One week the guy i am seeing is great cant get enough of seeing me an being together the next he is acting wierd about the committment thing. I mean its not like we are getting married just dating. Whats the deal with this??
2006-12-12 03:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by Christy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because guys are worried about what people think they don't want to be in the whole relationship thing. Or maybe he sees y'all better of being just friends. Or he might just be wanting to play both sides of the fence..wanting you and other girls. You should just try and talk to him about it..see what he tells you if it isn't what you want to hear then obviously he ain't your guy.
2006-12-12 03:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by lyssa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are afraid of committment because they don't want to stop their going out and socializing with females, and hanging out with the guys. That's why so many of them get divorced so fast because they miss the good old times.
2006-12-12 03:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lateasha b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll you need to make yourself less available and "pace" the relationship. If you let a guy see you everyday, he will tire of you. If you slow down and only let him see you once or twice a week, it will likely last a bit longer. It will take MAJOR self-restraint on your behalf but if you want something to last I suggest you slow things down!!!
2006-12-12 03:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys is so hard to understand if you don't know what they are looking for leave it alone for a while get to know him more then act on it
2006-12-12 03:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by loohleypoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c some guyz are too worried about theirselves to want to be commited to another that he will have to spend his time and money on...
2006-12-12 04:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' Miss Thing aka Crista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beause they want to have fun with other grls not juss one trust me i kno
2006-12-12 03:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by britt- britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL..... Its all men its juts part of life...
2006-12-12 03:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecurity and confusion
2006-12-12 03:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋