if a guy says he really really likes you, pays you compliments and says that you have loads in common etc and you have kissed, yet he says he isnt ready for a relationship, what does this mean?
im totally confused???
he is sorted in his career and has his own place. he is 29.
im sorted in my career and have my own place too and im 25.
2006-12-10 23:02:12 · 23 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is like he says - he is not ready for relationship - sorry.
2006-12-10 23:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal.. m sorry to say but u gotto know it.. Some ppl dont wana get into relationship cos either they might've had a bad experience n so neve wana get into another commitment, or may be he is juz lukin for one night stand, or may be he is takin time to think n decide if things could actually work out between you both. (NOTE: Most of the men prefer uncommitted relationships as they wana enjoy with many others before gettin settled with ya) If anythin wrong u feel abt me sayin this, curse n smile...Simple :-)
2006-12-11 07:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by sanju_j007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means exactly what he said, hes not ready right now- he just needs time, so be a friend until he's ready for more. Do not sleep with him or kiss him or anything else like that until he's ready to be with you properly.
2006-12-11 07:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
means he's a player - don't bother. he's basically saying i'm going to mess you around..and if you let him he will. give him space, give enough to keep him hanging and then back off. trust, guys like that are not worth the grief they produce. you will never know where you stand and as fantastic as i'm sure he is, he can't care that much or he would risk a relationship. bets are he tries not to make any ties so he can never get done for cheating. sorry babe xxx
2006-12-11 07:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by lilsam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what he means is that he doesnt want a relationship hun - some men just like the single life - he doesnt want to loose you as a kissing partner and possibly more should it arise - so he's playing it safe by sayings hes not ready - really though - I think hes saying he wants to keep his options open to more than one lady and he's just not willing to commit. xx
2006-12-11 07:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesn't know if it's right or wrong to go in a relationship with you! he's confused, in other words you have to prove to him that you are really worth it and make him feel it's ok to move on -that if you want to go on with the relationship- other than that, just let forget about it, btw, how did ya kiss while you both not in a relationship? bang bang bang?
2006-12-11 07:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by pal970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be totally confused!!!!!!!!
You know what, it has happen to me...
One of them was and is still gay!
Honest!
Sometime they are in denying and then to confuse them even more, they come ac cross a nice girl like you and me!
Other option, try to find out what YOU feel for him first and God knows it is not easy for us girls, even I know!
But when a guy acts like this, he sends insecurity and you know as good as me, you hate it!
So, it is bad enough if you can not imagine your future without him, but what if it's only the frustration to be send picking grapes...?
2006-12-11 07:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by klaartedubois 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away now before you get in to deep. He only wants sex. He will tell you tht he loves you, but if he truly loved you the way you deserve to be loved he would give you the world if you asked for it.
Dont believe a word he says. He wants you for just one thing. CONVIENIENCE
2006-12-11 08:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him an option, give him just a part of you,not the whole.
Let the search continue for that lucky fellow with whom you may feel one.Never know that lucky young man may be this only.give some time to yourself.
2006-12-11 07:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by anita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Sit down and talk. Some people do not want to lose what they found by being too eager.
2006-12-11 07:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by Morningdew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋