my boyfriend doesn't know I'm pregnant what do i do?

Question

im 15 and pregnant and my boy friend doesn't know and im scared if i tell him hell brake up with me wht do i do

Answer 1

Poor kid. You're still a child, and because you played adult games, now you have to deal with adult consequences.

Tell your parents. Tell him. Tell his parents. Commit to having the child so you don't end up scarred emotionally from going through an abortion. Commit to giving up the child so it can go to a home with grown-up, secure parents and so you can get back to the business of growing up yourself. And commit to waiting until you're married to have sex again so you don't end up in this situation again. Good luck.

Answer 2

First of all i wont be your mother and scream at you and say you are so stupid to be pregnant at such a young age. what i will say is that i was doing the same thing at your age although i never got pregnant. lets face something know. if you are 15 you are probabley dating someone that is 18 or you might be dating someone your age. either way ok not the point. lets get in your head right know he very well will probabley leave you. and you will have to live with the baby by yourself if you decide to keep it which i wont even get on that. first of all you can do this do not start doubting yourself. before you tell him anything look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what you want no matter what he wants or what he does. i dont understand sometimes you young girls let these young no bodies break you down and you shouldnt. i can already tell you are niave to even care whether he breaks up with you or not you have way bigger fish to fry. bottom line figure out what you want. second tell him. third if he breaks up with you the best revenge is doing good without him

Answer 3

Tell him immediately! And don't be surprised if he runs.It will take some time for him to get used to the idea of being a daddy.He may even want nothing to do with the baby. I hope you have told your parents.They can be very helpful during these times. (once they get used to being grandparents) If he does break up with you,it is not the end of the world. That new little baby needs all your love and attention now. Concentrate on being the best mom in the world and love the baby.Good Luck.

Answer 4

I am worried about you,you got into this situation at this young age. what i would suggest is Talk to your parents and his parents...his parents will tell him what he has done...this way he has no way to escape....weather he likes it or not..he will have to go through whatever you decide. And if still he decides to break up with you,,,get him to support the child.
It would be in your best interest if you all sit down together as soon as possible and make a final decision.
Be strong and i know you can do it. may be your parents might get a little mad at you...just take it quietly,bcuz u know you have something you shouldnt have,,,so expect to be scolded. If you talk back in anger ,,things will get worse,,so the more polite you are with your parents the better support you will get.
Good luck!
let us know what happened.

Answer 5

First thing you need to do is sit down with your parents and talk to them. Let them know that you are pregnant. After you tell them, you need to sit down with you boyfriend a let him know. As a couple and as young adults, you must decide on what you are going do. After talking to your parents and your boyfriend you may want to consider having both families (parents only) sit down and openly communicate about this situation. You are going to have a baby and you will need all of their help.

You are so young. Remember this is not the end of world. But hurry and tell your boyfriend before he feels like you have lied and deceived him.

Answer 6

Well the only thing there is to do is tell him b/c if he finds out on his own rather than u telling him then he is more likely to break up with you. It's not like it was only your fault... he was also a part of the "love making!" the best thing to do is sit him down and talk to him and make him promise he'll always be there after you tell him the news that you have to! If he doesn't still want to be with you after your havin' his baby then he's messed up in the head!

Answer 7

At 15 yrs. old and pregnant, you have a lot more to worry about than your little boyfriend breaking up with you, tell your parents or someone you can trust. As for your boyfriend if you have to worry about him running from troubles let him run, he's not worth the afford your young don't waste your time and your life.

Answer 8

Tell your parents, and tell him.

There's no use in trying to hide it...in a few months, everyone will know anyways.

also, being 15 and pregnant, you should seek some counseling to help you with the stresses that you are going to encounter over the next year.

Answer 9

I would worry about telling your parent's before you tell him and maybe your family needs to go over to his parent's house and sit down and explain things. Your life is changing and at your age, odds are you will not be together in the end anyhow. I'm sorry to be blunt. You need to figure things out with in your family because they are the ones that will be helping you pay for your child. Good Luck!!

Answer 10

Baby you need to tell him, a baby is a life changing thing for the both of you. If he leaves you because you are pregnant then his is stupid and will regret losing you and his baby! You have to be strong for you child and not worry about him! If you need any help, a friend, someone to talk to or a baby sitter please e-mail me. I would even take the baby if you feel that you can't handle raising that child. [e-mail]

God Bless You
Patrice