Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I have a sister in law who the family has not seen or heard from in about 15 years. They know she married and had at least one child, but they don't know how to go about finding her. She is from El Salvador.

2006-12-10 23:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by dawnventura 1 in Family

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-10 23:14:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's with someone new but we're still seeing eachother, we split cos my parents didnt like him but how can i win him over again?

2006-12-10 23:14:14 · 20 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Singles & Dating

before he buys a sheep instead?

2006-12-10 23:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Singles & Dating

I was divorced in January 2006, I have paid the CSA, extorianate money since then about £400 per month for one child, she has the house, she pays no bills and since then has remarried, had a son and now is requesting another amount of money. She says this is because my daughter is 16 in March next year and she cannot live on the money the CSA give her.
Just for this post, I have not seen my daughter since then because she deny me my rights and stuck 2 fingers up to the court.

2006-12-10 23:04:27 · 9 answers · asked by The_Informer 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The girl is just too obnoxious. She's shallow, boring and has gained 25lb since I met her in January.
Her sence of humor sucks and she's lame in bed.
The deal is, we just moved into a house and we've purchassed tickets to visit her family for Christmas...

Dang it!!!

2006-12-10 23:03:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all..
Ive been seeing this gal naw for 6 weeks, we go out for dinner/go on the lash together, chill out at each others pads. always txtn/ringin etc... we've had s*x a few times.. we seem to be doing 'couply' things all the time..

She feels like a G/F, am i 'seeing her' or is she my G/F...?

If so whats the difference..?

2006-12-10 23:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy says he really really likes you, pays you compliments and says that you have loads in common etc and you have kissed, yet he says he isnt ready for a relationship, what does this mean?

im totally confused???

he is sorted in his career and has his own place. he is 29.
im sorted in my career and have my own place too and im 25.

2006-12-10 23:02:12 · 23 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

The pressies are EXTRA special. He is an old soldier who used to sign late meal chitties in Egypt. So, all the pressies will be apt. There are also some photes in the parcel. Will he be pleased ? Would you like a parcel like this ?

2006-12-10 23:01:08 · 2 answers · asked by tonyflair2002 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother is causing so many arguments between my family. he decided to go into my room n steal 250 pounds from my safe, to get a tounge pericing n his gf bday pres. my parents went made at the pericein cause a few years ago my older bro got it done n it swelled up n he could have died. they have told him he either takes it out or leaves. ( my parents arnt our real parents we were both adopted) n he says he doesnt care as they arent our real parents n that he wishes that we were all dead. he now has toldme that i have to chose between him n them, they only problem is that my adoptive parents have been my paretns since i was 3 n i am now 16. i love them to bits but i dont want to lose my brother as he is the only real family i have left. it is all over a tounge percing n i am in the middle. i need ideas of how to keep my family together. plz help

2006-12-10 23:00:04 · 15 answers · asked by samantha j 2 in Friends

my brother is causing so many arguments between my family. he decided to go into my room n steal 250 pounds from my safe, to get a tounge pericing n his gf bday pres. my parents went made at the pericein cause a few years ago my older bro got it done n it swelled up n he could have died. they have told him he either takes it out or leaves. ( my parents arnt our real parents we were both adopted) n he says he doesnt care as they arent our real parents n that he wishes that we were all dead. he now has toldme that i have to chose between him n them, they only problem is that my adoptive parents have been my paretns since i was 3 n i am now 16. i love them to bits but i dont want to lose my brother as he is the only real family i have left. it is all over a tounge percing n i am in the middle. i need ideas of how to keep my family together. plz help

2006-12-10 22:59:53 · 8 answers · asked by samantha j 2 in Friends

Need friends?????
Need friends?????
i need friends that i can e-mail if you (we can be friends) are interested please leave me your e-mail in a answer form THANKS!!!! , OR CONTACT ME DIRECTLY

2006-12-10 22:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by R I O 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean how does it really go when making love? the first time and afterwards??? I had only oral sex with my girlfriend but never the real thing..

2006-12-10 22:57:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My one true love is on the internet and we have never met. We have been best friends for 5 years, and have been together for the past year. He is stable for me....We make plans of meeting, but I don't know how that's going to work out; I can't tell the future. There is a guy here, who is here for me to see. I want to be with my true love but I'm scared. (I'm going to choose my first love) What do you think I should do? Serious answers only please.

2006-12-10 22:57:37 · 6 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Singles & Dating

Varied answers please.

2006-12-10 22:57:27 · 12 answers · asked by robin j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 22:56:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend wants me to go back out with
him, he told me he loves me and that i was the only one he want
to be with. and i do have feeling for him and i dont noe why
but i just want to be friends with him cuz i dont want his life style, the bad boy stuff. on the weekend i was at his house but then
he started to put his arm around some girl, and i got mad.
but i noe i dont want to b with him. but deep down i like him lots.
im just so confused about wut i want. especially with him.

2006-12-10 22:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by d_amber87 1 in Singles & Dating

I always thought that when she got a bf she would grow out of it, ore be shamed out of it, but shes a bit sloppy... and just lets him see her smelly mess. I hate it, but I hate conflict evenmore. How can I encourage her to take more pride in her personal grooming and her room?

2006-12-10 22:56:28 · 5 answers · asked by askauntkt 2 in Friends

What should I get her for Christmas? She seems to be hinting at coffee beans. Keeps saying she loves coffee. But is that a good Xmas gift?

2006-12-10 22:52:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:52:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 47 is this too old to find a girlfriend a little bit younger then me

2006-12-10 22:52:02 · 35 answers · asked by christopherfarrow3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iam needing something to clean the diamond in my engagement ring, does nebody know of anything? something that will not damage the jewel.

2006-12-10 22:51:25 · 28 answers · asked by linzi_parkes 1 in Weddings

2006-12-10 22:50:39 · 10 answers · asked by timothy peralta 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by qaziahsan417 1 in Family

Me and my wife have been married for 3 years, we have had our up and downs and have had moments i will remember for ever, but as of the last year all we seem to do is fight and argue to the point of her moving out. I came to the point that i said allot of things to her i shouldnt of have said, things to make her sad and cry, i behaved in a way that sometimes i was not sure why my behavior was that way. I did not tell her how special she realy was to me and how much i truly loved her, even though deep inside i wanted to tell her everything. Sometimes i got mad at the stupidest things and take out my anger on her, i know im a jerk and deserve what i get right? But listen, dont judge me my side of the story is I worked hard for everything we have, and never say no to her on what she wanted, but the thing that made me mad the most is her obsession with talking to people online (guys) I know that if i told her how i felt more often she wouldnt need the internet to find attention.

2006-12-10 22:49:09 · 7 answers · asked by brigidog1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend's mother keeps calling me and expects me 2 do de same. Im sick of dis behaviour 4rm her but we've been 'through a lot 2gether' & it really hurts me 2 treat her like dis but I really think dat I need 2 move on & so should she. Pls help.

2006-12-10 22:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know someone who had had enough of their kids cat messing all over the house so he took it to the vet or something and had it destroyed only to get home and find their cat sat on the mat, It turns out he had one of his neighbours cats destroyed by mistake.

2006-12-10 22:48:00 · 4 answers · asked by Loo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son was in a tragic motorcycle accident 12/8/06. He suffered a crushed left leg, knee cap, foot, and fractured vertabrae as well as a broken rib in his back. As his MOM i live in illinois he lives in California----I've tried calling him to see how he's doing only to be told he's busy visiting with friends and he hangs up on me.

How can I get through to him that I'm concerned? Why is he being this way?

2006-12-10 22:45:50 · 8 answers · asked by aunt_beeaa 5 in Family

2006-12-10 22:45:24 · 19 answers · asked by d_amber87 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever intentionally hid your wealth in hopes of finding an honest woman?

2006-12-10 22:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by Red Winged Bandit 4 in Singles & Dating