some times wheh a relationship is new the love is so good but when sex comes in quickly, every thing becomes meaningless therefore why is it like that?
2006-12-10 19:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's that attitude that people have that the grass is always greener. We tend to want whatever we can't have. So you want that sex and once you get it, the mystery, the challenge, the chase, it's all over. And now you start peering over the fence at the grass in that next field and wondering if maybe over there... it's greener...
2006-12-10 19:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one really likes you, REMEMBER, he will not have sex with you, untill the maturity of your relationship. If he has it so early, he will most probably do it for his pleasure only and i'm sure, things will be what you fear. So don't be hasty in having sex. For boys, sex is just SEX, but for the girls, it means, and should mean much more than that. In a true love or likeness, sex is the last thing to be done.
2006-12-10 19:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on people, really.
I got my wife pregnant a month after she became my girlfriend. Married her three months later. We're now on our fifth year and can't imagine being with anybody else.
With those relationships you are talking about, i think they lose their meaning after sex because in the first place at least of the parties is just in it for sex. Once it's been had, there's nothing else in it for them.
2006-12-10 19:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by petetabingo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there was no time for the guy to have to... (insert quote from famous country song- "I worked so hard for that first kiss" here)
anyhow, what i mean is... If theres no time to build up that love...
it just wont work... one of them feels like the other gave in to easily, and would not be a good life partner...
I say partner because my parents never got married.. They basicly are, but no license or anything.. anyhow..
sex is an expression of love, you gotta work at it... if you dont, its meaningless.
good luck eh?
~O'riely
2006-12-10 19:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that the sex wasn't any good, otherwise as in my relationships, once the sex starts the relationship starts getting more and more serious, due to the great sex I think....it is one of the main reasons for a relationship...right...
2006-12-10 19:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they rushed into sex when they should have spent more time getting to know eachother
2006-12-10 19:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because there's nothing else to do.
2006-12-10 19:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by graduatecj08 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
isit? not for me
2006-12-10 19:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋