Ok on monday it will be a month.. but me and my ex still talk... she is kicking it i with some guy. Swears it is just a friend. But when we do talk she always seems to bring up that she still loves me but i snot in love with me.... I dont get it. I never bring up feelings or anything like that... so why does she keep doing it? And not to mention she always mentions that she does not want or love to die. But yet she spends her time with this new "friend"... help Im confused
She broke up with me... but has said from the begining that she is not sure it is over between us... she said she is not with the guy. they spend time together and such. but nothing is going on because she is not over me yet.. not sure to believe her or not but that is what she said
2006-12-10 17:36:03 · 7 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake up! She is one big liar and not a very good one either. Anytime a girl disses you by replacing you with "a friend," and then tells you she doesn't know if she wants you or not, then what in the heck are you waiting for? Before you hang up, tell her that you are not willing to play her deceitful games any further and that because of her behavior, you have decided to make the decision FOR HER that YOU are sure that you are not wanting to be with the person she has become. Be a MAN and deal with this ridiculously fickle stupid girl. Find someone else! Love is not fickle, untrustworthy, insensitive, or deceitful. Go find this out yourself! You deserve better!
2006-12-10 17:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be it that i dont know the full stipulations of whats going on between the two of you, because if there is sex involved.. from the way it sounds im sorry to say ur just a booty call. now she says this and she says that, well i know for a fact taht actions speak louder than words, if she loves you and tells you all these sweet things then the 2 of you should be together. Like i understand where ur coming from you dont know where to stand, well ima tell you one thing. Dont wait on it, tell her what you want, just come right out and say to her " i cant take this, i really want to be with you and the fact that we are apart is just not working for me" and then drop an ultimatum, if she is truthful in the fact she said she doesnt want your love to die, the 2 of you will be back together. But the more time you spend beating around the bush helps drive another nail in the coffin so just come out with it.
2006-12-11 01:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by D J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like you are not over her yet. be honest, discuss things with her, you are obviously still close. when a relationship ends, the people still think about each other, some don't get over it for a long long time. others are so ready for it, it's like second nature. but they still think about it. if you guys are broke up for real, distance yourself from her. move towards new relationships and you'll find one that feels right for both of you. someone once told me that love happens when you are not looking for it and it's the last thing you'd expect. this turned out to be true for me. (more than once) so, let her have her friends, find some new ones for yourself, and if you guys make it back to each other some how, some way, some day, then it's meant to be. if not, at least you haven't wasted a lifetime wondering how she really feels and what it all means. love will prevail
2006-12-11 01:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last relationship become a lot like that. She kicked me out then call me back, then kick me out again. She then tried to lure me back with sweet talk and little things like that, but by that time I had moved on. No time to waste, sorry. I believe you should do the same.
2006-12-11 01:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by rmrndrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask 4 a str8 4wd answer...y she broke up?
fls lik she's stil in luv wiv u n wana cme bak 2 u.mayB she wants 2 make u fl jealous..try 2 ask frnds if she's gng out with the other guy..n its up2 u 2 find a solution..but ask her for clarification..
it wil help//
2006-12-11 01:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by lUnJ@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't sure that she wants to be with you, let her go so you can find someone who is really into you! Don't waste your time with someone who doesn't appreciate you.
2006-12-11 01:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by BabyPaws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use her for sex as that is what she's looking for
2006-12-11 01:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋