Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I know there's no one answer, every grl is different, but do most girls go for the Mr Darcy type? the good looking, nice but not sappy type.... ?

2006-12-10 19:40:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my moms 80th birthday is coming shortly, and I still have no gift! I really want to make this a special day for her, but sadly at this time I only have 50 dollers to spend. Would appreciate any ideas you might have! thanks for the help in advance smokey

2006-12-10 19:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by smokey 2 in Weddings

It doesn't matter what kind of question I ask, she gets defensive, and evasive. She tells me she can't help but feel I am fishing for something else besides an answer to the question (what ever it may be). I think its because she has some bullshit that she doesn't want me to find out about.

2006-12-10 19:37:17 · 15 answers · asked by ckgene 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the background to this unusual question. Through some freaky genetics, I appear about 15 years younger (according to friends) than my actual age of 51 (not claiming handsome, just younger). Even stranger, I've recently started attracting some women who are far too young -- 18 to 25. Once they find out how old I am (I don't lie about it), they are always embarassed and quickly bail out. That's completely understandable, and if they didn't bail, I would, because that's just way too far apart (even Hollywood couldn't figure how to make it work in Lost In Translation).

So, when one of these young women shows casual interest and waits for me to break the ice, should I:

a) Act oblivious and pretend to ignore her until she leaves.

b) Break the ice, complement her on what's hot about her, followed up by telling her my age and that she's too young for me, so we can all just move on.

So ladies -- would you prefer to be ignored or given a quick dose of reality? Thanks!

2006-12-10 19:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by sd_ducksoup 6 in Singles & Dating

.... well not too desperate, but getting there.
I'm fine right now, feeling pretty good... But this is all just sugar coating on the real me. I do well at being positive and sorta happy, but i'm a lonely 20 year old college student (living at home). I got no close friends, i've never been on a date or anything cuz i'm so shy. Whenever i start thinking about all this for a long time, i get depressed.... What to do besides "just changing how I am"?????? I need a different method.

2006-12-10 19:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

Or do you feel that you have to be gf/bf after that .
I mean like one time or two not prepared to sex but the second day its only hi or a hug .

2006-12-10 19:35:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 19:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel like if I have sex with my boyfriend I will be able to tell if he REALLY likes me..If he stays with me afterwards and doesn't move on then it isn't just about the chase. What are your thoughts??

2006-12-10 19:32:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some times wheh a relationship is new the love is so good but when sex comes in quickly, every thing becomes meaningless therefore why is it like that?

2006-12-10 19:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or is just putting on a front?

2006-12-10 19:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by bryce t 1 in Friends

My girlfriends grandad died on friday night, i was due to go away for weekend to Leeds clubbing with mates! I still went, (lots of sexy ladies in Leeds fellas) her family hate me so what was the point in hanging around with her all weekend! I was gonna let her come with me to leeds, but she wanted to be with her family! She wanted me to stay at home with her, her family cant even stand to be in the same room as me! She should of come with me to Leeds her family have won now with her spending the weekend with them! I dont want her to go to the funeral unless i can go too! Thats never gonna happen! How would you feel her brother wants to beat me up, her mother cant even look at me! I dont think ive done anything wrong weve been together for 4 years now! I think its time my girlfriend picked either me or her family! What do you think?

2006-12-10 19:31:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met my best friend about 5 months ago at work and at the beginning, i thought he was a really cool, good-looking guy. i gave him my number and that night he called me and informed me he had a girlfriend. i told him that it was fine. i just wanted to get to know him better. so we hung out during 15-minute breaks and lunch breaks mostly. we would also talk on the phones at work and on our cells alot. well, recently, he just broke up with his girlfriend (of 4 years...). i really dont know what to do because i have developed deep feelings for him in the past couple weeks, but with him and his ex, things are going fine. theyre still hanging out and on good terms. also he just turned 22 and im about to turn 19. do you think i should do anything or wait for him to come around?

2006-12-10 19:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by jane 3 in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and about a month ago, i met this really cute guy that attracted a lot of my attention and have been wanting to get to know him.

I dont really know who i like or who i want. should i give up on my current relationship and move to the guy that i'm interested in?

2006-12-10 19:28:33 · 9 answers · asked by appletree 1 in Singles & Dating

26 years old, Asian woman. Met this amazing guy and we hit it off right away. He works 6 1/2 days a week 14+hrs a day. I liked him a lot and he has told me he liked me a lot too but i really needed to chill and relax.I met him just as I was coming out of a 7+ years relationship.At first I thought he was a rebound too, but now I think I got caught in my own net. I became too clingy and aggressive too fast. My only explanation is because I am not experienced in dating, imagine this, I've been with the same guy since I was 18! Anyways, me and the guy, we really liked each other a lot. And yes, I was clingy..My question now, is things salvageable?What should I do? \I like him a lot and now we are not talking.We stopped talking and I thought I was going to move on and then out of nowhere he will text me, "hey what's up?", "happy halloween" or "happy thanksgiving"..What should I do? I like him a lot, but it's hard to win him back when he certified me clingy and crazy!I KNOW HE LIKED me.HELP!

2006-12-10 19:26:45 · 7 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Singles & Dating

be a virgin when you marry her?

2006-12-10 19:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i'm 14...I'll turn 15 in April.
I realize I'm young and some of you may think I don't know anything about realtionships..but I'm not stupid....
Anyway the other night...I met a boy at a party...he is 17 and I told him I was 16.
That put aside...
we all went to his house..my friends..his friends etc...
and we just talked...
about everything and we realised we had alot in common.
Things we've never had in common with someone else.
On both friday and saturday nights this weekend I lied to my mother and stayed the night at his house...but nothing happened..we just talked It was really neat.
Now I feel like I've screwed up alot because here is this person that I have so much in common with, and nothing can happen because I lied and said I was older.
So should I cut it off and call it a lesson or tell the truth and try to make it work.??
I am so confused!

please don't call me names or be rude, I just really need advise.
I can't talk to my mom...because then she'd know..
HELPPP

2006-12-10 19:26:09 · 26 answers · asked by tiffany_r_bunny 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sleeping with a guy who I like, and in order for me NOT to develop any more feelings for him, what do you suggest I do?!! Don't say "Stop sleeping wit him" cuz I want to!.

2006-12-10 19:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my assumption is about 99% of girls would want a guy to approach them and intitiate the relationship.

But what is your opinion and experiance,

and why would women prefer prefer to be approached?

2006-12-10 19:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by autonomous1980 1 in Singles & Dating

She is so imotional n strieght forward. I dont want to disturb her normal behavior with me by my choosy and egostick character.

2006-12-10 19:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can you tell if theyre a nice or mean person?

2006-12-10 19:24:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 19:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 19:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by mercedesinthehouse 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know some werstern guys like chinese girls.They like
chinese girls out look or their character or others??

2006-12-10 19:22:35 · 3 answers · asked by lemon 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 19:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by kae 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my very good friend is in love with me... but i really like her friend... it is a difficult situation because her friend is always hitting on me and such when we go out... yet my friend doesnt seem to mind... but i know if I tried to persue something with her friend she would hate me for it... and her friend... what would you do if you were in this situation?

2006-12-10 19:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 19:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I really hate my ex husband whom we separated six years ago. We tell each other that we dont love each other and so on. Every time he sees me he has to touch me tries to make me feel jelous by doing weird things with his girlfriend. I dont give him any attention. But its beginning to bug me. Guys plis tell me why he is behaving like that and yet he tells me that he doesnt want me and that he has moved on. Why does he still want to be my pal?

2006-12-10 19:15:57 · 21 answers · asked by cathylisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 19:14:06 · 24 answers · asked by Caraudiolover 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my Sherin a year back... She is from Kothamangalam, Kerala(India), now working in London in a hospital as a staff nurse.... dont know which hospital (seems a mental hospital) ..... I lost her... please help me find her out !!!!

2006-12-10 19:13:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Has anybody ever been stalked? Has anybody ever stalked anyone? (come on, admit it, we can be honest here!) Has anybody ever had to call the cops or get an Order of Protection?

2006-12-10 19:12:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating