, know that you and your child are worth more, and move on---completely. Have no doubts that you deserve better. Once a cheater always a cheater. Lose him! Good luck and take care of yourself
2006-12-12 03:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by justmeandsoccer88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is one, only you can answer. options are...1. if you get back with him for whatever reasons will it work out? has it before? if he is having babies with others? who is going to collect child suppport? how many children can he support? how many women will be involved with him before this is over? or will it ever be over?
2. can you live with this? every time that he is out you might be wondering is he with someone else? can you deal with this? you may not realize this... when you had your baby ... your proirties changed...baby is number one. it's a gentic thing....it would be nice if the baby could grow up with mother and father, but sometimes that is not the case....sometimes we must make sacrifices for the greater good, our good. this is all about what you are willing to put up with. * life is not of bed of roses* but it's what we strive for...do not accept second best....when you are second....first seems so far away....*you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince* goal --be number one-- and find your prince, and be his number one, and make him your number one.
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2016-11-25 22:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by mccay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are so pathetic. Why are you still taking care of this garbage, just by being around garbage, you become garbage. For the sake of your child, keep that garbage away from him. Move on to greener pasture, but I have sense you won't.
2006-12-12 03:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life - forget this jerk. Just make sure he pays you the support you deserve for your child. DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM!
Go to school - meet new people. Have a great life. :)
2006-12-12 03:46:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bringing the baby up in converstaion. If he changes the subject leave him and move on.
Good luck in what ever you do =]
2006-12-12 03:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are getting maintenance money you don't need to speak to him. Your probably 100% right - he does want in your pants.
If he's done it once he'll do it again and again and again...
He's just proved it hunny.
Good luck :)
2006-12-12 03:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jen (G cup UK) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him for child support and if he wants to see his kid than let the courts decide. Otherwise tell the jerk to piss off because you have "your" child to raise, and a life worth living without his sorry *** around
2006-12-12 03:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by 3000gthottie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's simple - bag the loser. He's taking advantage of your weakness. Be strong.
2006-12-12 03:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Rez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that TRASH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have made it this far, just remain strong, God never gives anyone more than they can manage.
2006-12-12 03:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋