Please don't just say, Move On! Give me specifics on how do I get her out of my mind. I was never in relationship with her but liked her immensly but she declined to even start a conversation with me. She may be shy or rude, I don't know or She might be having someone?
It's been 2 months, I am unable to get her thoughts out of my mind. I am unable to concentrate on other important things. I am not even thinking about other girls around. Help!
2006-12-10 20:48:40 · 6 answers · asked by Infinite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's an obsession!!! you need to come to grips with yourself and accept the fact that she is not interested in you...keep yourself busy with things that you like to do...it's almost like you've secluded yourself from the rest of the world...do you think she is sitting around dwelling on you??? no she's not... she's enjoying life to the fullest...and that's what you need to start doing once you give yourself a chance to live life again she will gradually leave your mind and befor you know it you want even be thinking about her anymore ....good luck.
2006-12-10 21:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 months?! you've waited too long and she's probably gotten distant by now. I've had that before but as soon as i felt that way, i just tried every way of contacting her, and i felt fine after we talked. Instead i began to lose interest in her afterwards since she was not replying. Give her some time, like a few days (3-4) or even a week, then contact her with a message saying if she wants to go out for dinner, or maybe lunch because you want to see her. Go from how she responds to that, and if she doesnt respond at all, means she's moved on or doesnt want you around.
2006-12-10 20:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting someone out of your mind is very hard to do. The best thing is stop idyllically looking at her. She must not be all that you think she is or she would at least speak to you.
Go out with someone else. Not as a revenge type thing but really looking for another outlet for your energy. If you have asked her out and she has said no then take it as it is and learn from it.
More than likely she would not be what you think she is in the long run.
A guy i had a crush on in middle school wouldn't even look at me later on I found out he was gay. So that explained it LOL
Good Luck honey
2006-12-10 20:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the issue is you want to forget this girl. This is easier said than done.You need to act like a man stop sitting on your behind,hiding your tail between your legs and get up tell her that you believe that she is your Miss right then tell her what you have been feeling about her.Look serious and talk with sense.look her straight in the eye and don't flinch because she may not take you seriously.
All the best but remember that in love you have to take risks and be ready to have your heart tampered with or worse still broken.
2006-12-10 21:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by papa askofu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to throw her out of your mind that means you hate her, because she is not talking to you or whatever. Even if we tell some ways I think you wont do it.
2006-12-10 20:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is make up your mind. if you realy want to forget her, then try getting close to another girl, get a new girlfriend. i know its not easy and it takes time but thats reality, it would definately take time to heal but make an effort if you really want to forget her.
2006-12-10 21:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by ugochi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋