Girls, Can You tell me Something That You 'just dont understand' about guys?

Question

It makes you want to give up on them?

Upsets you?

Frustrates.

I know mine about females, what about yours?

preferably a guy who is not yet yours.

please, no 'everything' stuff.

ehehe... ma the meatloaf, i can explain that one.

idontknowjustgivemeaname : i can explain that too. its quite simple.

allie that one is easy. its because u give it up. u select the guy who is most aggressive rather than go after the nice respectful guy who doesnt f and r.
U get what you accepted. The better guy isn't agressive.

ma meatloaf: he doesnt ask u out becz u dont flirt and give him a BIG GREEN LITE. "Keeper" guys are not as agressive. He takes that as u not interested enuf and he goes with the one that is.

idontknow: 'better' guys are respectful so they need a giant (I LIKE YOU). not slutty, i mean by touching his shoulder, and laughing.. (its called flirting). that will give him the permission he needs to turn it up.
Remember he was taught by his mother to respect u.

molly.. ahaha u stumped me.
Nah, its bc we need action....short attention span.

hey hey, its Ra*~: answer is he looked, stared at you and waited for a green light,
you didnt give it to him. So he either is hurt and is trying to avoid you or is trying to make you feel the same. Its a defensive action. Many of these so called problems can be fixed by a woman using her judgement to FLIRT with the reserved BETTER GUY, and not sit back and accept the advances of the agressive nice eyes Hot guy who will screw and dump you. Unless of course thats all you want too.

IM GOING HOME TO SANTA MONICA but I WILL CHECK BACK TO ANSWER IN AN HOUR.

I love this.

Mystic M: because #1 they are pretty and also responded to his advances. Sometimes it works out. Smtym the girl is not really a btch but u are jealous. Smtym the girl dosnt knw she is pretty. A real bytch would not date a better guy, but would date a jerk.

just another girl: tought one, because of your age group probably, this is just immature boys. It could be he DOES like you but didn't know how to respond or he told his friend who is a jerk and his friend decided to write you like a joke. The lesson here goes for boys AND girls. NEVER write notes or emails that can be printed and saved. If u have something just SAY it by flirting heavy or saying it to their face in private. And dont pick the better looking Jerk all the time.

crzybeachchick: i wrote you an email. phew!

~*~Oooo la la~*~ : That guy that you describe is not a "better guy", his actions say so, not his "flirting". Its RIGHT IN YOUR FACE and you should be looking for the quieter better guy and give him eye contact and a smile. Stop chasing and fliriting with the "hot" jerk. It comes back to you.

iwondersoiask: I would have to see you. Either you are innocent and sexy like the girl in 'American Beauty', or you are dressing slutty and look like an easy lay. (no offense). Those are the two that hook married guys.

kriz* : the wallet thing is more convenient, hands go in the front pockets. also probably cultural.
Less sensetive probably because nature made us that way in order to cope with the hardships or survival. My best guess.

idontknowsoiask: its not all on girls shoulders. Since men are expected to do the ASKING, do u feel like you should have to AT LEAST give him the Green Light? Cmon, do you like rejection of your affections? Neither do men. Females actually have the easy part becz innocent smiling and eyecontact can not be rejected verbally.

Answer 1

when the guy wont be man enough to talk to the girl he likes. and he avoids her!! big BIG turn off

Answer 2

Let me see...oh yeah, how about a girl writing you a note and telling you she likes you, but you don't like her back, so you had your friend pretend to be you. Leading her on and hurting her because you didn't have the balls to tell her you didn't like her. You didn't want to hurt her feelings yet you end up hurting her more than ever. What is up with that? Yeah, I met a bunch of jerks and I wonder if there any good nice guys out there...if they do or it's just a myth to get girls hopes up like some day her prince will come. Do they really exist?

Answer 3

not being able to read him. Guys like to make it really unclear if theyre interested in you or not. I'm a very practical person, I hate surprises and being unsure about situations.
When they make ambiguous statements, send you conflicting signs, whatever, it usually makes me move on before even giving it much of a chance.
What are yours?
well explain it then please.
So why should I be the one always responsible for that. I'd like it if they would make themselves clear. There needs to be a give and take it can't all be on the woman's shoulders.

Answer 4

Why must guys channel surf?
Wouldn't it be faster and easier to pick up the TV guide and read what's on, real quick?

You just get a lot of commercials and end up watching something really lame and make everyone in the room miss out on a really good movie or something.

Yes. It drives me insane listening to the tv jump from station to staion with it being 85% TV ads.

AAAAUUUUUUGGGGG!!!!!!

WHY? WHY?

Answer 5

how come a guy can never just go up to a girl and tell her he likes her when she does flirt with him and nobody else. Everyone else can see how much she is into him and he tells ONE person he likes her and the ONE person isn't her!! why the hell!
Not that im bitter, cuz im not. which means i am.
Oh yea and how come its the girls responsibility to flirt, what if i don't know how? and how come girls are supposed to know when guys are flirting with them, i never do. AND how come guys think a gal is weird cuz she doesn't have a boyfriend?

Answer 6

Why do guys date pretty girls that are total b*tches? I cant understand why some guys never seem to get past bang and hang em' mentality.

Answer 7

what i don't understand about guys is why they like putting their wallets at the back purse of their pants and also why they are less sensitive but more talkative than women.


i don't really think about these things coz it drives me nuts

Answer 8

Well I am not a girl, I am an older woman, and I wonder what happens to their brain cells as they age, they seem to get dumber and blinder.

Answer 9

Why if they like you and flirt with you all the time and tell others you are beautiful....they do not ask you out and end up going out with another girl just because she puts out!!

Why do guys only want meaningless sex?!!

AWWWWWWWW Thanks for answering our questions!! That is awesome, and thanks for insight from the male's perspective! Much appreciated! :)

Answer 10

i wonder why married men are always hitting on me?