I like this guy, but he's older and has a gf. I see him a ton and some times he flirts w/ me. I just can't get over him even thought I know i don't have a chance. What do i do?
2006-12-10 22:31:18 · 5 answers · asked by Future Mrs. Urie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First things first get a hold of yourself. If you mess around with men that are already in a relationship that tells one thing right there that they are not honest. If he is doing to his g/f he will do it to you.
2006-12-10 22:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by CRUNKMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honor and respect his decision to be with a female thats not you maybe you think when he's talking he's flirting with you cause the carefull choise of words but if he is coming out calling you honey/baby then maybe he is looking for a new woman if thats the case forget about him dont let him use you to be that girl that he can cheat on his girlfriend with try a little patience and SELFCONTROL is the key if he says he broke up then maybe its your chance but just dont go jumping at the chance just (IF) HE SAID SO cause his words could ring false and it could be just what you wanna hear totally ignoring the truth in his voice that hes lieing you just never know beteween truth and honesty just dont be that fool that everyone tells the ever so popular saying (I TOLD YOU SO) you know ? and you heard of statuatorie rape that means if your younger than 18 and he's older and one or both of you know it all it takes is one phone call and hes gone to prison it dont matter what EITHER ONE of you say the laws the law.
2006-12-11 06:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by soki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who really liked you would have left their gf for you before leading you up the garden path.
Think about it.
And...Don't get involved with someone attached.Nobody will ever respect you for it, and not you either.I was recently cheated on and it is the worst ever!!!
Chat soon,
Love ya Babez
XX
2006-12-11 06:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your not the one I flirt with. My wife is going to kill me. I'm way to old for you Hon. I like to flirt with pretty young girls, it makes me feel young again and, I like to get a reaction out of them but, it doesn't go beyond that. If your the one I told I like you but, that's all, as a friend, I mean it Hon, just as a friend.
2006-12-11 06:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably like him that much BECAUSE you don't feel you have a chance with him.
It's a strange safety mechanism.
You can allow these strong feelings to grow because you will never act on them.
2006-12-11 06:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋