Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

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2006-12-10 21:14:44 · 7 answers · asked by Lullllaaa........... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend won't speak to me. We have been friends for ten years and she is the only person who I really trusted. Plz help me...!!!

2006-12-10 21:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by ki2010 1 in Friends

I think the question is enough.

2006-12-10 21:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by cna_77381 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have a guy friend and i like him before and he was comitted that time so we didnt pursue with our relationship F,Y,I the feeling was mutual and so we continued with our life apart, I have a boyfriend now and the other guy suddenly got in contact with me and he said he still like me, what should i do any honest opinion specially if youre a man

2006-12-10 21:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by flannan 1 in Singles & Dating

im married to this man that im talkin about.he hired a hooker to do car service, for BJ (which i hate to do and dnt do).of course no man will admit their faults.im not that stupid,to believe him that its nt true...after finding a condom wrap under the front seat the next day.he had no idea where that wrap came from,2 think that its only him & me uses the car.confusion made me nosy...checkd the online bill details/current activity of his cellphne..got the #s (in/out calls) he made that night...and one # appeared to be his phonepal. i dialled that #, voicemail of course, but a woman's VM .i got the name..searchd the web...a web page popped up with the infos...found out that shes providng car service (BJ only with plastic).talked to him,in a nice way,regarding this,but responded immaturely.i ignored it,acted that it never happened..just for r child's sake.since then,things chnged btween us..negatvely.he lost my trust.whats d best thing to do?should i stay?is it still worth it?

2006-12-10 21:11:40 · 27 answers · asked by zoom113 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been marred fo 4 years now but i hate the one i became because of his orders which is i cant work so i accept he dont want to give me a pocket money so i accept he make me cut the most of my frind ship and dont agree with the rest i still talk with which is 3 frinds and i accept and now he start to be more agresive by insalting me which i cant accept any more and he began to do that infront of the kids he make afraide of any thing i do and sometime make be ashamed of my self cause i didnt wear what he think is good and do what he say i dont know what to do can any body help me????????????

2006-12-10 21:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf 5 yrz older then me does it matter i love him tho nad he talks about having kids and marriage but he txted me this message but i dnt get it pls help
da message
if i though we werentgoin anywhere u think i be talkin bout kids 2 u
war does he mean???

2006-12-10 21:08:54 · 44 answers · asked by riya 1 in Singles & Dating

ones with pretty eyes, muscular guys, tough ones, sensitive ones, ones who just fall at your feet, or totally unfeeling ones, very fit dudes? Which?

2006-12-10 21:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 in Singles & Dating

I saw a girl ,who I wanted to get married with,on a website..but I dont know about her except her nickname..I know where she lives,and what does just..how can I reach her??can I get her informations ,especially mail,on that website??if I can,how??Are there anyone who can solve this problem and save me from such a disturbing condition??please help me If you know...thanks your answer from now...take cares....

2006-12-10 21:08:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex boyfriend keeps on telling me that he loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend again but he broke up with me coz we live 'too far away' (20mins on a bus) so i don't understand, he also keeps dangling his new girlfriend in my face if ya get what i mean, tonight he says 'yeah she coming over tonight to watch a movie in my room woth me ;-). i really do like him too! But even his dad tells me he is an idiot! What does he mean please please help!

2006-12-10 21:07:16 · 14 answers · asked by Sweet_lollipop 2 in Singles & Dating

i have best friends i dont know what is the best way to make my friends happy

2006-12-10 21:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by bryan 2 in Friends

and how many of u have got ur boyfrens or girlfrens?
and please tell me what's ur age.
don't mind please, i just wanna know.

2006-12-10 21:05:35 · 14 answers · asked by cutey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 21:03:57 · 11 answers · asked by one2nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I am leaving my abusive husband after 13 years. We're 34 . We have a daughter 6, son 4. House is in foreclosure; got upset when I said that I was moving back home with my mom instead of with him to a rented house( he didn't pay even though he could afford it, net pay $980 a week). He'll act a fool regardless, no matter what I do to please him, it's never enough. I get called names, personal items thrown away( threw away clothes and boots that he bought for me), screamed at in my face; spitting, criticized , everything thrown in my face, choked 3 times( several years ago), silent treatment for weeks , sleeps in the basement unless he wants sex; it goes on. Feeling guilty I suggested a legal separation while continuing counseling( didn't work for him, I still go). He said no, he wants it over and done with. He is so nonchalant about this and I care for him & know I'm doing the right thing. He says to find someone else to love & cherish me cause he don't. How to let go?

2006-12-10 21:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like this guy im talking to right now always tells me im beautiful, and always tries to make me feel good, then he tells me about how honest he is... and how much of a nice ***** to women he is but could still C up shen he needs to. i wanna believe him... but ive had playas before. OR AM I JUST BEING INSECURE???

2006-12-10 21:03:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 21:03:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-10 21:03:11 · 16 answers · asked by Gazeff 1 in Weddings

Every guy I've been interested in or have dated treat me like crap. They either cheat, flirt with other girls, lie to me or break up with me for no reason. Why is this?

2006-12-10 21:02:13 · 14 answers · asked by ` [ [ E l i e B e a n ] ] ; ; 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi Friends !!! My problem is personal, but I want answer on humanitarian grounds.
My cousin sister is a professional writer and writing books for the last 4-5 years.
Few days back she requested me to help her in her computer work as well as proof reading work. I agreed because we are very close with each other. Initially, she told me she would be paying me as per market rates. She took my help not only once but 4 times. However, I was flabbergasted when she tried to compensate me by giving small and old gifts like old clothes. I refused to accept those gifts. She showed her annoyance but I politely said ‘no’. Now, what should I do, I am really not able to forget about the labour I put in for her and her unethical approach, in reality, is heartbreaking and hurting. Can any one of you suggest me what exactly should I do, should I forget about my labour or should I discontinue doing work for her, I am completely confused.
Waiting anxiously for your precious suggestions-Barkha

2006-12-10 21:01:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-10 21:00:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hurt a guy I use to know (cursing over the phone) because of his vague actions towards me (talking about his ex and what they did , being my friend but only having sex with me, asking him to be my boyfriend he said yea but then said no, etc) and now he put's me in his bad list. I apologised, but he said that it was meaningless and that he hate's my gut's but he hopes I have a good life. He also told me I was replaced and I am meaningless now. I felt frantic afterwards. Memories of him won't fade no matter how hard I try. I still have feelings for this guy but how can one express them if he won't give me his phone number or take my words into consideration? I want to write him a letter to tell him a summary of how I feel ( in a kind tone), giving him money for all the things he has ever done for me ( a way to forget him by giving back what was given), and saying I forgive him for treating me like crap. should I? I feel really stuck and therapy doesn't work. Any alternate advice

2006-12-10 20:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by tika ukie 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 25yrs and i have a fiance. we have both decided to actually have sex only after wedding, but we play with each other. something happened, we got naked and he was on top of me and after foreplay he released sperm on my private part but he didnt penetrate me cause am a virgin. is it possible that the sperm might have still entered my vagina and got me pregnant?

2006-12-10 20:56:14 · 23 answers · asked by ugochi o 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 20:53:17 · 15 answers · asked by flying_babyb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the stages that men go through after a break-up with someone they loved? Do they completely turn the page overnight or its a process like for women?

2006-12-10 20:53:16 · 18 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean if it was a really bad one.

2006-12-10 20:52:50 · 41 answers · asked by Panama Jack 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When s/he reciprocated ALL you felt, how'd it make YOU feel?

When s/he DIDNT reciprocate NOTHING you did how'd it make YOU feel?

2006-12-10 20:51:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 20:48:53 · 11 answers · asked by x_chynadoll814_x 4 in Singles & Dating

Please don't just say, Move On! Give me specifics on how do I get her out of my mind. I was never in relationship with her but liked her immensly but she declined to even start a conversation with me. She may be shy or rude, I don't know or She might be having someone?

It's been 2 months, I am unable to get her thoughts out of my mind. I am unable to concentrate on other important things. I am not even thinking about other girls around. Help!

2006-12-10 20:48:40 · 6 answers · asked by Infinite 2 in Singles & Dating

i accidentaly sent a mail to a girl which was for a boy of my class
& now the girl is saying that its was for her which was for some other girl
plz help
i am afraid she will take me to the principal
i have not even speaked to her after this for past 7 days
she was a good friend of mine....

2006-12-10 20:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by counsellor 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and i see him 1 or 2 days a week. It seems like he just never "sleeps". If I didn't stop him I'm pretty sure he'd do it till his penis fell off. We did it 7 times once in the span of like 16 hours, and he could have gone again. Granted he's great at it, and it's flattering having a guy finish and almost immediately want to do it again, but jesus. I'm 19, he's 27, yet somehow i can't keep up. Things get sore, and too much human interaction, not so great. Anyone know of any drugs i could slip him or anything? (yes that's a joke...sort of) but seriously any ideas im having a hard time getting used to this. Any advice is appreciated.

2006-12-10 20:48:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating