love enough to make him come back.?
my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf
2006-12-12 03:53:48 · 4 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't wanna sound harsh but I am sure love is not enough sometimes .If he loves you but he says he cant be with you means he wants to make his last decision to forget about your love ,like his left part of brain is in a competition with the right part of his brain .For men you know they don't always follow their heart ,they mostly follow what their mind and brain tells them to do ..I don't think you can change his mind unless he want to be with you ,move on with your life and find someone else who appreciate your love..being in love with a tough guy like him will ending up hurting you more and more within a time you make mistakes even not on purpose..
2006-12-12 04:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked the question, so evidently you want an answer. Its not easy to just write someone off. However your actions may make it harder for him to be with you if you are acting out of character. He may think you are going crazy and acting immature wont help him make the decision any quicker. You may just need to be friends for awhile and give each other space til you two can sit and talk, but dont keep pressing him to make a decision because if hes not ready its not going to turn out pretty. If he wants to be with you he will be with you. I know its hard but give it time and space. In the mean time you need to really focus on you. Get out and find something to do to preoccupy your time.
2006-12-12 12:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to any relationship. Talk with him. Tell him how you feel, how you felt when you treated him badly, and what you want from your relationship.
He will respect your honesty and openess.
2006-12-12 12:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you are so pathetic, move on to greener pastures. Cupcakes, you are too young for this drama, I betcha he is already nailed a couple of girls while you sit at home crying about this bloke? You are so pathetic.
2006-12-12 12:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋