Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I am a guy and was wondering would you like it if you where dating a guy, to tell you that he was a virgin when you make love for the first time with each other? It's just I am a virgin and have not yet got a girlfriend but when I do should I tell her or not before the first time we make love together? I mean would it be something you would want to know?

2006-12-10 19:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's my question. I noticed this very attractive girl in 2002 while she was dating a guy I worked with when she would come in and visit him. We never talked. Then slowly we started to and got to know each other pretty well. Years later things have changed and I work somewhere else. He and her have split. All year I noticed her around town and we flirted a bit one night while having a few drinks. That night she gave me that unquestioned "come here" look after letting her hair down. But I did nothing. Months later-now she is staying with a friend of mine. I visit on the weekends. We started off just hugging-than moved on to ocassionaly lightly holding-kissing on the cheek-etc. But tonight me, her and our friend were watching a movie. He left and she layed down in my lap-I worked up the nerve to stroke her hair. She said she loved it and fell asleep in my arms.Now-I'm DUMB when it comes to this stuff. I have slept with women but have never had this before. Is she interested? Confused.

2006-12-10 19:10:47 · 19 answers · asked by ryan_lec 1 in Singles & Dating

live in bad neighbourhood. and in the process of moving. Should I give her the warrant Act? I worry when she walks out in a neighbourhood that has gone tragic.

2006-12-10 19:10:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i need another one.

2006-12-10 19:08:46 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a roommate that I have now fallen in love with. He is aware and does think the world of me but does not share the same loving feelings. We just go on day by day like it's not an issue and we're just the same most wonderful friends we've always been. There are days that, even with him here, I am overwhelmed with loniless because the feelings are not returned. I'm not sure if I should just go on like normal and maybe my feelings will change or just go on and maybe his will or just decide to no longer be roommates because it is breaking my heart. Has anyone had a situation like this and if so, what did you do?

2006-12-10 19:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Lulugirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years now & recently started online messaging with my ex. It's nothing sexual or about getting together, but more about how each other is doing, how our kids are doing, how is work going, etc... I kindof feel bad about this, but only because my husband is a very jealous man. I guess this is a dumb *** question but I wanted some others' input on it. I know that if my husband found out, he would be pissed, but really there's no bad intention there. What do you think?

2006-12-10 19:05:15 · 22 answers · asked by Ballagirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 19:04:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I get really great idea's or realise that I'm improving or doing something really well but no-one ever seems to support me or even notice in my family. I try really hard sometimes and get frustrated when one of my sisters accomplish the same thing and get heaps of praise and rewards but when I do something I get ignored. My mum is really stingy with compliments but when its either of my sisters she thinks they can do anything. I know this sounds stupid, coming from the youngest child, but I'm sick of feeling like I'm not getting the attention I deserve, and feeling like I have no-one to fall back on because no-one believes I can do anything. What should I do to get them to care?

2006-12-10 19:04:33 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family

i am about to get married to a muslim man..his dad dose not want us to marry.i love him very much but i am worried if he dose marry me what will his dad think..should we marry anyways?

2006-12-10 19:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by dealitha k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my bestfriend n i hv been best frns since we were 3 n nw i like her more than a friend bt she has a boyfriend who is also my bestfriend....please help me??ii always say 2 tell the thing in ur heart nw i kno hw tough it is....

2006-12-10 19:03:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a bf who I have been with for 5 years. However, recently there is this guy at work who I fancy & wants to take me out - I told him no cos I am seeing someone but he keeps popping back into my head.
Why is he even catching my eye as I have a bf I love?

2006-12-10 19:02:31 · 30 answers · asked by Cori 4 in Singles & Dating

Is it true, the longer your single, the more content you become with in yourself and by yourself that it will harder it is to let some in?

2006-12-10 19:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by denise 2 in Singles & Dating

I suspect theres lots of these Questions someplace just havent found them yet. I'm 20, while not good looking I have the sort of aura that most people like and feel comfortable with, and I'm almost always smiling, but I never ever seem to meet any girl who wants to go out with me. admitidly its difficult because I work nights nor do I like crowds so nightclubs are out of the question.

2006-12-10 19:00:51 · 7 answers · asked by asislife2004 2 in Singles & Dating

why do girls take the jock over the nice guy?

2006-12-10 19:00:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw this hot guy at the gym for few times and we had eye contacts, he came up to me & introduced himself but we never talked to each other alot. I really like this guy. The next time he saw me at the gym and offered me a ride to home but I had my own car. A week after I saw him & decided to give him my number and told him to hang out sometime if he likes to & he seemed interested & told me he's gonna give me a call. It's been 3 days by now and I have not received any call from him. Would it be better if I waited for him to give me his number or it doesn't really matter. If I see him at the gym again I won't say why he has not call me yet. Besides, how do I know is he's interested enough in me to give me a call !
Any good suggestion to take a better step??

2006-12-10 18:59:31 · 10 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

I always seem to end up with the bad ones is it bad luck or do i just not have good taste ........Are there signs?

2006-12-10 18:59:27 · 8 answers · asked by I need an Unbreakable ♥! 1 in Singles & Dating

It was 10 Dec, and I forgot, What to do now?

2006-12-10 18:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What should you, when you find yourself wondering about an ex? Thinking about that journey and why didn't the two of you try harder to make it work! Now, your assessing what was! What would you do to get over this hurdle? By the way, the break was mutual and it took place about a 3 months ago.

2006-12-10 18:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by denise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:56:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i always argue over stupid things. i work 12-8 five days a week and there fore he cooks dinner all the time and thats the main reason we argue. could someone please help me just with the dinner part because its pretty late. some ideas for quick TASTY recipes because everythibg cant just be meat and veges cause hes quite fussy. thankyou. im sure some of you married ladies have been through this and have some good ideas!!! ;_)

2006-12-10 18:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 18:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by Destiny 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have only been going out for a month, and i really like him. I want to get him something nice for Christmas, but since our relationship is so new, i dont want to go over the top u know? I am at a total road block please help!

2006-12-10 18:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she sent pics and video to the other guy....and she did this the month of my bday..

2006-12-10 18:55:51 · 16 answers · asked by goingsmart 1 in Singles & Dating

sent you an fwd email from another girl, and you asked him nicely who she was and he start yelling and hung up...then turned his phone off? what r u to think? keep in mind that I didn't yell or ask if he was seeing her. I asked him nicely and stayed nice through out the call.

2006-12-10 18:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by Sunshynebeams 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for 3 years and its been 3 weeks since we last did it, and hes been too tired lately from work. What do I do and am i right to be wrong?

2006-12-10 18:54:02 · 11 answers · asked by abella_03 1 in Singles & Dating

My lover (we are not together at present b/c i am away at college) says he loves me and thinks we will end up together and tells me he misses me when i am in town. why then does he not call me for two weeks? im scared to call but dont know why...i get nervous b/c i still love him. should i call? do men get shy to call the girl they love wholeheartedly?

2006-12-10 18:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 18:52:13 · 21 answers · asked by tina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:50:13 · 12 answers · asked by tapakani 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together 4 yrs, we have an 18 mnth old son. For the second time I have caught him looking at porn and 75% of it was male porn-he is extremely homophobic, 100 hottest men, circle jerk, face it and then some really xrated stuff-which confuses me more. But I also have read that this is a defense mechanism. We are suppose to be getting married next year. Now I am hestitant-I dont want to devote myself to someone for 15 years and then be left b/c he was gay. I have questioned him about it and he denies it and says that I am sick for thinking that way, and comes up with blunt face lies. HELP

2006-12-10 18:49:59 · 21 answers · asked by confused_77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating