My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.1 MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-10 22:27:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is he misbehaving.According to reports a guy who is that paranoid is too possesive or he is having an affair. it is good you broke up with him and now you have to move on.One of exes was like that.It seemed like he had adouble personality.He would abuse me and the next minute confess his love.If i talked to anyone he thought I was sleeping with them.I changed all my contacts and mummed.I never even reply his phone calls cos he would mess up with my mood for days. He still sends peopel to tell me He would like to be my friend.With friends like him who needs enemies.
Just forget him and assume anything he says is BS cos you know yourself better than he does, after all who is he to tell you what you ought/ought not to do.
2006-12-10 22:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the man obviously is a very weak individual that feels he can make you want him if he makes you feel like crap! do not fall for it don't be afraid to seek help from your father or brother or the police although i feel they would be the last resort as they never seem to do any good unless the spotlight is on but don't keep it inside it will kill you from fear if he contacts you record the call or if he text save it to show a judge this will aide you in obtaining a order of protection. dont wait if you think he is capable of hurting you let as many people know as you can ie; your parents, his parents, your school or work, talk to as many people that you feel can influence him and DO NOT TRUST HIM! good luck and god bless! peace!
2006-12-10 22:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by scottysnaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the silly person Khaled, telling you he loves you. Nobody who loves another treats them this way. He's real bad news, he get's in touch when there's no-one else available for him at the time. Change your phone number and keep well clear of him, he gets off on hurting you. Break contact or keep getting stressed by him. You choose.
2006-12-10 22:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Honey W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
amm, talk to him y try to contact him by yourself or move on because of his words to isn't that rued??, for me yes, two words.. move on....... since you Miss him go ahead call him!!, you should not have with that guy u end up with a break up, this love life is hard to understand because of the positive and the negative reasons if u miss him allot call him now!! get the phone!1 and say your sori, gud luk girl!!! wish u all d bst! to u and your bf!!
~melissa~
2006-12-10 22:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by melissa c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH THIS PIECE OF SCUM! Ignore his texts, don't talk to him and especially don't see him. HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU! He just wants someone to control.
NO WOMAN SHOULD EVER BE ABUSED NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES.
You should get a restraining order against him because I don't think he'll ever stop stalking you this way.
2006-12-10 22:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Triquetra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he abuses you verbally/physically why be bothered? He did you a favor and called it quit. Don't you hear the "whisper" of the message or do you need the thump on the head.
2006-12-10 22:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would you so much love to: Kiss--Snookie Monster Hug--Audrey Want to head for a drink with--Diandra And which could make you...: Hide from them if you happen to ever noticed them---None Make them keep the night time---All of them.
2016-09-03 08:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lovbes u very much more than the ordinary.
these messages are springing from his jealousy and not from his heart.
His cure is to take a date with him and sit and talk frankly about everything with a touch of love, he will be cured and u will put him as a ring in ur hand.
trust me.
I had the same thing before.
2006-12-10 22:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Khaled 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave him alone and get as far away from him as possible i have been there for 2 1/2 years he really abused me i got out and that was the best thing that i ever did if you dont leave him alone he will eventually do you some serious harm please please leave him be for your safety and be careful you dont know what he is capable of
2006-12-10 22:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by PASSION 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just quit messaging this guy and move on yourself. You should have better than this!!! Do you think so little of yourself that you would put up with this???
2006-12-10 22:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋