I have been sitting with that man several times chatting about various subject. I really like his way of thinkin and his views about life. Last time we talked i told em about myself and explained my views and philosphy about expandin the self conscious through being in such different situation and encounter em by your own. I told em that a person should try everything in their life ( even if it was bad) jus for once... so he will grow up and be resposible for everythin they do.
Every time he sees me around he flirts and call me nice names.
But last time we met he told me that he desires me.
He is married and has kids. Should i try to have my experiment with em. It's jus harmony you know....chemsitry between me and em. I duno what to do now...I'm bit confused about this issue.
I was thinking about me and him go inside a lab and lock the door and then i would wear sexy clothes and and seduce em, but i jus want to tell him that he should not cheat on his wife too! so....Hezhot dam
2006-12-10 22:35:09 · 30 answers · asked by haya D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he told me that he did it with other gurls from out college.
But we can hide and no body can see...I desire em!
2006-12-10 22:48:08 · update #1
ok can i have a french kiss with em that's all...?
2006-12-10 22:59:55 · update #2
No, you will be destroying your life, his and his childrens. Please don't, you will find someone even better than him, give it time
2006-12-10 22:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by zelin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. If one of my teachers told me that they desired me, I would gag and probably punch them out. You should definintely not start seeing this guy, you never know if he could become an offender or dangerous. You are a lot younger than him, and he may begin to think that he can control you. Also, his family still needs him, however unloyal he may be. Although it may sound . . . cruel, it may be in your best interest to start recording things that he says, no matter how much you like him, and report it to his wife. When a grown man falls in love with a student while he has a family, I think that his wife has the right to know so that she can decide the fate of the relationship. Good luck!
2006-12-11 06:44:24 · answer #2 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply you are spoiling your life and his total family.He is married but u are a student,there are so many handsome unmarried guys to love u in this world,it is funny to choose a half old man. He will definitely cheat his wife if u give hands to him.Think well becasue tomorrow he will fall in love with another student and it goes on then what will you do.Gently find a fresh guy who loves u alone. Happy feature.
2006-12-11 06:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by ananthan j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this man respects you he wouldn't ask you out, and since he knew you want to try everything in life he is using you.
If you are weak against his looks then its your fault. I know how it feel to loose self for the hot looks but there something exists called "restraint" repression of feelings. That has helped me over time being alone.
One more thing, "no regrets" applies to mistakes that happened mistankenly and not purposely.
2006-12-11 07:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Cspeedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything foolish!!!!
meaning....dont see him anymore....
Firstly idont agree with your views of doing verything atleast once ..jsut so that you can grow up...would you kill someone to find out if killing is bad or not!!!!..
Just think of all the heartbreak you would be causing if you go ahead with this thing....his family will be shattered..his kids..his wife.....when you consider the pros and the cons ..similar point of views and compatable philosophies are not worth breaking up a family....be wise enough to pull out when its safe!!!..when you can get out withourt getting hurt and without hurting others!!!
2006-12-11 06:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by johny harlow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Yes, it is cool to experiment. Sometimes, however, it is best to take the advise of others who have been there before. This is a no win situation all around.
2006-12-11 07:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are wrong....he shouldn't be flirting with his student and you shouldn't be thinking about seducing a married man....the reaction to a bad karma always comes back hard and fast.
2006-12-11 06:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO!
1 he is your teacher
2 he is 36 years old
3 he is married
4 he has kids
5 its against the law
listen if u really care dont do it cuz if u get caught he will lose his job and u wil never see him again he could also lose his teaching license or go to JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!be smart
2006-12-11 06:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to others in your class about the subject instead of the teacher on a personal basis. your teacher is marid with children wherea your peers ar likely not to be. they may also desire you but you wont know if you dont try and sppek to them about the subject.
2006-12-11 06:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by louise h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you to do. he's hot and that's hard. but, he's married for a reason too. does he love his wife and kids? i guess you should just think about what would happen to his career and family if this were to be exposed. oh, another thing, don't trust anybody with this info. you know how gossip spreads. especially juicy gossip like this. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!! you can't trust people that you think you can. people are VERY scandalous!
2006-12-11 06:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just stupid or are you born like that.....
This teacher is obviously not realy interested in you just a quick fling, and what happens if the fling leaves a baby behind what then....No get this idea out of your head and stick to kids your age....
This teacher should not be permitted to teach !!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 06:42:41 · answer #11 · answered by Kakhuisdraaksemaat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋