2006-12-12 03:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by hot_cowgirl_1986 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you know that she liked him before you started to talk to this guy? if you did, then its kinda your fault and if you didnt, then you need to have a talk to her....she is your best friend and best friends are always there for each other and would never do anyting to hurt each other..so if she really is your best friend, she will back off and let you have all the fun with him....i guess its a test to see if you guys are really best friends or no?
2006-12-12 03:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by ruby_kaur916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am assuming that you mean you are interested in this guy and no longer your boyfriend and this guy is kinda a friend of your man, Right? Girl, I would not start this kind of drama in yours or this guys life.Its not going to turn out in a good way.If you are truly interested in this new guy you must first relize you need to end what you have first and after more time with ths guy around and you persue things from there it isnt as "taboo" as it was before and can be worked out if both you and this guy see it to be a mutual indever.You went through the proper channels at least and not feel like you played anyone.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 11:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it... tell her that you guys have been talking. She'll understand. It can be hard though- it will be hard for you to come to her if you guys ever have problems, and remember, and new boyfriend is easier to find then a new bff.
Tip to all women\girls: Don't let yourself be attracked to your bestfriends crush/ex. Your friend will feel betrayed forever. And absolutly- on no ocacasion is it okay to go out with your bestfriends ex- that is forbiden terriotroy. Think- you are making the person who knows all of your secrets hate you. not good my friends... not good at all.
2006-12-12 11:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your bff and ask them whats up between the two of them.
2006-12-12 11:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Brianna R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats more importat your friendship or a relationship with this guy? I wouldn't go too much into it..plus you dont even know if he likes you.. There is no rules stateing you two cant like the same guy..Just with girls i know when that happen a lot of the friendships went horribley wrong..
2006-12-12 11:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by xonexnxonlyandyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you started talking to him first you beat her to the punch. But if she liked him first but didnt say anything until you started talkin to him then thats her fault. But friends are forever boys are watever! Well if she truly feels strong about him then you should kind of back down. But just dont rub it into her face though. She's more importANT than some boy right?
2006-12-12 11:51:31 · answer #6 · answered by lyssa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him and she likes him yall need to sit down and figure out who is going to have him because there is nothing worse then loosing a friend over a guy. and if she says she really likes him and has been trying to talk to him for months let her have him he might have a friend or you might find someone better do not limit yourself. but beware do not let him play you both
good luck
2006-12-12 11:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out who he likes more and then you should express your feelings to your friend. If your friend gets mad at you the she is not a true friend but if she understands then you get the guy and keep your friend.
2006-12-12 11:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let that bff get to him.
2006-12-12 11:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave every one alone. And in the future keep your personal matters to yourself, and start hanging out with other friends.
2006-12-12 11:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋