he cheated on me?

Question

my boyfriend cheated on me should i leave him?

Answer 1

if he told you he did then he gets points for that. if he says hes sorry and admits he did wrong and he feels really really guilty... he gets even more points. he would be worth staying with as long as he promises he wont do it again and he says why he did it, a good reason. but if he did none of that, then leave him,if you found out by someone other than him, w/o him confessing... no points

Answer 2

hard to say. i would make a decision based upon what he did (was it a kiss or sex..), if he's sorry (is he defensive or guilty), and the condition of your relationship to begin with (have you been together awhile.. has he done this before.. does he treat you right). some men will cheat and the guilt will eat them alive. they could have done it because the relationship was failing or they were curious. some men will cheat and do it again. just like they say: "once a cheater, always a cheater."

now is the time to evaluate all of these aspects and only you can decide on if he should be left. you need to know your man and your relationship well enough.

good luck! i'm sorry this happened to you. i've heard it's one of the worst feelings.

Answer 3

When I was young (20)I had a very healthy relationship with an older girl (23). She was charismatic, pretty, and responsible. We were going on two years and she slipped up. The truth was that she had kissed another guy one night partying with her cousin,who I didn't like. She was intoxicated. I ended the relationship. What I didn't listen to at the time was that she was regretful and admitted that her cousin would encourage this behavior because she did it herself. She was torn over a simple kiss and so was I. I broke up with her that day. I threw every special moment, unfortunate event,pregnancy scare with her for over one kiss that didn't mean a damn thing. This was the most stupid thing I have ever done in my life. She was my first love. I still think about Monica "Mona" Lopez and the happiest moments in love. Where are you?

Answer 4

if you have a lot invested in him, like you've been together for like a year or years, everyone deserves a second chance, and thats it. if he does it a second time, kick him to the curb. ask yourself these questions:

how did he respond when you found out he was cheating on you?

did he deny it or did he own up to it?

was he sorry that he cheated or was he sorry he got caught?

did he try blame you or some other circumstance for the cheating, or did he take full responsibility for it?

how likely is he to cheat on you again, and if he did, could you handle that kind of blow?

good luck, and i hope you make the right decision.

Answer 5

I'm really sorry. I can only speak for myself, but I'd leave him. once a guy starts cheating, they usually keep it up. and I'm sure he's successfully destroyed any trust that you once had for him. and cheating is totally disrespectful. you need to be with someone who deserves your trust and will show you respect. this guy does not deserve your trust, and he's showing you no respect. you deserve better.
Good Luck with everything

Answer 6

i read someone asking if you still loved this guy. that really doens't matter because he obviously doesn't love you enough to be faithful to you. My ex cheated on me three times WITH THE SAME WOMAN before i left him...the first time. five months later I thought he changed so i gave him another chance...WRONG! he cheated on me again!!!! Please don't give him the pleasure of hurting you again. get out before you get totally crushed.

Answer 7

hell yeah you want to have the image in your head that he was having his dick inside another woman's pussy.I doubt that so leave the cheating bastard. If my bf ever cheated on me I would oohh I would be pissed and upset and leave him. no second chances with this girl.

Answer 8

Yes, he's not worth it. If he wanted to be with you someone else wouldn't have been able to get his attention in the way they did. Not worth it. I've been there and it wont change. They say it will but by staying with him your letting him know its okay and he'll keep doing it as long as he knows how to get you to stay, be strong and walk away.

Answer 9

That's for you to decide. What are you goingo t do if I say 'yes' and someone else says no. Count the number of yes and no and decide on a majortiy vote. Or toss a coin. It's for you to decide.

Answer 10

I think you need to think about the big picture and ask yourself that if you do forgive him, will you be able to forget about it in the future and just be happy you two are still in a relationship?