My one true love is on the internet and we have never met. We have been best friends for 5 years, and have been together for the past year. He is stable for me....We make plans of meeting, but I don't know how that's going to work out; I can't tell the future. There is a guy here, who is here for me to see. I want to be with my true love but I'm scared. (I'm going to choose my first love) What do you think I should do? Serious answers only please.
2006-12-10 22:57:37 · 6 answers · asked by *~*~*~* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really cant decide till you meet.
make sure you are in a neutral place - play safe and take it slow. online relationships can be misleading as they are only one dimensional.
thats not to say things wont work (my fella and i met on the net and have been together 10 years) but take it slow to start and things may blossom beautifully.
2006-12-10 23:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ruthie Baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should meet early on in Internet dating to avoid emotionally investing in someone you made up in your mind. If you meet for coffee and the person across doesn't look like the brochure in your mind it can be devastating. This is possibly the fear that has kept you from meeting in real life but I would urge you to meet soon and settle this matter in your heart because it's a long way to fall if prince charming is well...let's say an ordinary person good with words on the Internet and mainly focused on how life would be if it all happened the way he planned...
2006-12-11 07:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pilgrim 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of being in love, is knowing all there is to know about the other, and seeing how you two have never met, you know nothing about him. You do not know if he is even a he, you don't know what he is like 24/7, and you don't know if he is who he says he is at all. Though it could be just as you say, and the truth could be as you say, well, that would be great. But don't count on it, go with the best there is in your life....and don't confuse fantasy with what is real.
2006-12-11 07:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your case is a bit hard but i'll try my best to help you out,,,,your first love is not really the person that you love because you have a true love and that is the one you met in the net let me give you a bit of advice you have to meet this guy because you cannot say you love somebody unless you see him and be with him in person,its easy to get attratced through the net words can eat us up girls that's the ugly matter of it so i guess you have to spend sometime with this net guy and observe first and youll know if he's the one,,,,,and lastly, pray for this person
2006-12-11 07:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by flannan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this guy you talk to lives close by and you can meet each other. If it's a long distance relationship it isn't going to work. If you want to be with your true love then be with him.
2006-12-11 07:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound really stuck.
It's been five years?!?
He's your true love?
If so, meet him and see if it's even worth it.
Seriously.
2006-12-11 07:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋