i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and about a month ago, i met this really cute guy that attracted a lot of my attention and have been wanting to get to know him.
I dont really know who i like or who i want. should i give up on my current relationship and move to the guy that i'm interested in?
2006-12-10 19:28:33 · 9 answers · asked by appletree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already know the answer to this question, you are just looking to us to reassure you that it is the right thing to do. Unfortunately, we can't decide for you because only you know all of the details and you, not us, will enjoy or suffer the consequences of your decisions.
With that said, if another guy attracted your attention, then you have to ask yourself WHY did he attract your attention. To be honest, I think it is because you are not fully content with your current bf. It has been my experience, that when I am in true love with a girl, I can see many amazing looking women and even let my mind wander for a short time, but none really stick in my mind for more than a day or so at most. The very fact that this new guy has "attracted a lot" of your attention and you have "been wanting to get to know him" for about a month, tells me that you need to take a closer look at the new guy and let your current bf go as gently as possible. There may be many things you love about your current bf, but if another man has your attention and you really do want to get to know him, then you should follow that feeling, but also be honest with your current bf. If you are married or there are children involved, then your decision is not quite so easy, but may yeild the same result with many tears in the process.
Even if it doesn't eventually work out with the new guy, don't worry. Life has a way of taking you where you need to go. If it is meant to be, it will be. Just follow you heart, morals, and beliefs. Always be true to yourself.
2006-12-10 19:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, go on couple dates with this new guy and see if you two click first. Cause what's the point of leaving your current boyfriend for this new guy to find out that you have nothing in common except for physical attraction?
2006-12-11 03:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by stryc9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what my babes .. life is a bit trick when it comes to relationships .. If ur current bf didn't n-thing wrong u to u .. u might be in a difficult situation .. Don't eva dump a guy for another guy for no good reason . U will regret..
2006-12-11 03:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, what 2 do what 2 do? Well just cuase someone else is ineresting doesn't mean u need to beak up. First get 2 know the guy. Is he really worth more than the one u have now?
2006-12-11 03:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't satisfied with your current boyfriend, then split.. Or you could suggest seeing other people for a little while and see what happens...
Your current boyfriend will wonder if there is something wrong with him and you are going to hurt his feelings no matter what you do, better to do it sooner rather than later...
2006-12-11 03:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does the same to you would you be angry ????
How do you think ?
Stay with him as long as you are good together and don't just leave for a reason like that , and don't cheat on him too .
2006-12-11 03:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be what if it doesn't work out are you going to crawl back to your ex. New people are fun and exciting but not always turn out who they present themselves to be. You never know what you have until you lose it.
2006-12-11 03:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your boyfriend! this other guy could turn out to be a total plum!
2006-12-11 03:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do what feels right. it is probably just lust. i say stay with your boyfriend unless you have a really good reason to leave him
2006-12-11 03:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋