i've been marred fo 4 years now but i hate the one i became because of his orders which is i cant work so i accept he dont want to give me a pocket money so i accept he make me cut the most of my frind ship and dont agree with the rest i still talk with which is 3 frinds and i accept and now he start to be more agresive by insalting me which i cant accept any more and he began to do that infront of the kids he make afraide of any thing i do and sometime make be ashamed of my self cause i didnt wear what he think is good and do what he say i dont know what to do can any body help me????????????
2006-12-10 21:11:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to your husband let him know how you feel. Maybe marriage counseling will help.
No one can make you feel inferior without your permission
2006-12-10 21:18:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lolitta 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It was really hard to understand but i will still try to answer ur question. I think u should take ur kids n leave him cause noone has the rite to abuse or be abused by someone else. Leave him before he starts beating u up infront of the kids which will be a bad memory for them.
2006-12-11 05:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to sound nasty, but how old are you really ?? I personally think this is a made up question by some 6 or 7 yr old !If l am wrong l apologise but you really should go back to school and learn to read and write before you ask another question, l'm not answering this one as it is just too hard to follow, like l said l do apologise if l am wrong !! Don't think so though !!!!
2006-12-11 05:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he controls you and will become more and more abusive. get out now. social services can get you and kids a place to stay until you are able to make it on your own. divorce him as you are not doing favor for kids either in staing with him. the kids get stressed with the tension. talk to a lawyer today. many have free consultations. good luck.
2006-12-11 05:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out now. Go to a local domestic violence shelter and they will help you. If his behavior is getting worse you are putting yourself in danger. Good luck
2006-12-11 06:15:21 · answer #5 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some help from a domestic violence expert. He is escalating. Soon he will start to hit you. It can only get worse. Sounds like a real loser.
2006-12-11 07:18:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time use spell check please it makes reading easier. You need to get out right now this man is about to get even more abusive. There are shelters for women and they will help you.Take your children with you. I have been there. It is just terrible to feel like a walking piece of broken glass. Please get out.
2006-12-11 05:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Belinda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you ask God for guidance and then seek counsel from a trusted older relative.
2006-12-11 05:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by Classique 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now....get out before it gets worse and get the kids out of the situation too. He's emotionally abusing you and NO ONE deserves that. Get out before it becomes physical abuse!
2006-12-11 05:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Angela M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a control freak. If he won't agree to go to therapy, you should leave him.
2006-12-11 08:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋