Why do some people disappear in a relationship and then magically appear again? Has this ever happened to you? What was their excuse?
2006-12-10 17:52:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some people either won't or can't handle what's on their plate at the moment because their ability to deal with it collapses.
what this entails could be very complicated psychologically and their actions would be involuntary trans type.
some awake to a rip van winkle effect if they actually have been in a trans state. others just recover from their fear or inability.
2006-12-10 18:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, i've been through it...my ex disappeared five months ago and reappeared now....
Actually, i think it is the worst thing to do to a person...i mean, before you leave, you should at least respect the other person enough to tell them that it is over....
No reason in the world is good enough....trust me...he gave a bunch of reasons and appologies and promises...but no reason in the world makes you trust him again...(unless of course if he got in an accident and was in a coma for months)....
Forget him and move on with your life...i know it is hard...i know it hurts...i know it seems like you never heal...but there are great people out there...and one day, when you are ready, you will have someone better by your side...because you deserve better....
2006-12-10 18:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to be the disappear-er. From experience it has been when I was terrified. If this is someone in your life that is valuable, hang in there. If not, it can help for someone to 'call us on the carpet'. There is really no excuse for that crap. A good friend told me it is tantamount to emotional black male. I haven't done it since!
2006-12-10 18:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people excuses themselves,saying they are not ready,others really do not care about the relationship.
2006-12-10 18:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she places herself as unmarried or removes him then it's going to pass away his as purely in a relationship. and then he will in all likelihood readd her that's why it's going to reappear.. and if she has her relationship prestige hidden then that kinda is going alongside with the theory that she bumped off him from hers...
2016-10-18 02:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are magic people.
2006-12-10 17:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep yep they are fickle or perhaps not knowing how to be socially in a relationship or aloof.they could be aquarians too.
2006-12-10 17:54:26 · answer #7 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll have to be more specific when you say dissappear. Do you mean emotionally?
2006-12-10 17:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by choco-vanilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...they were not ready...
2006-12-10 17:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by mada m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋