Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I moved to Canada 3 months ago - to start university here... and I am so lonely here. I miss my home, my family and my friends. Back home, I used to have many friends and people knew me - I was important. University is a lot less fun than I expected it to be. I am not doing well academically, I cannot relate to my 'friends' over here, and I find myself almost running back to my room everyday, so that I can hide from the world. I find myself taking the less crowded route to class everyday, even though it is a longer route- just so that I dont have to face people 'looking at me'. I cry everyday. I feel like such a failure here and I don't want to tell my mother that I want to go back home because of financial constraints - she has spent a lot of money to send me here and go through the whole immigration process. Not to mention having to explain to aunts and uncles why I am back. Plus I would have wasted my time here. No, I dont want to go back. But I don't know what to do. Suggestions?

2006-12-10 17:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by tanyao 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

open up to good-looking tall funny and never reject them on an initial basis?

2006-12-10 17:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean mine really is black.. and the pupil ( black colour) is very big.. sometimes if i wear coloured contacts ... it cannot cover the black area totally .. there will the black outline over it.. is it normal?? some people even thinks its fake.. anyone else have this .. i mean do people find this kind of eyes attractive

2006-12-10 17:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i know and i use to like him but i got over him but for some reason why he wont leave my mind i've had dreams about him... i dont know why i have had dreams about him....... im over him (i think) i dont wanna have a crush i know that sounds weird but it ends up with a broken heart well for me at lease i know it wont work out between us it never will (i think) last time i said that to myself i cryed in my pilow......why?...... why wont he just leave me for good why does he stay in my mind.....

what is wrong with me?
why did i cry?

please when u answer dont be harsh ........

2006-12-10 17:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lil 'sita 1 in Friends

I know this is going to sound insane but here it goes. I know that im wrong and i admit i need help, im being admitted into the four winds hospital next week. My boyfriend, who i love very very much says he doesnt love me anymore. Is it true that you can fall out of love or is love really forever whether you choose to admit it or not Im abusive, physically and verbally. My boyfriend even tells me he knows for a fact that i have no idea im hitting him when i hit him. And i dont, i dont realize until much later .he came to my house tonight and i said so icant kiss you and he said no so i tried to anyway, and he moved his head, the finalyl he kissed me back. and he said i didnt want to kiss you back because itd make me fall for youa gain and make me remember all the good times weve had and remind me how much i do care for you. and then he started to kiss me and then pretended to get distracted by something stupid 3 different times,

2006-12-10 17:52:55 · 11 answers · asked by idontevenknow 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do some people disappear in a relationship and then magically appear again? Has this ever happened to you? What was their excuse?

2006-12-10 17:52:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:50:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just curious, what do you guys find about a man smell (not BO, and not that crap they buy and slap on)... what the heck is it?

2006-12-10 17:49:20 · 3 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Friends

We have a random secret Santa every year for our end of year xmas work do.. I happened to draw out my bosses name.. What should I get him?? (probably shouldn't be too offensive) but funny is ok, I have to spend around $10... Any Ideas would be great... Thanks.

2006-12-10 17:49:17 · 6 answers · asked by channille 3 in Friends

well when my bf tells me he loves me
he wants me to say it back

well i dont think im ready to say i LOVE him
cuz i just like him

and he always looks at me after he says it waiting for me to say it back

what do i tell him??

thanks everybody

2006-12-10 17:48:41 · 17 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a random secret Santa every year for our end of zmas work do.. I happened to draw out my boss.. What should I get him?? (probably shouldn't be too offensive) but funny is ok I have to spend around $10... Any Ideas would be great... Thanks.

2006-12-10 17:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by channille 3 in Friends

I am being serious here, so serious answers only please. I'm wondering why guys (I'm not saying all) refer to 'girly' mags even though they're in a satisfying and happy relationship with their gf?

2006-12-10 17:46:38 · 18 answers · asked by Snoopy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:46:23 · 8 answers · asked by CoNfUsEd14 1 in Family

my ex broke up with me 3 mths ago. And the situation goes like this:

Right after 1 month of the break up, I wrote on my msn nick saying that I still love him. Then it immediately came with a corresponding msg on his msn which goes like this "even if u cannot hear my voice, I'll be right beside u dear". Since then, he has been putting up love song lyrics, with words and meanings like i love u and i miss u...etc. I find it reali misleading and began to question myself if he's hinting for a patch back? when finally I decided to stop all the guessings, I sms to ask him and he said I think too much. Those were juz song lyrics that meant nothing! And I was kind of reprimanded by him for accusing him that since those words were not for me, then it muz be for his new gf! he told me he's still single! WTF is he doing!? I reali hate to see wads on his msn nick cos its so misleading, making me reminiscing the past n carrying hopes for him n yet can't bear to delete his contact

2006-12-10 17:45:58 · 17 answers · asked by ^_^ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:45:50 · 5 answers · asked by jlprice1981 1 in Family

2006-12-10 17:45:48 · 6 answers · asked by Lost...i think 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a high speed chase on the freeway. I was going at about 100 mph and it felt really great. When I crashed my car, I hopped on a horse and continued to speed. I wasn't running in fear, it just felt really good especially when I was riding the horse. Do these symbols mean anything? I recently decided to leave certain situation I felt were going nowhere. Maybe the dream has something to do with it.

2006-12-10 17:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by Army 1 in Singles & Dating

It makes you want to give up on them?

Upsets you?

Frustrates.

I know mine about females, what about yours?

2006-12-10 17:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

1. face
2. height
3. sense of humor
4. background (race and family and education etc)
5. confidence
6. future
7 Understanding and kind
8. Buffness or curves or preference of the body

2006-12-10 17:41:41 · 9 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this older women, friend of one of my parents. She is divorced and does not go out with other guys. I think she is attractive and I want to ask her if I could kiss her and probably move on to other things but I want a kiss more. Should I tell her? and if i do How?

2006-12-10 17:39:39 · 16 answers · asked by PC 3 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend cheated on me should i leave him?

2006-12-10 17:39:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband is a drug addict. we have been together for 7 years. everything was ok until he met this guy that influenced him to take drugs. he's been in and out of rehab but after a week he'll be back with his old routine...as in he will spend his whole pay check treating his addict friends. should i give up on this guy? i don't want to have another failed marriage. and i do not want are children to be seeing his situation.

2006-12-10 17:39:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hello. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We are both sophomores in college and love each other very much, but due to recent events, I am starting to ask myself some hard questions about this relationship. For about 9 months now, we are AVERAGING 2 sexual experiences a month. Sometimes there are 0 in a month, and by sexual experience I mean that I make her have an orgasm by going down on her. The only stimulation I have received in the past year is from her hand while I'm still using only my fingers on her (she has not gotten me in over a year). She does not want to do anything more to me because she thinks its gross. Lately, I have been having strong urges for her to do more and actually get me(yes I've told her). I love her very much, but she has no desire to do anything sexually. I am always the one who initiates any kind of making out or sexual activity, and I becoming sick of it. AM I obsessed with sex or is this a problem in our relationship

2006-12-10 17:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Singles & Dating

If Laura does leave me what can I do to cope and what can I do to find another relationship and also how long should I wait because I dont know what I would do without Laura, I REALLY DONT KNOW at all

thanks
Mitch

2006-12-10 17:38:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard this shy guy had thing for me a while back. He told me one time the kind of girl i am and how he liked my type. There were times where he would pursue and some times where he would not believe in himself about the situation. His friend told me that he liked me but thought i was "way out of his league". Is this possible?

2006-12-10 17:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night... i accused my g/f of cheating on me w/another guy. i realize it was stupid and ive talked to both of them. the guy says that he would never help a girl cheat on her b/f no matter who it was. and my g/f says she doesnt think she can ever forgive me... i realized i love her more than anything and dont want to lose her. wat should i do? and wat can i expect to happen?

2006-12-10 17:36:43 · 7 answers · asked by kdm_42089 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband and I got married last summer. I think we had only been married 2 weeks the first time that he hit me. He and I were arguing and we said some awful things to each other. I became very angry and told him that I did not love him anymore and that I loved someone else. There was no one else. That was the first time he hit me. I really dont have to go into all the other times. Anyway, I finally left him in May 2006. I really feel like an idiot because I took so long to leave. I left him twice before we got married because he was AWFULLY verbally abusive. For god sake why did I ignore the signs in the beginning!!! He would get angry if men looked at me. He would say things like"I dont like the way men look at you.'' He flipped out when I got a job,so I quit. I tried to do everything so that he would stop being soooo mean. He was not mean all of the time, but when he was it was awful. He told me that if he was with someone else he would not act that way,I believe him.

2006-12-10 17:36:15 · 22 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 17:36:03 · 30 answers · asked by ROMEO M B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok on monday it will be a month.. but me and my ex still talk... she is kicking it i with some guy. Swears it is just a friend. But when we do talk she always seems to bring up that she still loves me but i snot in love with me.... I dont get it. I never bring up feelings or anything like that... so why does she keep doing it? And not to mention she always mentions that she does not want or love to die. But yet she spends her time with this new "friend"... help Im confused
She broke up with me... but has said from the begining that she is not sure it is over between us... she said she is not with the guy. they spend time together and such. but nothing is going on because she is not over me yet.. not sure to believe her or not but that is what she said

2006-12-10 17:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating