im 15,never had a boyfriend(im not ugly or anythin,and im really nice to every one)
i always make sure i aint coming across desperate,but i always try to be the best i can around boys.it always goes the wrong way,if i like him,he doesnt like me back,,or he has a girlfriend.it really hurts when your crush tells you he has a girlfriend when you are just about to tell him you fancy him.i couldnt be bothered anymore, is there anything that i can do? does this happen to others? thanks guys xx
2006-12-12 03:48:58 · 18 answers · asked by *cutie with a bootie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about guys. Worry about yourself for right now. They'll come around. You ever heard that saying, "people want what they can't have"?? Well, if the boys see that you're not bothering with them anymore, then they'll start to think.....and some can start to gain an interest in you. And at 15, the guys aren't really worried about much of anything. Most of them just want to get in your pants.
Don't feel bad, I didn't have my first kiss untill I was 16. I didn't get my first REAL boyfriend till I was almost 17. If you're a good girl, it's hard to get a boyfriend, but you always get the better guy in the end. I did! My husband is a great man, with faults, but who isn't?? So don't feel that you have to have sex with a guy just to get him to like you, or date you. Because chances are, they'll only use you for sex, or they won't talk to you again. Stay a good girl if you are one, and everything will work out for the better in the end.
2006-12-12 04:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pluto 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me so many times it was unbelievable. I felt like I was dying inside. I finally decided that I wont ever know unless just let the guy know. I almost blew it once. I was so inlove with this guy, but never told him. we got along great. It really hurt when I saw him with other people. It took me 8 years till I told him. I am glad I did because now we are married and have baby#2 on the way.
What I am trying to say is that no matter what, tomorrow is another day and another chance. You wont die, trust me. If you like a guy always tell him. no matter what will happen. In the end you will feel better no matter how much you are hurting.
It hurts a whole lot worse if you do nothing.
I hope that helps, even just a little. I wish someone told me that but I had to learn it in a very hard way.
2006-12-12 04:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being gorgeous is not enough to attract people towards you.You also need to have a good attitude cos gorgeous guy with a bad attitude is like a disaster waiting to happen.If you are overwieght then you need to work out.There is nothing wrong being a virgin at 20.Personally I don't like this idea having sex with different people.Sex is special bond between two people who are in love and should be reserved for the special person. What do you hope to achieve by reading porno?Do you think it's a good substitute for a true love?
2016-03-29 04:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do. Just wait soon you will have options. There just might possibly be a guy that likes you and maybe you just might like him, give him time to come around. The same thing has happened to me over and over again. Now that I am older I know you cannot always get the guy you want. Just think of it like this: You may have not met the right guy yet but you have plenty of time. You will have a good guy sooner or later. Good luck!
2006-12-12 03:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny lynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh Honey,
Trust me, there will be so many men wanting to take you out, if you are a good person, not a complete bow wow, body isn't bad, it will happen. I am a lot older than you, but I do know what it feels like to have feelings for someone and they don't like you back. I still have feelings for someone that was like that, but I just let them go. You are 15, you have your whole life ahead of you, even though right now it doesn't seem like it. I had more fun with guys/men when I got out of high school, men taking me out to dinner to nice restaurants, taking me away for the weekend, going on a persons yacht to Catalina Island in California. Hang in there, it will all happen in time.
Good luck,
happybluerainbow@yahoo.com
2006-12-12 03:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by crazyinoregon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, to be 15 again. What you're going through is what all of us have experienced back in the day. All I can tell you is to be true to yourself, and even though he may have someone else liking him, your job is to not change who you are for anyone. You must maintain your beautiful self and make sure you hold your head up and smile when you see him. Yes, its going to hurt a little bit, but he's going to wonder why you're not falling apart when you see him with his friend. Don't be down, just realize that he's missing out on a wonderful friendship that he will only be able to dream of.
2006-12-12 03:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by pradavee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to get the ball rolling by getting out there and being seen with one guy and the rest will come running.Have someone fix you up and go somewhere public where other kids you know hang out.Look like your having the best time even if your not.
2006-12-12 03:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, this happens to many people I know. You have just not met the right one for you yet. I know you have probably heard this a ton of times but it is true. When the time is right, you will meet him. No need to rush, you have plenty of time for love in your life.
2006-12-12 03:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jenjen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry ,You're only 15 and you are going to meet many guys with different personalities and characters and you 're gonna experience many adventures(good or bad ) until you find the right one ....It happens to all ,you're not the only one ..
2006-12-12 03:53:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea it happen so other people sometimes, but don't want stop you friend search 4 your soulmate.But when ever u have a crush on any guy, you have to investigate if he hs a girl friend, and other stuff about him before telling him your fellings.
But anytime things like that happen to you, just forget about it and don't let it burder you.Always move ahead and forget about what happened in th past.
2006-12-12 03:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by Oshoke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋