my girlfriend of 7 years was on the computer, afterward i checked the internet history, she had been on a site that was called "about" and she had read articles about cheating. she knows i'm not cheating, but could she be thinking about cheating?
2006-12-10 17:06:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She could think you're cheating, she could be looking into it for a friend, thinking some else is cheating, just for the hell of it. Who knows.
2006-12-10 17:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is cheating, I think she thinks you are cheating or she has a friend that is being cheated on.
How in the world can you have a "girlfriend" for 7 years. Isn't it about time to jump into the fire or get out of the kitchen?
2006-12-11 01:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My favorite quote is "Don't go looking unless you want to find something, because chances are you are going to find something you don't want to find" If you trust her you shouldn't be looking at the Internet history after she gets off the computer. So you have some trust issues that you need to work out. I don't know if its the lax that you have gotten from being together for so long you have this fear now that she's gotten tired of you and wants to move on. But if you are worried that she is going to cheat just ask her, but know this question comes with repercussion. She's going to want to know why your asking and then she'll know you've been checking behind her and then she'll know you don't trust her and she'll want to know why? So be prepared. But for all you know she was bored and was just reading random things on the computer as she came across them; no way of knowing unless you're a mind reader or you simply come out and ask her! Good luck
2006-12-11 01:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might just be me, but If I were going to be cheating on a guy, I wouldn't look it up on the internet. She may be suspecting you of cheating for an unknown reason in which case you may want to think about if you have changed your attitude/actions/or personality towards her recently. Otherwise I would say that one of her friends is in trouble, and she's trying to help.
Good Luck!
2006-12-11 01:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible, but I would not jump to conclusions. If you seriously believe that you have a reason to suspect her of cheating, have a mutual friend keep an eye on her for you. If this is just a random worry, maybe she's just curious, or maybe she knows someone else who cheated. I would stay quiet and not bring it up until you have a real reason to.
2006-12-11 01:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you should be worried about is your nosing around in her internet history. Don't say anything about what you found and be grateful that she didn't catch you doing it. Relationships are built on trust and you just stepped over the line.
There are other ways to evaluate your relationship. Some regular and frank discussion about all facets of your relationship is in order.
2006-12-11 01:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably thinks your cheating for some weird reason and wants to see what some of the signs are of men that cheat. she's probably feeling a little insecure about things. i dont think its for herself or she would just do it i mean theres nothing you can read to tell you how to cheat you just do it. pay some more attention to her be more romantic it wont kill you.
2006-12-11 01:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be looking it up for someone else or it's you she thinks is cheating. Just ask her about it.
2006-12-11 04:17:39 · answer #8 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way, you obviously don't trust her if you need to look at the internet history when shes just been on the computer.
2006-12-11 01:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, she thinks you're cheating. I don't think someone that cheats is going to look up on a website on how to cheat.
2006-12-11 01:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by pilljills 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋