sent you an fwd email from another girl, and you asked him nicely who she was and he start yelling and hung up...then turned his phone off? what r u to think? keep in mind that I didn't yell or ask if he was seeing her. I asked him nicely and stayed nice through out the call.
2006-12-10 18:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by Sunshynebeams 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's either cheating on you or if you've asked other times, he's irritated.
2006-12-10 18:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cut off all communication with you then you just might consider doing the same thing and keeping it that way ,,,, There's allot of fish in the pond and I'm sure you could find someone that would at least treat you in a civil manner ,,,, His blowing up the way you described just might have a reason behind it ,,,, If there weren't anything wrong then he wouldn't have reacted the way he did ,,,, Might be better all the way around if you just turn the page and start a new chapter in your life by finding some one else who's fun to be with and comes trouble free ,,,,
2006-12-11 04:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
3 possible answers:
1.u drove him crazy by this question maby u asked this question for many times when he sent any fwd email to u, maby she is just her net friend ,he thought that u didn't trust him.
2. maybe he was sad and down that moment , and he needed u to talk with but suddenly u called him and say that who was that girl,in this way also his action was natural.
3. maybe she is her girfriend too or also his new girfriend(i think this is the quite impossible and wrong answer to your question but i'm sure u r just thinking about this, plz don't think of this absurd matter )
find his problem on the 2 first answer,
good luck
2006-12-11 03:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by shamim 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What would I think?
1. He's feeling defensive and guilty and is probably seeing someone else even if its not this girl.
Or
2. Is not seeing someone else, but he's overly sensitive and has lack of trust issues
Either way, it doesn't make him a very attractive catch. If you've been with him a long time and still want the relationship, I'd suggest a non aggressive heart to heart focusing on how his actions made you feel and see how he responds.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 03:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by lavender-chartreuse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would think he made a mistake and sent that email. Now he knows he is guilty and is trying to play the guilt trip on you as if you did something wrong-in the meantime acting mean to you and allowing himself to think of an excuse. I would think he is hiding something-cheating if the email told enough. Why is he so defensive over a girl if she is no one that matters?
2006-12-11 03:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on what the emails said. he's also probably irritated at the fact that you may be jealous which is not your fault. you have every right to be jealous. but don't accuse him of anything just simply talk it out and let him know you aren't accusing him of cheating on you, you just simply want to know who she is. and if he's still yelling at you and acting completely angry for no reason you might want to reconsider your relationship with him.
2006-12-13 05:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Diana_Is_Amazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would he be upset and get angry if you were nice? The only thing I can think of is that you caught him doing somethng wrong and he did'nt know how to react, so he got angry instead. Fact is, you deserve an honest answer so next time you two talk, don't budge and ask again.
2006-12-11 03:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have found that when men get defensive about things like that they are feeling guilty. He probably wanted to share the email with you but then forgot that it was from the other girl. he gave himself away and doesnt know how to answer your question.. Run!
2006-12-11 02:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him why he got all bent out of shape about it. If he still won't talk about it, email the girl and get to know her and see if she has anything to add to the situation.
2006-12-11 02:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ronka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'll become nervous & scarin... cos he never done it before..
& i afraid he's doing something... cheati way..
i'll let both of us cool down.. & i'll ask back tis question at the next 2 days... if he's still refuse or keep silence, so i'll be the spygal.. check the things out... u can check from his best fren... & i show it all if he's refused again... break is the final round..
2006-12-11 02:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That shows that you are jealous obviously. I don't know what he's problem is but maybe he is not interested and just playing games? I say drop the guy he's just a player.
2006-12-11 02:57:38 · answer #11 · answered by Dispirited 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋