OK REALLY NEED HELP!!my sister who is 14 is really testing my temper.ever since she got her own cellphone and went to a boarding school she got this very annoying attitude towards me,i dont want to make things worse so i just distance myself from her.but she keeps treating me like i am a useless person.when i ask her something she always make that know all face.and that really is the last straw.i feel like giving her a spank so that she knows how to respect me.yeah well,maybe that will gimme the bad gurl title.my other sisters seem to give her support more.i also went to a boarding school and only got to meet my family once a year.i guess that is one of da reason why i feel so isolated by my own family.i always cried and i dont know whom i can trust.everyone seems to think that i am the bad gurl.i dont want them to know how i feel because it will only make me look helpless in front of them.thats why i never told anyone about this.even my mom.wat can i do???
2006-12-10 18:27:03 · 4 answers · asked by quaint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like she is either showing off or trying to push your buttons. I'd ignore her.
2006-12-10 18:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just trying to be over confident, because she's scared of the fact that she's going away.
Don't be confused.
There a difference between, soft and weak.
And hard and strong.
You're trying to be strong, by not showing your feeling, because you're scared of being weak.
When actually, you're being hard, while you have a soft heart.
There's nothing wrong with being soft hearted.
It's actually a beautiful quality.
Remember,
She's also a teen going through some stuff of her own.
Don't take it personally when she acts that way.
Give her, her space and talk to someone in the family that you trust.
The fact that you've been away from home hasn't help to build family relations.
But it's never to late.
2006-12-10 18:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Louw D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So your sister is being an arrogant teen. Well that's what many of them do. She will grow out of it. There is little you can do about it.
2006-12-10 18:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger better person and ignore it. If she sees that you are bothered by it then she wins.
2006-12-10 18:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Big Dick McGee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋