Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

im 17 and im single ... I feel ashamed to admit it but I've never had a girlfriend I feel pathetic . I don't know what to do every time i meet someone i like they don't like me or tell me that they just want to be friends . I have a huge capacity to love but I have problems and stuff that could interfere . I'm very nervous talking to women and have a hard time conveying my feelings . I don't know what to do or how to get a date .

2006-12-10 18:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lithium89 1 in Singles & Dating

I kept dreaming of the guy I really like. We talk but It seem I like him more than he likes me. What does this dream mean?

2006-12-10 18:28:18 · 12 answers · asked by Celest O 1 in Singles & Dating

After a long night of making love, the young guy rolled over, pulled out a cigarette from his jeans and searched for his lighter.

Unable to find it, he asked the girl if she had one at hand.

"There might be some matches in the top drawer," she replied.

He opened the drawer of the bedside table and found a box of matches sitting neatly on top of a framed picture of another man.

Naturally, the guy began to worry.

"Is this your husband?" he inquired nervously.

"No, silly," she replied, snuggling up to him.

"Your boyfriend then?" he asked.

"No, not at all," she said, nibbling away at his ear.

"Well, who is he then?" demanded the bewildered guy.

Calmly, the girl replied, "That's me before the operation."

2006-12-10 18:27:59 · 14 answers · asked by hey 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 18:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK REALLY NEED HELP!!my sister who is 14 is really testing my temper.ever since she got her own cellphone and went to a boarding school she got this very annoying attitude towards me,i dont want to make things worse so i just distance myself from her.but she keeps treating me like i am a useless person.when i ask her something she always make that know all face.and that really is the last straw.i feel like giving her a spank so that she knows how to respect me.yeah well,maybe that will gimme the bad gurl title.my other sisters seem to give her support more.i also went to a boarding school and only got to meet my family once a year.i guess that is one of da reason why i feel so isolated by my own family.i always cried and i dont know whom i can trust.everyone seems to think that i am the bad gurl.i dont want them to know how i feel because it will only make me look helpless in front of them.thats why i never told anyone about this.even my mom.wat can i do???

2006-12-10 18:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by quaint 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you do If you are just generally untalkitave. I'm not necessarily shy, just bad at starting and/or keeping conversations, finding interests, etc. So I can easily go up to most people and tell them something, but conversation, flirting, and reaching out to meet new people are some of my weak points. I'm also unusually shy around girls I like. I know that is natural, but it's something I want to reduce.

2006-12-10 18:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Ese 3 in Singles & Dating

i ran into my first love a few months ago and i must say he looks incredible. it has been years ago (40) that we dated. i always thought he was the one. since then i am married but since i saw him again i can't get him off my mind. what on earth do i do

2006-12-10 18:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by cindy p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:23:36 · 17 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I were having problems and I broke up with him. A couple of weeks later he asked me to marry him (ring and all) and I said no because I had moved on and I was dating other people. Now I am having regrets about this. We were together for 6 years. I know he still loves me and we still talk. Do you think I should just tell him I made a mistake, or maybe ask him to marry me instead?

2006-12-10 18:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by mimi g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:23:31 · 15 answers · asked by Chi78 1 in Singles & Dating

I have liked this girl for a while now ( 2 years ) we have gone out before and she says she still likes me and all that and im moving schools and i really like her and i dont know what to do or say to her and i dont want to lose her so what can i do

2006-12-10 18:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by Rick M 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 18:23:13 · 12 answers · asked by angel.2u@home 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I will be getting married soon. I have 2 small children (2 and 4). His mother owns a 2 bedroom trailer and has offered for us to take over payments and move in with her. She would have 1 room. We would have the other room. and eventually we would build on another room for my daughters. My sister says that being newly married and moving my children into the house with his mom would be a grave mistake and would ultimately cause the demise of our marriage. What do you think?

2006-12-10 18:22:26 · 10 answers · asked by reowrrrr 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is dating a co-worker a safe thing to do?how will that affect job performance and how ugly can it get when things dont work out?

2006-12-10 18:21:54 · 19 answers · asked by Ben S 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i know this probably isnt in the right category. but ok heres the deal. im 17 and have a 3 month old baby. the father and i are no longer together but he tries to be "involved" but he doesnt give money or anything to help out. and i even think the only reason he comes over is to try and patch things up with me because he hardly holds the baby or plays with him. My mom and i can no longer afford living here (we're in CA) so we're planning on moving to Arizona. and i think this is a good idea also because i dont wanna be around the father and i dont think raising my baby with that family is a good idea because 1)the babys grandfather beats up his son 2)theres history of sexual abuse and nothing was done about it & 3) theyre just not good people.
so my question is could he take the baby away from me if i end up leaving? because his parents are those type of people that brain wash him into getting a lawyer and all this junk. and also is there anything I can do so he wont take the baby?

2006-12-10 18:21:30 · 13 answers · asked by Jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What makes the best man/mate??
I as well as my girlfriends found this to true...here it goes...
1) RICH- and Wealthy...
2)Asian are the best guys to date and marry since they listen, smart, usually rich as above in 1
a Indians/Arabs do not know how treat a woman..it in their culture to have woman "serve them" IE BORAT
b Blacks-Players and cheats
c Italian- Dumb jocks
dJewish) Cheap and racist
3) dress well-need nice shoes and watch ( Rolex)
4) Drive a nice car ie Porsche, Lexus, Benz, BMW, Bentley
No Domestic crap or cheap Hyndai or Honda
( Trust me, they tend to be losers)

5) College educated
6) In the 30s
7) Penis size

What do you think ladies??

2006-12-10 18:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Singles & Dating

What should I do? Should I put my family first or should I do what's making me happy?

2006-12-10 18:20:01 · 2 answers · asked by maichellaih♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 18:19:40 · 13 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad does. He leaves to work at 6a.m. and some nigths doesnt coem home until 7p.m. It sucks, he does the same thign every day Mon-Sat. Hopefully I can get a good degree in college and not have to suffer the way he does just to provide for us.

2006-12-10 18:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I met this guy who I really liked in London and he liked me as well. He's from Manchester. The thing is he gave me his number but I called after a couple months and the number is no longer in service. I wanna see him again but I don't know how to find him. I just know his first name and dont know his last name nor I know what college or uni he's studying at in Manchester..... How do I find him?

2006-12-10 18:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about my life partner,well i will my sweet heart

2006-12-10 18:16:54 · 7 answers · asked by regans s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is she into me or not?
ok so i have a friend that i have known for a while that i have tension w/, althou shes not my type...she feels the same way, but we have never done anything...i like her friend however and i have shown interest in her friend in the past. well her friend came back along in life two yrs later and saw her at my friends place.shes been doing little things that make me wonder...like wanting me to smoke a cig w/ her, goin to see her at work, even her asking me if i was goin to the other chicks place...she asked me that several times...so i said yeah im goin to watch a movie...do u mind? i said it as a joke, but she was like hmmm...yeah and then smiled and then she said no after she did that...am i thinking too much, or is she into me and how can i figure out if shes interested or not w/o just comin up too straightforward?sorry bout the long story,just wanted to give some background

2006-12-10 18:15:57 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a Hindu and he is having an affiar with a muslim Girl for last 8 Years.. They have done remarkable progress in their own carrier fields and hold a great position and since both of their families do also know each other from a long time therefore they are agreed to do the marriage..

Now the Questions arises is this that Marriage can be done with having SPECIAL MARRAIGE ACT 1954. but here families do also want to celebrate this marriage with each of their own rituals.. Like with Nikah & Shaadi.. Since relatives of both the sides need to be treated in great manner for this marriage and therefore it is required that rituals of both the sides should have to be performed at the best level.

Now both of the Boy and Girl is in dlilemma that How to do this so that relatives of both the sides can accept the marriage with open heart.

2006-12-10 18:15:38 · 13 answers · asked by sonia s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 18:15:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-10 18:15:32 · 6 answers · asked by vilas vasantrao shinde 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a guy good friend whom I am really in love with, but things got complicated. Although I still love him that much but loving him just causes me a lot of hurt and pain. He is a good friend but I need to get over him. It's really difficult cause since we are friends it is expected that we hang out with our other friends once in a while. In short, if I try to avoid him totally, I might loose him as a friend. But in the same time I am trying not to interact with him so I can start moving on with my life. I am really confused, I don't know what to do!

2006-12-10 18:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by taylorhanson 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for almost 2 years, he's 23 and im 19. Things were perfectly fine, except for the odd tiff like all couples, He wanted to go overseas and wanted me to come and he was happy to go only for 3-6 mnths. Then on the weekend he goes home to c his parents. He comes back the next day and tells me its over cause his parents arent happy with me, and cause he wants to now travel alone and for a year! The reason his parents don't like me is cause im a quiet person, like i have been my whole life! I was a quiet person when we hooked up so I dont understand how its a problem now! I also dont understand why he talked to them about our problems and not me! He didnt even give us a chance to talk about them. His parents have told him to end i think and I dunno what to do cause I love him soo much. I know im young but I know what I want. My mum was married at 19 and is still with my dad to this day so no one can tell me im too young to know what i want! help!

2006-12-10 18:14:06 · 16 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

i went out with this guy for 2 weeks but things did not work out well but i really liked this guy very much.in the relationship he never talked to me that much all we did was watch a movie together kiss for a momment after we go,hug good by and leave. the other day he told me he had a galfriend i was truly pissed though i liked him and this were not working well for them so he decided to ask me out. after all the oral sex i have given him this is what he had to say YOU LOOKED GOOD THE OTHER DAY BUT GUESS. THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN A BAD IDEA HAVE A NICE HOLIDAy. i feel used and he has my staff and i got his. i want my staff back

2006-12-10 18:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by BRIDGET M 1 in Singles & Dating

We broke up the first time because all that bouncing up and down on the bike caused her to be sore down there, and then our sex life went on the decline.
I asked her if she could take up a more sedate pursuit like fly fishing, something I really enjoy, but as shes really small(4ft 11inch) she reckons that shes too short to fish. I say not, but she is so sure.

She has mentioned that she would join the Sherlock Homes Fan Club though as she likes all that intrigue. Not sure if that helps.

2006-12-10 18:13:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont have her phone number but i have her email. i dont want to look like a stalker but i want to show her that im interested.

2006-12-10 18:13:10 · 10 answers · asked by justinxtime 1 in Singles & Dating