Is it good to sacrifice your love and ask for a little bit back?

Question

Am a guy who was in a beautiful relationship with another guy, for about 3 years or so. While we loved each other beyond imagination, about 5 months ago he started to talk about our future together, which doesnt exist. He was also getting friendly with another girl and recently she proposed to him without knowing he was in a live-in relationship with me. He asked me whether he should go ahead, since he was interested in the girl too. I told him to go ahead if he found happiness in a future with her...and last month, he dumped me for her...in a very very bitter way - for all that i loved, cared and sacrificed for him. Now, all I want is a little of his love, to be able to spend sometime with me but told me rudely that I am pushing him in a corner to come back. He was friendly with me last couple of weeks and says he will always love me, but needs a future with this girl so cant love me. Is it too much to ask for a little of his love, since I feel so lonely and depressed without him?

Answer 1

it is pretty clear your relationship is over with him, and do you want or need to play second fiddle to some one who is not interested, think about all the wasted time you could spend following after a dream that will shortly turn in to a nightmare, do yourself a favour and avoid the drama by really looking at what you are doing to your self. That was then This is now , were you belong, best of luck

Answer 2

if i am not wrong both of u r guys ,


the society is not so matured to accept this kind of relations,so i would suggest not to continue with him & to find for ur self a good girl.
OR
if u think u cannot ever have any such relations with any girl,(i tell u this becoz ,those who r into these kind of relations loose interest of having any relations with the people of other gender)
then my friend do not commite ur self to any love relations .
if u think u cannot handle this situation of urs then do not hesistate to meet a psycologist.

in many contries i know these kind of marriages r made legal,
but i believe this is going against nature's rules.


think ,
u r the best decision maker for ur self.