my very good friend is in love with me... but i really like her friend... it is a difficult situation because her friend is always hitting on me and such when we go out... yet my friend doesnt seem to mind... but i know if I tried to persue something with her friend she would hate me for it... and her friend... what would you do if you were in this situation?
2006-12-10 19:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LEAVE IT! If you care about them! You'll split their friendship too if you do anything!
2006-12-10 19:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and the very good friend are just that RIGHT?- GOOD FRIENDS ? So if you are friends and are not really having a relationship, then you should be able to talk to her about it...After all, - you said that she act like she really didn't get brothered by the gestures that her friend gives you...
And then on the other hand - They both might want you and they are planning on having you together...........
2006-12-11 03:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by D Coy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her friend why not pursue it,and if your friend really loves you he must understand what makes you happy. you should tell her about this. If she loves you she will set you free, and not got mad if you pursue courting her friend. Explain her everything,that she will not be offended that you like her friend and you do also like her as a best friend. I know its hard but if you will not let her know all of you will acts odd to each other this will not help.
2006-12-11 03:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by aleish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should never have to stand back for friendship. Friendship that is real and mature will understand that love must progress, even if it is a little hurt sometimes. It hurts not to get who you want, and see your friend get it. But if friendship does not support love, it is neither real nor mature. My opinion.
2006-12-11 03:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want them both to end up hating you, just keep going on as you are. if i were in your situation, i would stay out of a relationship with either of them. they are friends, it's just not a good idea to get yourself in the middle. you would make a better impression on both of them if you told them this.
2006-12-11 03:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start likeing some one eles its not worth loosing ur friend over and her friend and making them have a fite is it ? im sure u will find some one eles ..bt if ur friend ends up getting a b/f or g/f then u mite be in with a chance with ur friends friend
2006-12-11 03:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several options...
And the most fun would be 3SOME!!! :D
Have sex with your friend, and then ask her if she'd mind having a 3some with you and her friend... Then you all get what you want... :D
Of course, you could be boring and date both of them... And as long as they both knew they were involved with you, there isn't a problem...
2006-12-11 03:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. love only comes around once. true lve that is. so whats more important? a one in a million chance at true love or youre best friend. u may fall 4 your friend u know......
2006-12-11 03:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a move on either one, a lot of fish in the sea, find another.
2006-12-11 03:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with both of them nothing more otherwise you will loose them as lovers and as friends.
2006-12-11 03:24:46 · answer #10 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋