and how does it happen? how we can have kid and all that and whenever i explain her she forces me to get married with her, i told her that sex is not connected with marrige, you can have a safe sex but she is kind of afraid and she wants it to, now how to get her rid from the fear,
2006-12-10 17:06:22 · 16 answers · asked by Zenon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to get married with her, so the fear is this only
2006-12-10 17:10:31 · update #1
I am 25 year old and she is 23 year old.
2006-12-10 17:15:14 · update #2
I'll assume you're either young or not from the US based on this question and writing style.
BUT, if you happen to be a Christian, then sex IS connected to marriage. But DON'T get married just to have sex, for goodness sakes. :) And don't pressure her, and definitely use condoms and another method of birth control if you DO have sex.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-10 17:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break it off, or put a limit on your friendship.
If your over 18 you will know about paying for bills, to finding a job. Talk to your dad or biological uncle. Dont hang around older persons strangers that have to ''tip-toe'' around you. Watch out if they annouce the average age then bring it all out, with intentions to 'screw you'up'''for one night. One night might mean a police record or disabled for 70 years.
2006-12-11 01:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Neil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't kno what sex is or how to have a baby then she shouldn't be even thinking about sex....you guys seem young...grow up and worry about it YEARS down the road...not trying to be mean but you jus seem young!
2006-12-11 01:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that to your gf, sex and marriage are related and that you are trying to coerce her into believing otherwise.
Her fears are real. Be afraid with her. Be very afraid.
2006-12-11 01:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend bring her to me and I will explain her in a better manner so that her fear is gone.
2006-12-11 01:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweety,if u 2 really loves each other then u should marry her & after marriage u 2 can easily fulfills sexual needs of each other
2006-12-11 01:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by san 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, get rid of her. If she does not have a picture of what goes on while having sex then she will be a lousy laid.
2006-12-11 01:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you guys, if you think sex is connected with marriage, leave it at that
2006-12-11 01:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good morning,
if you don't want to married with her, say she,
if she don't like your answer, you have the choice, to go, or to stay.
if she insist a lot, you can to go whitout her.
Good luck kissss from france
2006-12-11 01:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by baillamise, Bonne année 2019 par avance 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats something she got to do on her own u can never change a women min once she has already made it up
2006-12-11 01:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy_red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋