My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-10 22:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to drop him. He may well contact you again, it's the pattern of a serial abuser. He's focused on you as his property and you don't have to keep letting him get to you. I have an ex that did the same thing, right down the text messages. Do you best to stay away from him and do NOT answer the messages.
2006-12-10 22:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in case you're nevertheless waiting for his call then you definately've a extreme undertaking and choose help. female, whats incorrect with you, the guy has subject concerns which he has to handle and that too enormous ones. the place do you slot into this image. you ought to document him to the law enforcement officers the subsequent time he even tries any abuse. Take Care and dont fall into this catch or you will possibly not stay to work out yet another day.
2016-10-14 10:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by fugere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can abuse you then he can't miss you. Many women are abused everyday and hide it from the world. Let him go, do not get cuaght up in such a tragic cycle.
2006-12-10 22:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you do not want a loser like him !! You are better then that . If he abuses you physicaly or emotionaly then stay away from him. Get you a man who deserves your time ! remember loving a man shouldn't hurt enough to make you cry and if he loves you enough he won't make you cry !
2006-12-10 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by mindy s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back to a guy who is abusive.
Why don't to completely cut off contact with him?? Change your fone number....seriously, if you 2 get back together you know you will hear about this dancing crap throughout your relationship....time to move on girl.
2006-12-10 22:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG - stay away from the lunatic!
Why would you want to be with someone who treats you like crap?
He wont change, ever!
Find someone who will treat you like a queen or more so, like a human and not a fricken puppet!
2006-12-10 22:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who do this have done this before, more than likely, The best thing you can do is report him to the police, protect yourself! I don't understand how you can miss this jerk after all this?? Be respectable to yourself and forget this looser!!
2006-12-10 22:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by J*A*K*C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said you were cheap and a prostitute. He said he wants to clap and abuse you. He threatened to break your hands. I could see why you miss him and want him back.
2006-12-10 22:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ready! Stop counting, Start living and growing up.
2006-12-10 22:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away change your number report it to the authorities if he loved you he wouldn't abuse you
2006-12-10 22:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋