Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

I am 36yr old govt. servent guy living in delhi. I have two marriage proposals. I have not seen any of the two girls. Suggest me whom should I chose to marry. Here are the details:-
First Girl is 31yrs old, EXTRA SLIM, wheatish colour, completed M.A. in sociology from furrakhabad (UP), cannot write even her bio-data in English but she knows how to perform mostly household works , her fmly is even ready to make marriage arrangements in my city. She as well as her family members is also taking care of us i.e.BEHAVES VERY POLITELY. Yesterday her family members visited our home and her elder married brother requested me again and again to consider seriously about her (his sister) and when I said that she is extra slim, he said that although she is slim, she is (health wise) fit. He even said that if we like she could even undergo any medical check-up.

Second Girl is 24yrs old, Seem Perfectly Healthy, Fair Colour, doing M.A., also teaching primary classes in a local English medium school. Her family is well educated. Her father says I have nothing to give as dowary. Her family DOES NOT EVEN SHOW ANY CARING GESTURE. Her father and family doesnot compromise at any point (even to change marriage venue to my city as it will be costly affair for us to go to brides town and perform celebration there).

What my sis thinks is that it will be better to marry the second girl as she is young and because of this will conceive soon after marriage in comparison to aged girls who generally get many complications but the problem is there fmly members are rude

Kindly think twice i.e. seriously as this is a turning point for my life and suggest whom should we choose out of the two proposals. Kindly reply soon before 14th Dec.06

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2006-12-10 22:43:19 · 21 answers · asked by devildog_3025 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-10 22:41:44 · 8 answers · asked by angela o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-10 22:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Iv been with him for 13 months, and all he has ever brought me is a white gold ring, a silver necklace and two red roses!!!
He works for god sake, and i am quite high maintence, i like to be wined and dined, but he never takes me out, and when we do, i usually end up paying most of the bill!!
I mean im a student and i manage to buy him the odd gift like expensive aftershave and a gucci tie, but i dont buy him anything now because i think he should buy me something first! BUT his excuse is that i dont buy him things so i dont deserve it either!!
For our 1st anniversary he didnt buy me a gift because he said he didnt get paid on time, but i have yet to buy him a gift because i have been busy with uni and i have had many assignments, but im thinking should i buy him something???

Am i being selfish??????!

2006-12-10 22:40:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:38:54 · 6 answers · asked by qaziahsan417 1 in Family

2006-12-10 22:38:44 · 11 answers · asked by Waineo G 1 in Singles & Dating

All he does is watch tv and play video games when hes not working, The only time he helps me with the kids is when he is yelling at them. He swears that he loves us but has become someone i dont even know. And to tell you the truth i cant stand him any more. I cook , clean, work a full time job and still find time to play with my kids. He is lazy , and angry all the time. I am sure he suffers from some type of mental illness because he has way to many mood swings. My kids still love him so much and he refused help what should i do?

2006-12-10 22:37:38 · 17 answers · asked by Notsogreatlife31 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think it is not even an issue.

I just wanted to ask to ppl what they think.

It doesn't matter to me.

2006-12-10 22:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been sitting with that man several times chatting about various subject. I really like his way of thinkin and his views about life. Last time we talked i told em about myself and explained my views and philosphy about expandin the self conscious through being in such different situation and encounter em by your own. I told em that a person should try everything in their life ( even if it was bad) jus for once... so he will grow up and be resposible for everythin they do.
Every time he sees me around he flirts and call me nice names.
But last time we met he told me that he desires me.
He is married and has kids. Should i try to have my experiment with em. It's jus harmony you know....chemsitry between me and em. I duno what to do now...I'm bit confused about this issue.
I was thinking about me and him go inside a lab and lock the door and then i would wear sexy clothes and and seduce em, but i jus want to tell him that he should not cheat on his wife too! so....Hezhot dam

2006-12-10 22:35:09 · 30 answers · asked by haya D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 22:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Kanchan B 2 in Family

I cant be ars#d with this anymore you are your all too uptight you need a good sh#g! I thought that this would be full of desperate house wives or lonely people that would be up for a good time! Its full of weird freaks, you say im a horrible person at least i enjoy myself and get attention from real people! You all worry too much my girlfriend puts up with me chill everyone oh yeah and she would never ever cheat on me she doesnt need too! I would invite you all to the our wedding but you would all lynch me! Get over yourselfs and get a life! ps i wouldnt shag anyone on here anyway your all too boring! I bet your all crap in bed long live the dirty tarts thats what i say if it wasnt for them i wouldnt be the person i am! Enjoy your weird little questions and answers! x

2006-12-10 22:34:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a big problem ive been with my girl friend for a year now and i live with her and have strong feelings for her but she always moans at me and doesnt like me going out, about 7 months ago i started a new job where i met a girl that i get on with and i really like her i.e cant stop thinking about her and she doesnt know this. recently i was told by some one that she has a big crush on me i still havnt told her how i feel about her because we might get closer and i might leave my girl friend and every day i go through this and its **** i want girl 2 but am scared of life with out the girl ive been with for a year but despratley want girl 2 and this goes round in my head all day every day... whats the best path to follow?

2006-12-10 22:33:36 · 15 answers · asked by Ryman 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-10 22:33:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have very nice friend,we like each other,we decide that we understand each other then marry.but how i know that he loves me or not? becz i love him.i want to marry with him.

2006-12-10 22:31:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, but he's older and has a gf. I see him a ton and some times he flirts w/ me. I just can't get over him even thought I know i don't have a chance. What do i do?

2006-12-10 22:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by Future Mrs. Urie 1 in Singles & Dating

why i am i so shy when i see a nice girl who i like very much

2006-12-10 22:31:00 · 4 answers · asked by christopherfarrow3 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.1 MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U

2006-12-10 22:27:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a date hasn't gone well, and you sense that at the time, do you need to know the reason why? Or will it make it worse? Should you ask them what it was they didnt' like about you, or simply delete their number and move on? Easier said than done though...opinions please

2006-12-10 22:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just looking for opinions. I'm 26, and I've only been withone guy a few times and that was emotional diaster because it ended up that he was just playing mind games with me and I got my heart broken.
So, what's the CONSERATIVE norm? 3 months, waiting until he says he loves you, waitng for a commitment like being exclusive?

Plus how many sexual partners do you think a woman should have in a lifetime in this day and age?

Oh, this is important, I have no interest in ever getting married, maybe one day living with a guy, but not marriage. IMHO I think marrige is for people who want kids, which I don't.

BTW, I'm not dating anyone, I just wanted to know some opinions.

2006-12-10 22:27:38 · 15 answers · asked by Triquetra 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:27:35 · 15 answers · asked by Hem 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 year old female and im good looking. I liked this guy back in highschool and he didnt even want to go out with me. We remained friends i guess and all of a sudden for the past 2 months he's been telling me how much he regrets not going out with me and how we should have gotten to know each other better... He said he doesnt expect me to forgive him he just wants us to start from scratch. I still have a small attraction for him i just dont know what to do... he's really persistent. And he comes from a rich/good family and i am surprised he doesnt have a girlfriend a lot of people thought he was gay. What should i DO?!! we're both 18

2006-12-10 22:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by kitana_fabiola 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm in year seven and i like this girl. We have gone out twice before and somehow stayed really good friends. She doesnt know i like her and all i want is to be good friends with her. Do you have any ideas about how i can stop liking her? I know she probably is never going to like me again so thats y i just want to stay friends. Every time i see her i play it cool and everything and just sorta forget that i like her (if that makes sense) we talk heaps over the phone and have stayed great friends.HELP

2006-12-10 22:26:00 · 6 answers · asked by Aydos N 1 in Singles & Dating

some of these questions are unbvelievable. one guy desnt even seem to think theres a problem with him cheating on his gf! I know all guys can't be like this but seriously how can anyone think its ok to treat someone who loves you like this? really need some reassurance here that there are still some decent guys out there.

2006-12-10 22:25:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 22:24:21 · 11 answers · asked by igottanoe 3 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend has recently taken a break from his girlfriend (mutual agreement between them both) due to the fact he wants kids now and she doesnt know if she ever wants them. The break started 13th October 2006 (they are re-discussing their relationship after xmas) and they met up for drinks about 3 weeks after he realised that he was quite happy to forfeit kids for her and wanted to get back. He bought this up when met again a week later and she said she didnt want to talk about it. He has since asked her if he can go to her 30th birthday and she said "no". Im not any good at relationships so what do you think this all means? Does she want to get back with him? Has anyone had a similar experience?

2006-12-10 22:24:18 · 6 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Singles & Dating

plz be very honest!

2006-12-10 22:23:20 · 24 answers · asked by MonAmi 1 in Friends

from wife?

2006-12-10 22:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce