Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

what sould your main corcern in your 20's then in your 30's and in 40's

2006-12-10 17:19:23 · 6 answers · asked by robert 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been liking this guy ever since school started. We've become really good friends. The thing is i shouldn't like him. I mean yea hes good looking, smart, funny, and tall but hes also self absorbed, a major flirt, cocky, and hangs out with these older girls all the time. And sometimes its seems like hes really feeling me, but other times its like hes avoiding me. I dont want to be thinking about him all the time like i do now so how can i stop liking him?

2006-12-10 17:18:57 · 6 answers · asked by Morgan 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband says he knows that everytime we have sex I am hoping I will get pregnant. He told me last night that this is a huge turn off. So how am I supposed to stop hoping to get pregnant?

2006-12-10 17:18:15 · 23 answers · asked by Ryan's Ma 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i m 178cm tall, he's 162cm. he always claimed tht i'm too tall. this makes him felt shame when we went shopping or when we go frens gathering.how to help him gain more confidence?

2006-12-10 17:16:21 · 6 answers · asked by JC8577 1 in Singles & Dating

There are a group of people who making me feel miserable and I did nothing but good for them and they feel they have every right to make me feel bad. I gave up doing stuff for them and they have passed rumor around and everyone believes it. I don't know what to do, talk to someone like my Dean or a schoolmate that's always been there for me... I want it to be resolved but I don't know how to resolve.

2006-12-10 17:16:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Any of you ever been hypnotized? If so tell me about it. If not...make something up. The hotter the better.

2006-12-10 17:15:24 · 5 answers · asked by backinblackwod 1 in Singles & Dating

..she is in a relationship with another man.

2006-12-10 17:15:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a 11 month month relationship with her and the day before she ended with me she told me to never forget how much she loves me and that she wasnt going anywhere. how long will it take for me to get over her?

2006-12-10 17:15:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know some women has forgotten about walks on the beach, making love by a campfire, candlelight dinner, it's all about going to the mall, what's romantic about that?

2006-12-10 17:14:57 · 20 answers · asked by tomasd45 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is older than me. We are in our forties.
I have been sick for 7 years. She never asked me how I was doing or whether she could do anything for me. Even being sick I asked her what I could do for her. That doesn't make me better...just a fact. In the beginning she actually made fun of me.
She now has the same symptoms I have. Recently she started calling, but I feel it's only to get information from me that will help her get better.

With the holidays upon us, do I put all of the bad feelings aside or not?

2006-12-10 17:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by flyinghawk0727 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-10 17:14:11 · 6 answers · asked by c_jack_98 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I am a pretty smart guy (3.9) GPA at a Science University.. I have alot of friends.... and I am not a total Nerd... (at least I think so) I am very picky with who I date... I like this Girl... she is gorgeous, smart, adorable, lets just say... next to perfection... I know that a girl like that would typically date someone extraordinary, someone rich, smart, and special... I was her friend for 2 years, hang out, study together, take classes, chat, etc.. last year, we both Transfer to different Universities.... she wanted a goodbye dinner ( which I refuse).... she gave me her # in her native country over the summer to call (which I did not)... now that she is in a new University, i haven't talk to her since... it has been 7 months... I know that giving up is the right thing to do, but why do I feel as if what I did was wrong (avoidance and letting go)?

2006-12-10 17:12:56 · 3 answers · asked by J 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you think is the answer of true love?

2006-12-10 17:11:45 · 17 answers · asked by i cant 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it wrong to marry your own cousin and relatives?

2006-12-10 17:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We danced really close, but he hangs out with some people that dance with girls whether they like them or not, and then my friend pushed us together for the last dance. I left the dance quickly after from nerves, and then the next day he didn't even glance at me in the hallways??
Is he nervous, or was it just so casual for him?

2006-12-10 17:11:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do girls always run to the guys with money instead of down to earth guys?

2006-12-10 17:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by steve_5000us 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you do when your dating a guy that you really like and out of the blue your ex calls you up and says that he wants to get back with you?

2006-12-10 17:11:00 · 7 answers · asked by shika_shay06 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for half a year now, things work out fine. Hes a single parent with 2 boys (4 & 6) who stayed with his mom in the US so far, because he serves in the US military & is stationed overseas where he & I met. Now, they are finally coming over to live with him/us, which makes me really happy, because they didnt see their dad in a long time (even before he was here, he was deployed 3 times already). Most of their lives they stayed with their grandma, because their actual mom f*cked up (excuse my language). The six-year-old remembers her, the four-year-old doesnt. Im pretty young (20) yet more mature than most young women at my age (been on my own for a long time & other factors made a deep impact on that). Ive been with children before, worked in daycare, did a lot of babysitting - but between watching and raising a child there is a big difference. I need advice on how to build a good relationship with the boys. I want to be their friend & mom (when theyre ready)...

2006-12-10 17:10:05 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

so i go to a private school where i know every single student and im kinda over all of them but i want to meet some guys and have some options. and i dont know how. im really shy and its hard for me to like go up to people randomly and stuff. and i just kinda want a boy right now. lol. and noooo im not desperate.

2006-12-10 17:08:45 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by tedschram 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend liked him 1st but he already new that. She writes his name all over her note book writeing i love him and stuff like that. When i heard he liked me thats when i started likeing him. what should i do, my brain says go on but my heart says keep liking him and i realy realy realy like this boy

2006-12-10 17:08:15 · 5 answers · asked by Adiam Z 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend of 7 years was on the computer, afterward i checked the internet history, she had been on a site that was called "about" and she had read articles about cheating. she knows i'm not cheating, but could she be thinking about cheating?

2006-12-10 17:06:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

c i've been invovle with a guy for a 1yr and a half off and on and i luv him so much but it's not healthy meaning the back and forth
he cares this i know but he's not as dedicated as i am. we go to the same church and we run a business together also. so spending time and being around each other is inevidible. so how do i make my heart behave. he's really a great guy a real gentleman. Very handsome there for he gets alot of attention likewise i'm attractive as well so i recieve alot of attention also. i guess it's jealousy on both ends but i've tried to explain that my heart belongs to him and only him. i do flirt but it's completely innocent. So does he but it comes along with the territory it's basically customer service on my part (customers) strickly business and a smile or to never hurts it keeps business booming
(resturant) and he does the same so how do i cut off the feelings and still remain friends with him on a business level and yes we've been intimate.

2006-12-10 17:06:42 · 4 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

and how does it happen? how we can have kid and all that and whenever i explain her she forces me to get married with her, i told her that sex is not connected with marrige, you can have a safe sex but she is kind of afraid and she wants it to, now how to get her rid from the fear,

2006-12-10 17:06:22 · 16 answers · asked by Zenon 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had a friend with benefits for greater than six years now. We are both extremely busy people and sometime we don't speak for months at a time. Then out of the blue, one of us will decide to call the other. We both have admitted that we love each other. Also, I'm "that" girl and he is "that" guy for me. You know the type of friend that you cry on their shoulder and they comfort you whenever someone breaks your heart or rejoices with you whenever you find someone that makes you happy, even if it's only for a short time. We live about 200 miles apart and whenever we briefly see each other we often get "involved" again. I told him that I'd be happy however our situation turned out and regardless if we were together or not. I am content to be his friend and throw rice at his wedding. He won't do the same for me. Why? I don't understand. He said doesn't like the idea of another man with me eventhough he doesn't think we would work out. He asked me what I'd do if he got me pregnant? WTF?

2006-12-10 17:06:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to get my ex back really bad for a while until finnally i decided to just move on because she doesnt care about me at all anymore and if she wanted to be my friend then it takes two not only me. Then out of the blue i get a text then she starts saying how i seem like my old self again stuff like that. I know she doesnt want me back and i really dont want her anymore. So what is that supposed to mean things were getting better with us in person when we see each other im scared its going to get weird again after we have talked a little.

2006-12-10 17:06:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by tripmillawire2112 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a young woman and I know that guys can take even the most innocent thing a girl does or says into a sexual context(that's what I've been taught or experienced)/

Um I dress modestly, I don't touch guys, I am more distanced from taken guys(whether they are married or have a girlfriend). I don't spend alot of time alone with guys. If they are funny I may smile and laugh alot. If they are an instructor, the one that never grows tired of you if you always are in his office to get help on assignments I do that.

Suggestions? Am I doing anything up there that may be taken the wrong way?

2006-12-10 17:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

was it funny, awkward, normal, ironic.. etc?

2006-12-10 17:05:39 · 8 answers · asked by arrowhead 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 17:05:12 · 8 answers · asked by vasantha m 1 in Weddings