I'm a young woman and I know that guys can take even the most innocent thing a girl does or says into a sexual context(that's what I've been taught or experienced)/
Um I dress modestly, I don't touch guys, I am more distanced from taken guys(whether they are married or have a girlfriend). I don't spend alot of time alone with guys. If they are funny I may smile and laugh alot. If they are an instructor, the one that never grows tired of you if you always are in his office to get help on assignments I do that.
Suggestions? Am I doing anything up there that may be taken the wrong way?
2006-12-10 17:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am confident, optomistic and sweet, and outgoing
2006-12-10 17:07:36 · update #1
Ok lets say that men being animals are what they are. You being a kind young woman being as nice as you are to everyone, May inadvertently give off the wrong signals to these types of guys.
You might want to minimize the time you spend in the instructors office as well. That could be misconstrued as a signal.
My suggestion would be to find a study partner or a tutor that is female to help you get away from this male worry issue.
2006-12-11 01:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by Biker 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your answer lies within th question actually.
Men by nature tend to misinterpret behaviors on the part of women. Things that women in general see as normal platonic (friendship) behavior, men are often likely to consider a sign that the woman might be interested.
This phenomenon is well documented in sociology.
Women do not suffer from a similar behavior.
You aren't doing anything wrong at all. Neither are the men.
Its simply human nature.
-dh
2006-12-10 18:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds great until the overdose of instructor office. This is called TROUBLE. If he makes a move, he knows you can scream harassment. It allows you the big flirt and him the big hurt.
2006-12-10 17:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its a complicated q to invite coz your on no account going to get all adult males to agree. Like a stylish that i'll think of is warm my friends will think of is gruesome. Illd say somewhat of aggravating approximately looks adult males will have an interest in self belief and character. such as you mite hit upon a smoking warm woman and adult males will have an interest in her however the 2d they discover out shes a shallow ***** they'll pass on
2016-10-18 02:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um maby the laughing thing b/c people tend to get jelous alot and stuff and if your by there boyfriend/husband w/e they may take it the wonrg way and get mad at you juts anythig like that they may take as flirting
2006-12-10 17:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe not go to the office so much and take another girl with you and maybe make the office visits shorter.
2006-12-10 17:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by mia t 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion (maybe a fact) is that you didn't actually ask a question...
2006-12-10 17:08:26 · answer #7 · answered by dgbaley27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋