there is this guy i know and i use to like him but i got over him but for some reason why he wont leave my mind i've had dreams about him... i dont know why i have had dreams about him....... im over him (i think) i dont wanna have a crush i know that sounds weird but it ends up with a broken heart well for me at lease i know it wont work out between us it never will (i think) last time i said that to myself i cryed in my pilow......why?...... why wont he just leave me for good why does he stay in my mind.....
what is wrong with me?
why did i cry?
please when u answer dont be harsh ........
2006-12-10 17:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Lil 'sita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why worry about it, it's just a dream, leave it at that.
2006-12-10 18:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by bigslick60 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear sweet and hurting friend, I think that inwardly you fear that there is no one out there for you. You are hanging onto this dream because its almost as if he is your only hope. He isnt. There is somebody for everybody out there. I think all women go through this especially if they lack confidence in themselves. become confident. Its easier than you think. THere are a few things that work to make you confident:
1. Start liking yourself and accepting the way you look and who you are. Don't try to change that. God made you to be exactly who you are today. Dont try to be like other people either, more than likely they would like to be like you. You were not menat to be like them anyway, so dont desire what you are not. Be content with who you are and what you look like and what you have.
2. Know that God really really really loves you. You are special and he made you to be that way.
3. Do not fear. Take steps in faith and even if you make mistakes get up and go back and fix it up. Learn from your mistakes and instead of thinking but if and what if. Remember the past is gone. You cannot make it change, so learn from the errors of the past and stand strong.
4. Become positive in your thinking. Positive thinking draws the positive and the same goes for negative thinking. Remember no one likes being around negative people. You have to override the negative feelings.
5. Find the true lover of your soul, God and begin to have a relationship with him. He has not come to take away from you but to enrich your life and help you to find your purpose and build your character. He loves you so very very much. Think about it if he created thios vast universe and all thats in it down to little earth part of the milky way galaxy and he holds the entire universe in the palms of his hands, including earth, he must be so huge. He hand picked you and knew you before you were knit together in your mothers womb. Read paslm 139. It is so beautiful.
DO not fret over someone who is not destined to be yours. Dream about the real lover of your soul. It is not sin to feel the way you do. We all go through that. Every woman wants to find a hero who will sweep us off our feet and make us queens. Sadly that dream is never realised. We find soul mates but they are never perfect and neither are we. A relationship will mean putting your all into it all the time. There is so much against true
love and true happiness. The world has become so smutty and tries to pull you down into its dirty sinful web to be consumed by its sickly desires and morals. You be accountable and stand strong. THe more of us that do that the better things will be.
I know I have given you a broader picture, but I sense this is the root of it all.
May God richly bless you. Pray for the soul mate you want. Describe him in detail down to the colour of his hair and eyes. A friend of mine did that and God blessed her with an incredibly wonderful man! It can and it does happen.
Good luck my angel. I know your dreams will come true but not with this guy!
2006-12-11 02:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u like this guy. but u control yourself b'coz u think it's weird to have a crush. it's nothing bad to have a crush. u keep on telling yourself that no i should not like this guy or something like that. u cried b;coz u have some feelings for him. it's ok it's absolutely normal. bye and take care .with lots of love.
2006-12-11 02:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by piyushaa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a while for you subconscious to clear, give it time, time clears everything and stop living in the past create a new moment.
2006-12-11 01:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because your constantly thinking about him. When you go to sleep at night especially, can you think of something else, that might help you. Best wishes.
2006-12-11 02:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Night Wind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep down in your sub conscious you still have feelings for him. Time will cure that if you let it other wise face up to to the fact you still care.
2006-12-11 01:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing wrong with you is your punctuation - or lack thereof.
2006-12-11 01:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋